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Help me to understand her?

I met a beautiful girl about ten years a go. She won my heart, though she loved me she always avoided us meeting in a private place we had a relationship that lasted for six months, l got transferred from that area and lost a phone loosing her contacts.

         Last month l found her number and Everytime we had a conversation she requested for some money and l always give her.Last week l asked her to come and visit me and she agreed and requested money for hairdressing and transport which l send her, she then come up with an excuse not coming and requested me to Len her some money which she claims to refund by the end of next month.N/B l never slept with her, she always avoid.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    She might be using you buddy. I don't know sounds weird but if your being nice to her and she avoids you then she is just spitting your niceness right back in your face

  • 2 months ago

    Help you understand her? That's easy. She is scamming you. And you being naive and desperate have fallen for it.

    Walk away before she bleeds you dry

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    She is cunning and you are foolish.  It's that simple.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    She wants your money.  What part of that are you trying to understand?  It doesn't matter. End this farce and find someone who just wants YOU.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    You are being exploited by a gold digger, and she is not your "friend". She is USING you. Please do come in out of the rain and stop sending her any money , permanently. Just wait and see: she'll drop you like a hot potato. If you don't do this, then the problem is not her, but yourself. Good luck, 

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