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Do you agree that communication is important in a relationship ?

I met a woman on an LesbianSingles app just over a week ago, we exchanged numbers on WhatsApp to get to know each other better. At first we were texting each other quite a bit and a few days ago she asked me if I would be her girlfriend, we both agreed to stop talking to other people and delete the dating apps, with that being said now she rarely texts me anymore and I can’t even ask her how she’s going or what she’s been up to without her cutting me off. I feel like we don’t communicate enough and we literally go for hours without talking to each other but when I confronted her about it she claims she’s been busy but I feel like she doesn’t really want me in her life but she claims that she loves me yet she only has time for me when it suits her. It’s already difficult enough that we are in a long distance relationship because we live in two different states, we can’t see each other due to living in different parts of the same country plus with covid 19 restrictions being enforced, I feel like she is breadcrumbing me although she may or may not be doing it deliberately. Without constant communication I don’t really know if this relationship is going to work, I think I would be better off trying to find someone closer to me that lives in the same state, being in a long distance relationship isn’t easy. I really like this woman though so l don’t know what I should do.

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  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    It sounds like she's found someone else.  Follow your intuition.

  • 3 months ago

    Tell her basically what you've said here. Open the communication; and make it clear that unless it's reciprocated, you won't be able to stay in the relationship.

  • 3 months ago

    Could be you've gone from the initial excitement to just being a normal couple. The thing is we all have work, or have to cook or hang with family so these will distract from chatting. Why do you feel you need to constantly communicate with her? I'd say this is unrealistic.

    When you say long distance, how long are we talking? 30 mins or UK to Asia sort of long distance? The thing is whilst it's lovely you may find that one of you comes to the realisation that you can't even meet and it could be months, years before you see each other. This reality check can cause one of you to not take it seriously.

    I think you need to step away and consider if this is beneficial for you. If you are finding it's causing you more stress and pressure than joy and happiness then you may need to end it.

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