Women, would you date a fat balding guy with confidence and can make you laugh? ?

My sister is married to one. They're in their early 40's now. She recently & reluctantly got a job after a decade of being a house wife and raising 3 kids because she thinks he might kick the bucket early and she'll need to provide for her family. He's very obese and doesn't care, throws a fit and walks out for hours any time his eating habits are even mentioned. She can't get through to him so she has to plan AROUND him and without him for the future, which is disturbing but also practical when you're dealing with a narcissist on a path to destruction and when kids and a family are involved. 

I dated one. He turned out to be an ******** at the end.

He makes fun of FOODS?? WTF? Is be brain-damaged as well as overweight and balding?

There is someone out there for everyone. Anyone who is charming and has a good sense of humor is more attractive to me than someone who is not, no matter how they look. Obviously physical attraction is important as well but for me, personality comes first.