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What do I do in this situation? ?

Any time my boyfriend thinks that a girl is attractive, I instantly know. It’s fine that he thinks other girls are attractive, but when it’s right in front of me I think it’s rude and makes me feel invalid. For example, every time we go through a drive through he is always nervous and talks in this nervous high pitched voice. The other day they were taking orders outside the drive through. When the girl took our order outside the car, I instantly knew he thought she was attractive because he forced this deep manly voice and tried to sound good for her. He never ever talks like that. When I confronted him he said “I didn’t know I was doing it, I wasn’t doing it on purpose.” Another thing that he does that bothers me is if we have the tv on and hes on his phone, every time a girl who sounds attractive starts talking he immediately looks up at the tv to see what she looks like. It bothers me because it happens so often, and it’s right in front of me! It makes me feel like crap. This just happened, and when i was annoyed with him he said “I didn’t do anything wrong.” I don’t know what to do in this situation

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  • 4 months ago

    If this reality of his personality and way of being a male functioning through his world is obnoxious, immature and rude for you to deal with then get another guy!  They aren't ALL like that. You're not wed, doesn't sound like you have kids together.... he sounds young... if you are consistently bothered by who he is or what his maturity level is at this time in his life.... go do something else with yourself that will suit you better. It's bad for BOTH of you for you to stick around a fellow you are hurt and annoyed and insulted and feel demeaned by because he is who he is living his life. Get someone else!  The whole world hates to listen to couples who have serious fundamental complaints about the other complain about what is wrong with their bf/gf! We hate it! Maybe there is nothing wrong with the bf/gf except that they aren't the right person for the one who is resentful and complaining. 

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