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Dance Floor with Tables on Either Side - Difficult to Mingle?
Hi everyone! We're currently in the process of deciding on our wedding venue and have narrowed it down to a top 3 (out of 15 total). The one my fiancé and I leaning towards has a somewhat long/narrow ballroom. It's plenty big to fit all of our guests (we're thinking around 100 guests total), but the dance floor would be placed in the center of the ballroom with banquet tables on either side.
Does anyone think it would be problematic to have guests separated across the dance floor? My mother is concerned it'll be difficult to mingle with guests on the other side of the ballroom without having to cross the dance floor, which may be hard to cross if there is a good amount of people dancing.
There will be room for a pathway to the other side of the ballroom next to the dance floor, about the width of a hallway - but is that enough space for guests to feel like they can easily mingle with guests on the other side? I can see how a large square ballroom with a dance floor in the front and banquet tables around it in a U-shape would likely be more ideal because it would be easier for guests to mingle.
Probably a silly concern, but I'm curious what everyone else thinks on this! I'm curious if others think this is big enough deal to possibly select a different venue over!
9 Answers
- Dr. StephanieLv 74 weeks ago
I'm so glad that I don't have to plan a wedding! So many choices and decisions ! No wonder it takes months and months ahead to plan! From my viewpoint, who cares about this issue! Some will want to mingle, others to dance, others to eat and leave, or just sit at their tables. Now let's see....there's what to serve, what music,will it be loud enough or too loud? how to decorate, who will sit with whom,...what to wear, whether to have a gift registry, where to have the venue, what day of the week, whom to invite....how much things will cost, and whether one should simply elope or not, who not to offend, bridal shower or not, bachelorette party or not, what to serve, what to eat, (again!), the DRESS!, of course, how to handle the one relative who is a drunk, or the one who is obstreperous, the one who wants to make all YOUR decisions, my goodness, have you thought of getting married on a cruise ship by the captain? ...then, there's the honeymoon, whether to invite children or plus one's, or not....babysitters, what kind of cake, oh, don't forget the flowers! I'm going to take a nap after writing this.
- Common SenseLv 74 weeks ago
What is stopping you from making that hallway width passage-way a bit wider? I would absolutely create a wider pathway with a visual " barrier" of sorts.
Because, as is, some people may linger there and cause a crossing blockage.
Either that, or create passage ways on both ends of the dance floor for freedom of movement.
- MessykattLv 74 weeks ago
Now that I think about it, most weddings I've attended have been like this. I don't recall problems trying to mingle, even if you couldn't march through the middle of the dance floor. Why not just mention your concern to the venue and see what they say? If they've been around awhile and have good reviews, it's safe to assume they know what they're doing.
- dripLv 74 weeks ago
It is pretty common to have tables on either side of the dance floor. I was a wedding DJ.
As long as there is a open walkway to get around the dance floor you should be fine.
Usually the head wedding party table is on the top with the dance floor right in front of it. with guest tables on either side of the dance floor. On the other side of the dance floor opposite the head wedding tables should be open enough for foot traffic. That is the area, as a DJ, I would set up.
- sunshine_melLv 74 weeks ago
At venues I've been to before (where it's one room for everything), they've usually had the tables more spread out, then just moved / removed half of them to clear a dance space after the meal's completed
- GypsyfishLv 71 month ago
Almost every wedding I've been to has had a dance floor with tables around it. I don't know why you think that's a problem. People either cross the dance floor or they skirt around it. No big deal.
- Anonymous1 month ago
you have 2 other choices....
and i doubt anyone will care or notice anyways.
- 1 month ago
How about a "meet in the middle" area with a few chairs and a small table. Add a few potted plants or other barricades and you've designated a pass way along one edge of the dance floor.
Get guests mingling with a traditional seating plan. Traditionally hosts assumed that dinner guests were eager to socialize, to enjoy a meal with someone other than ones closest associates. And so naturally occurring groups like couples or families were ruthless separated.
Groups of 8 people who weren't yet well acquainted were thus prompted to introduce themselves and get to know one another. Ideally, there will be introductions among all these new acquaintances after the meal.
This relieves hosts of a great deal of making introductions and encouraging mingling. It is the mingling, the meeting new people that makes a party a good party, not the food, drink, or décor.