How do you cope when you're mum died?

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She passed away on Monday,unfourntly it was also her birthday,she had a good day,spoke to everyone important to her,had a takeaway and a drink or two,then late in the evening she had a heart attack,she was only 57,never got to use her birthday presents,and I was the one who was with her when it happened,I can't get those images out of my head,just looking for serious answers and advice,no stupid answers please,as you can appreciate it's not a laughing matter, thank-you.

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I'm so sorry for you're loss, Being there on you're own when she died must have been very traumatic, And although it may seem little comfort to you at the moment, At least you were there and she didn't die alone without a loved one present, My mother died on 24th December 1985 she was 59yrs old, And even though it is 35yrs ago i still think of her, i know you feel deep sorrow right now but remember her love, Her goodness, Her caring, Her laughter and her wisdom and may it help bring you peace, We only hold hands for a while but we hold there hearts forever.

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by taking care of my sister........who was just devastated and gutted .

18 gibbs 20 · Answer

Sorry for your loss.  I lost my dad when I was 15.  He was barely 50.  He had an attack and I was there when he died.  You just great he in, breathe out and take one day at a time.  You never forget but time lessens the pain and life goes on.

Mr. Interesting · Answer

You cope the best you can and trust others when they tell you that it gets easier with the passing of time. Sorry for your loss. Hang in there. You will be alright.

Nicole · Answer

id been depressed for long time for missing her i still do miss her shes been gone since
feb 18 2011

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