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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 4 months ago

Losing a loved one?

Okay here's the thing. Two weeks ago I've lost my uncle because of covid he got 

pneumonia which put him in a hospital on a ventilator and sadly he passed away at age 62😭😭😭. Me and my uncle where close we always liked mess around with each other give each other a hard time lol. It been tough on me. I know it be only two weeks  since he passed away. 

But the issues I'm having is anything I do in the day I instantly associate  with my uncle. 

For  example I was playing wheel of Fortune on my PS4 and got really sad because I was thinking oh my uncle and say he would of loved this game and it makes me sad.  Another example I was going through my me and my cousin's texts last night because I couldn't sleep I got back to November and again for some reason I said who ever thought 1 month later this would happen. So what I'm trying to ask is how can I stop thinking about this obviously it's sad and I'll miss him so much but how can I get my self to handle it better. I want to get the point where I won't associate every little thing I do that I think of my uncle. Again obviously I'll miss him and I'm heart broken. 

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    thats normal to feel that way, i lost my uncle too back in july, i also lost an identical twin sister back in sept

  • 4 months ago

    i would ask god to help you cope with it, i lost an identical twin sister back in sept and thats hard, plus i lost an uncle in july too, lost my parents yrs ago too

  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    The COVID-19 pandemic has dramatically altered everyone's daily lives, including how people grieve the loss of a loved one. more folk would be alive if agent orange should not have downplayed it... the initial pain of losing this person is unbearable ... prayer always help

  • ?
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    I'm sorry for ur loss of ur uncle due to covid 19.

    u should try grief therapy.

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