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? asked in HealthMen's Health · 2 months ago

Do you masturbate less as you age into adulthood or a mature adulthood?

There's a lot of stigma around teenagers for it, we're seen as dirty minded ppl. I masturbate a lot so does it get better as you age? I know older men have less testosterone so do they **** less. I just don't want to go my whole life flicking the bean, like I know its fun and natural but I really don't want to do it forever.

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  • Scotty
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    We guys masturbate throughout our lives.  Frequency depends how healthy we stay as we age. If a man can stay fit and active he can have a good sex life into old age.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Nope. Marriage won't reduce the frequency. It will actually increase the frequency. Good luck finding any woman with the same sex drive. 

  • Joe
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    I dont think it gets better with age. It's great all the time. When you get older and have a partner to have intercourse with you will masturbate less. When you get to your 60's you are happy to orgasm anyway you can. 

  • Jesus
    Lv 5
    2 months ago

    I believe that that depends on the sexual impulse that has the man, if it is a lot, it looked for the form of masturbating it is young or already mature, but if he has sexual relationships, that calmed it and he masturbated less. Since I began to have sex he leaves to a side the other thing, it satisfies me more the sexual relationship that to rub my glans with the hands, or with a toy, of course, we all are not same, and we think different.

  • ron h
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Yeah, as we get older, we jack off less often.  But we never completely stop.  It's less often as we find a sex partner and less often as the testosterone declines.  I dunno where you get your stigmas, but half the people in the world are men. Who all started jackin' off when we were about 12.  We (men) kid each other about it sometimes, but unless a guy is doing at "inappropriate" times and places, it's just joking.  The OTHER half of people are women who usually have more anxiety about their own masturbation and never get completely at ease with men jackin' off.  But it's fine--It's been that way for thousand of years.  

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    I'm assuming that you're in your teens.  Here's a thing:  If you (a man) asked men your own age how old they were when they started jackin' off, almost all of them would say 11 or 12 --they would acknowledge that they do it.  That might not be as true for men under about 15 who are sometimes REALLY embarrassed about it--some haven't figured out that we all do it after 11 or 12.  About the "your own age," a LOT of 15 or 16 year olds would be creeped out if some 30 or 50 year old man who is not their dad, uncle or VERY close friend asked that.  

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    I'm an adult (20s) and I still flick the bean. I'm also single, so there's that. I believe that once an individual finds a partner and possibly try out every sex position or role play there is, their urges wouldn't be as strong, which is why teenagers, still new to sex life, have such strong urges while adults, who are more experienced, tend to think "Meh, been there, done that". Hormonal changes that naturally come with age plays a factor in this as well.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    I had sex more but i didn’t masterbate a lot to begin with.  Unlike the guys who masterbate...my arms are even.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Andre, I'm sure there's no uniformity. I presume that when men are in sexual relationships, they have sex with a partner at least some of the times they might otherwise masturbate--but I know they don't necessarily stop. Which is fine.

    As a man gets older, he may find his libido decreasing and the need for sexual release is strong far less often. If he takes certain common drugs for high blood pressure or cholesterol, he may lost his ability to achieve orgasm.

    BTW, "flick the bean" refers to female masturbation, the bean being the clitoris.

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