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Was it a mistake leaving my gf?

So we broke up a while ago on good terms, but we had one big argument recently where I tried to communicate how I felt about something she did and she took it very badly and started saying stuff like I’m abusing her and manipulating her and she’s tired of it. All I asked was why she chose to not come see me the one day a week we can see each other and it was literally a question and she just blew up. I wasn’t happy with how she was talking to me so I told her I want nothing more to do with her and cut all contact but now I’m worried if it was a bit of a rash decision. Any ideas if I should leave it or maybe try to talk again? Thanks 

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    No most females are fake thirsty thots

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Maybe you won't be so ready to pull that "I'm dumping you" crap with your next girlfriend, huh? She called your bluff. She's plenty pissed. There's probably going to be some grovelling on your part or she'll just give you the "Miss me now? Nyah nyah nyah" song and dance. 

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    If all you did was ask her why she chose not to come, you didn’t do what you set out to communicate. You didn’t tell her how you felt.

    That’s a problem if you wanted her to know. She’ll assume she knows, and likely get it wrong without your direct input. Your question didn’t help, so she probably took it the wrong way.

    Telling her you want nothing more to do with her doesn’t shed any light either. So, if you’re going to talk to her now, get your feelings on the table, both of yours.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    You should try to talk to her about it and see how she is feeling. Respectfully communicate with each other and come to a sensible agreement. If she isn't up to it move on and at least you tried. Good luck! 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    If you feel you were wrong and you miss her and provided she isn't with anyone else now, talk to her and apologize and see what she thinks. If you don't feel you were wrong in any way let it be and move on.

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