Are their any men out there these days that are actually interested in building a relationship with a woman rather then want sex immediately?

are there any women out there that go for guys who aren't just good looking?

I'd rather build a relationship with a woman to see if we are compatible, spend some time with her, ask her to dinner, see if she has good morals, ethics, kindnes and to see if the fondness is reciprocated.  You have a good heart, Allison.  Is it possible we could get to know each other? 

Sex is a very high priority for us men. It serves as a boundary to know whether this woman actual sees me as a "man" or "just a friend to do her favours when she is bored."

Its not that we "just want sex" its that many of us have been led on by girls who get all the emotional benefits of having a boyfriend, but then say "I don't  see you in that way" when we try to bring the relationship forward.

Sex is the difference between friendship and an intimate  relationship, and many of us have been burned by women who strung us along who never had any intention of an intimate relationship in the first place.

I have no problem with a girl that gives sex early; because at least then I know where she stands with me.

Yes, however someone once said that a man is like a boat and you as a women are an ancor. You have to stop him from sailing of. Dating with most guys seeks to be a game and you have to play by those stupid rules of don't seem to keen, guys like a challenge, play difficult to get but drop hints you like them, leave 24hrs  after the first date before messaging. Pretty sure everyone wants sex but the hard part is wanting to guy to come back for more. Sometimes it could be because men take longer to mature and want a family

You are looking in the wrong places. There are many men asking the same question as you except it’s “are there any girls that are looking for a serious relationship?” Those men also are probably not on a dating app. Because from our point of view it seems that girls now days only want sex as well. Unfortunately this has more to do with a reflection of the culture of today, which has become more sexualized and morally unstable. As a Christian, my advice would be find someone at a church. Although this doesn’t automatically mean that those guys aren’t looking for sex, it at least sets up a moral boundary/ expectation stating “hey God tells us that sex before marriage is actually not the best for us emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually and so we probably shouldn’t be doing that.” So if you find a guy at church who is like that you know they aren’t really following what they say they believe. Instead that should hopefully be the minority of people you meet at Chruch. On dating apps you don’t really know peoples intentions at least at Chruch the expectation is the intention to marry. This sounds much better than going on an app and starting a relationship off with someone who has no moral boundary against getting what they want when they want which includes sex.