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Why doesn't he call instead of text?

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So I been with this guy for a few months and we in our lovey dovey phase and life is good all except the fact that instead of calling me, when he has to talk to me about something serious or just to talk, he will text me. Like arguing over text is ridiculous and words cannot be undone. Is there a reason he avoiding calling me? I wanna hear from another person. Earlier he told me that he gets mad when he can't hear me over the phone. BTW he has a minute phone

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago
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    This happened to me before. Some people just prefer texting and don't like being on the phone. There is nothing wrong with that but since you prefer calls it can be inconvenient at times. Let him know how you feel and maybe he can try and call sometimes instead?Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    Maybe he has a pay as you go phone (which I have).  If he is the one making the calls it might be the cost that bothers him.  P.A.Y.G makes us not make unnecessary calls because we don't want a large bill.  If you like long conversations and he's paying that might be the problem.  Try ringing him instead - he might stay on longer if you are paying for the calls. We don't always know as much as we think we know about the circumstances of other people.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Do what i do... don't answer texts after you tell the guy you don't text, but prefer to talk on the phone.

  • maybe "calling" uses credit that he may not have or maybe txting is more discreet. i guess not knowing his situation you will just have to be patient and trust him.

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