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Do people live in denial of how miserable life is with regards to work?

I can't stand when people advise others not to settle for a job they don't enjoy, and to get a job that they truly love. As lovely a sentiment as that is, it's unsustainable for everyone to do that. There'll always be a lot of jobs that no one wants or would ever enjoy. Mindnumbing braindead work that provides no stimulus whatsoever. Maybe there'll be the rare exception who will like that job, but the vast majority of those workers will hate it. Those jobs are essential though, we desperately need cleaners, stockfillers, factory workers, etc. So someone has to do those jobs. If everyone only did their dream job, we'd just have a lot of singers, artists, actors and athletes, while all the cleaning, stocking and manufacturing work falls into disrepair. Therefore society is built on people doing jobs they hate. So it annoys me when people romantically ramble on about finding a meaningful job and aiming for your dreams, and speaking so idealistically about life, when they themselves are directly benefitting from miserable people in the most tragic of jobs.

Is it just that everyone avoids admitting all this to themselves because they don't want to face the truth that life is miserable? They'd rather think more comforting thoughts and stray away from any train of thought that might lead to this conclusion? Am I breaking an unwritten social convention here by openly talking about this? I know it's depressing to admit it but I think it's important that we be truthful about this.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    It's better to strive for a career you enjoy and fail than to never even attempt it. The fact is that some people DO create working lives they enjoy and not everyone ends up in uninspiring jobs.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Not everyone hates their job. People can give any advice they want. It doesn't mean it's worth anything. The big issue is people expect they can avoid studies at school, not get additional education beyond high school, and expect to be able to get a decent job. It is true that education costs are much more expensive than they used to be. It has been found that high school educations have generally been watered down in the USA.

    If someone has no skills, no advanced education, no special contacts, no rich parents to finance them, then they can't expect much.

    That is true.

    Anyone needs to plan their life to succeed or be stuck in a crappy job.

    And it's fine to do something you love, if there is sufficient talent and money.

  • 1 year ago

    If work life is miserable for a lot of people, it's largely because so many people are putting profits above everything else. That's the line our society is organized upon--valuing money far more than people's well-being. It doesn't have to be that way. When people's values change, the nature of work will change.

  • RoSH
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    I fear nothing ….why should I? Life is what it is. My ego does not tell me that I am better than I really am and does not tell me that I am not needed ether. 

    Have a nice day.        TRUMP 2020

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