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My boyfriends slowly lasting longer?

Me and my boyfriend have been off and on for 5 years. We dated 5 years ago, then brokeup. And we’re FWB for about 3 years while we got with other people. We had sex probably once every 5-6 months.

Now, we’re dating again (started 5 months ago). and He used to only last 1-2 min MAX with me for the past 5 years. Never longer. and i was the only girl who made him finish that quick and even though i never finished i felt proud.

But the last 2 months, we have sex maybe 3-4 times per week.. And he’s slowly starting to last longer. Today he lasted 30 MINUTES, which is the longest he ever has. And like.. Yeah that’s good but i feel like it’s because he’s losing the spark so he’s lasting longer?????

Am i just overthinking? Is this normal? Serious answers please

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    3 months ago

    When a guy can’t last 2 minutes, that’s not something you should be proud of. That just means he has no control and he sucks in bed. It sounds like he’s getting older and more experienced, and has gained more self control. This is a good thing. Guys don’t finish quickly because you’re doing something so great, or because there’s such a great “spark.” They finish quickly because they’re inexperienced, have no control, and don’t care about getting you off first. Trust me, him lasting longer is a good thing. Why would you wanna sleep with a guy who can’t last 2 minutes and can’t get you off?

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    Jesus sounds hellish, you could have dated someone who respects you all this time

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