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Am I wrong for wanting to have fun after I give birth?

I'm 8 months pregnant and I've been thinking about going to vegas to get drunk this summer. This is my second child with my baby's father and he knows That I was drunk when we first met so it's not like I'll be hiding anything from him because he knows what kind of person I am. He's never been home anyway. He's always at his sister's house with his son (which isn't mine) i'm tired of sitting in the house with kids. I've been doing it for 2 years. he had his fun being with other women BOTH OF MY PREGNANCIES. now it's my turn to enjoy myself by MYSELF and if I end up finding another man oh well.🤗 Am I wrong for wanting to enjoy myself?😑😭

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    If you had a committed partner it wouldn't be wrong to think about a post birth bender. But you've created a situation where you're a single parent. So you now have to fill the shoes of two people. Unless you've got a very trusted blood relative with actual baby experience this isn't going to work. The problem here is that you're solely focused on the f-boy you chose to sire your children, not on the children themselves. Until you love your kids more than you hate this guy you keep reproducing with you're just going to be setting their little lives up for disaster. 

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    please don't come to las vegas. we don't want you. 

  • 2 months ago

    If this is serious, I envision you turning into an irresponsible and possibly neglectful mother, and your children are the innocent victims.

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