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Should I send a sympathy card to my aunt-by-marriage?

The brother-in-law of my mother's sister-in-law just passed away. I wanted to know if this relationship is close enough to warrant sending her a sympathy card. I don't know how close she was to her brother-in-law.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    Seeing as you don’t know how close they were I would hold off. I think you might be better off saying how sorry you were in person or over the phone. If after that conversation you feel it is appropriate to send a card you could do so. Another thing you could try doing is asking your uncle her husband if the situation warrants a card or not. My guess is most likely not.

    But if any card is to be sent I would send it to the widow of the man who died - if you knew them. Don’t bother sending one of you didn’t know them.  You could let your aunt know you sent her sister à card. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    i would send her one

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    No. This is nothing to do with you.

  • drip
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    No, I would not send a card.  If you see her pass on your condolences. 

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