Any ideas about what I can say to this girl ?

Top 15 Questions to Ask a Girl You Like

If you’re going to memorize one list of questions, make it this one. These are tried and tested best questions to ask a girl.

1. What are you most passionate about right now?

Have you ever been chatting with someone and you mention something that makes their entire face light up with excitement? 

Chances are you’ve stumbled upon a topic they’re passionate about. People love talking about their passions. If you’re the one who gets her talking about the things she’s most excited about, she’ll always associate those positive feelings with you.

2. If you could go back five years, what would you change about your future?

Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards. – Søren Kierkegaard

This question lets you know how much she dwells on the past.

3. What’s your biggest deal-breaker in a relationship?

Is her ultimate deal-breaker something you agree with? This question also raises the idea in her head about what it’d be like to be in a relationship with you. I think this is a good time to to mention this. I think this is a good time to to mention this. The key to creating powerful connections with women is to attract them without faking behavior, lying, or pretending to be someone else.

In short, you need stop acting like an attractive man and become one. To do this, you need to learn to be vulnerable, honest, and to set boundaries.

4. What would you do tomorrow if it were your last day on Earth?

This is a fun question. You’ll find out what’s at the very top of her bucket list. Who knows, maybe you could be the guy that could make it happen for her?

5. What do you like most about yourself?

Be careful with this one, you need to time it right so you don’t put her on the spot. This helps you understand her core values and how comfortable she is talking positively about herself. Be sure to offer the same up for her because this is a vulnerable share.

6. What’s your favorite movie of all time?

Building a connection with a woman includes getting to know her interests. And let’s be real, almost everyone watches movies. I like to throw this one in as a lighter question to switch things up from a serious topic that’s run its course.

7. What are you most proud of?

The answer to this question will tell you what has been the most important moment in her life to date. This is a great time to share how you relate to it (if you can).

8. Do you have any secret talents?

The more things you can learn about her that others don’t know, the closer she’ll feel to you.

9. What is your wildest fantasy?

Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions. – Albert Einstein 

This is a great flirty question. It builds sexual tension and uncovers many fun roleplay scenarios for you to explore with her.

10. Is there something that you used to do that you loved, but you’ve now stopped doing?

I love asking people this question (yes, not even just girls) because you can relight the fire under someone’s interest or hobby that they may have forgotten about or let slip away. Also, if she picks that thing up again, she’ll always remember you whenever she does it.

11. What were you like as a kid?

Her answer can lead you in so many directions for a fun conversation. Would she have been your nemesis? Tease her about it.

12. What’s the most valuable thing in your life?

You’ll learn what she values most in the world. While you don’t want to judge her entire character based on one question, if it’s a physical item then you know she may be more materialistic than other girls. If it’s her cat, then you know she’s a huge animal lover. You get the idea.

13. What’s your idea of a perfect date?

This one’s all about putting your double agent hat on. Her answer to this can help you guide the dates you plan with her. Don’t literally plan the exact date she mentions the next time you hang out, as that’s way too obvious.

14. What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?

I like this question for a few reasons:

1. You’ll probably learn a new piece of advice that may prove valuable to your own life; and

2. It gives you some insight into how thoughtful she is and how willing she is to open herself up to advice from others.

15. How do you think your closest friends would describe you?

This helps you get a feel for the role she plays in her closest friendship circle and her perception of her own personality. You can use her answers as ammunition for plenty of playful teasing.

Ask her how her thanksgiving was! Ask what she had to eat and tell her about your meal too and maybe throw in a little joke that you ate too much!