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I feel like my mom keeps rejecting me?
I have recently gotten married and moved out. It seems like she doesn’t want anything to do with me now. I call her and text her everyday even though she never reaches out first. I’m the child shouldn’t it be the other way around? I know she loves me and when I lived there my mom did EVERYTHING for me. She was my best friend. But something seems to have changed...
I’ve recently been going through a big funk. My job kind of sucks and I’m a young woman working with all men about 20 years older than me and they often make me feel small and stupid.
Every time I rant to my mom she sighs and says I’m going grocery shopping I can’t talk. I’m giving the dog a bath I can’t talk. I call and she sighs and says I’m washing dishes I guess I can just stop what I’m doing in a sarcastic tone.
It really hurts me because I feel like I have lost a big part of what helped me stay sane. I get that hearing me complain is probably annoying. I just feel heartbroken that our relationship isn’t great anymore :(
@anonymous .... I’m a full grown adult am I just supposed to live with my mom forever and not get married lolol
My question is I don’t know how to fix the situation. Should I just apologize for moving out?
3 Answers
- Anonymous3 months ago
You need to stand up for yourself. Your mom is being a drama queen. Some mothers are like that, feeling like they need control of their children for their entire lives. It's entitled and stupid what she's doing to you. Don't apologize for moving out! Ask her what her problem is, and if it has to do with the fact you moved out, then you should tell her to eff off.
Obviously if she has a problem with your partner then it's more complicated, but she should have said something sooner rather than waiting until you moved out to act like this.
- Anonymous3 months ago
That's unfortunate, but what exactly is your question? I mean, what are you asking us?
I would have a conversation with your mother. Tell her what you've been observing in her behavior towards you, and how it makes you feel. Ask her what she thinks about that. Engage in a dialogue.
- Anonymous3 months ago
🥴
Sounds like she gave you her all and the world on a silver platter.
What does your husband give you that your mother used to?
Nothing.
Thats what she wants you to understand.
You broke her heart over a dude. An inlaw.
🥴 Such is life, I get it. But... no one comes before your mother.