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How do I bring up the issue to my girlfriend that she leaves often doesn't answer questions and leaves me on read?

So my girlfriend and I have been official since Valentines Day, and she is amazing don't get me wrong. But often when I ask her questions over text I will be left on read and not receive an answer, my current example is on Saturday or Sunday does she want to see a film, to which I have asked twice and not had a response either time. In the past particularly with my ex I have had very bad experiences with not getting responses to questions, or having them dance around the answer.

Though I want to address this I am worried about doing so in a way which might start a fight or something, which is the last thing I want to cause. How do I bring it up and talk to her about it?

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago
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    simple - u should tell her if u re suggesting u do smth together this is a very bad manners to leave u hanging and not to give u any sort of a responce. if she didn't want to meet she could have said no. does she know u consider her a gf? because her behaviour says otherwise

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    It’s your issue not yours .

      I wouldn’t worry much about her not answering such a question on a text in a prompt manner that you desire .

       Her standards are different than yours . 

        I would leave this one alone at least for awhile .

       But if you choose to .  Tell you have a friend who does this but don’t make it too obvious that it’s her your talking about . 

        I still go this with my wife and we have been married for 30 years. I just accepted her as the way she is . 

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