I have two children of my first marriage. ?

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I remarried someone else. My actual husband does not have any children. He wants children but I do not want any. It is not easy to bring another human being to this world. I do not what to do or how to tell him that I do not want to have anymore children, I love him so much that I would prefer him to go and find a woman who can actually give him babies. Any ideas of what to do in a situation like this....

? · Answer

This is a dealbreaker. You can't have half a kid,

Anonymous · Answer

What is an actual husband?  Are you saying your second husband?

You should have discussed this before you married.

He wants children and you don't.  I say you divorce, he meets and marries someone who wants to have his child (or children).  I was once in the same position.  I wanted children and he did not.

We divorce, I remarried, I have children.

fireflyfliesby · Answer

There's no compromise here. You can't have half a kid. You can't pop out a baby (or adopt one) and leave raising that child only to your husband. Either you don't have any more kids and he's not happy, or you do have more kids and you're not happy.

This is something to figure out before you get married. Not after. The fairest solution here for the child would be to not have any child that isn't 100% wanted. Your husband won't be happy, but at least you won't bring someone into the world who grows up feeling unwanted.

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I have two children of my first marriage. ?

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