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Is piercing my ear a good idea in my situation (read description)?
Ok so when I was really young I actually had pierced ears for about a month, I was about six or seven. It's not really a big deal but it was pretty traumatic for me because I was so young but basically I based off of the limited amount I remember something happened that resulted in my father trying to tear them out and I remember I needed a doctor to remove them properly after my mother took me out of the situation. So basically my earlobes are really sensitive now. I can't stand things touching them and it usually freaks me out when someone reaches for my ear to point out that there's kind of a scar. So obviously the clear answer would be no.. but it's only really triggering if something brings up the memory, like if someone just reaches for it without saying anything and im not really paying attention it's fine, but if they mention the scar while reaching out it feels like I'm reliving the memory. Do you think getting them repierced would be "triggering" or would I be fine?? Is this the way to help myself get over it or do you think having an earring would remind me of it more and more??
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- Anonymous1 year ago
Oh gosh I’m so sorry..something similar happened to my sister. I would recommend getting it pierced again in a different hole. Don’t get it pierced again in that exact hole or the lobes may tear since they may be more sensitive in that one tiny spot. I think that a good experience will outweigh that traumatic experience that you had when you were young. I’ve been through some trauma myself as a child and I think that facing those experiences again help. Not talking about any childhood sexual , physical or emotional trauma...& of course not talking about domestic violence etc...Just facing a trauma like that again will help