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Is it normal for my partner to be away the night ?

So basically my partner works 6 days a week and sometimes he hangs out with his mates sataurday night I trust that he is not cheating however he tells me he went to his male friends house after hanging outside. He stopped hanging out since the lockdown and is now behaving like this again. The thing is when the lockdown is over I don’t want to be controlling so he can hang out with friends but now he pushed the boundaries and is coming home the morning like 11:00. I’m getting quiet angry and I tell him of but seems like he is not listening 

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Staying out all night to party with the boys is something most guys curtail once they've got a live-in partner. Maybe once a year or something... But if this happens all the time it's an indication he's really not ready for the kind of domesticity you seem to want. 

  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    You are not committed as in marriage.   He is showing that lack of commitment.  Maybe time to move on 

  • 1 month ago

    Either you set your boundaries or you don't.

    Either you enforce your boundaries or you don't.

    Up to you. 

  • 1 month ago

    Maybe it's time to reevaluate the relationship. It sounds like he has lost interest and doesn't know how to tell you. Force a discussion. Good luck.

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