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Is it bad that I’m not over her?

Ok so I got dumped about 5 and a half months ago, it was a pretty long relationship a year and a half and I still think about her and miss what we had I don’t know how to move on, it’s gotten better over time but I don’t know why I still think of her. Does anyone have tips of a faster recovery?

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  • Glass
    Lv 7
    6 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't fight it or feel bad about it. You had good times with a person you cared for, it's ok to look back on that fondly and it's ok to feel sad that it's over. The goal isn't to forget her, it's to accept things as they are now instead of dwelling on what could have been. Focus on the present and stay active. Spend more time with your friends, do things you have been putting off, pick up a new hobby or project. It only gets easier from here on out. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    It's totally normal that you are still grieving over that relationship especially if it was very meaningful to you.

    The best advice is let time do its job, join hobbies you like, talk to friends, and in a word, live your life.

    It might take a bit more time to get over it but it won't be forever

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    No it's normal.

    They say the science of moving on is the length of the relationship halved.

    You still have 4 months to go!

  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    That's on you man. You should've found a new girlfriend ages ago. Of course you'd still think of her as you have nobody else to think about. It's not worth it. Let go. It's time to start living. 

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