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Is it wrong if I don't like men nor children?

I'm a single 30 y.o. female that dislikes both children and men.

Most of the men I met either had eccentric personalities or took advantage of me in the form of favors or money. They would also cheat on me. Therefore, I don't like them.

As for children, I think that they're selfish, lack empathy and are annoying. I'm an introvert that likes to spend time on her own. This is not possible with children since they demand your attention.

Therefore, I'll likely live and die alone.

Is my life doomed because of that?

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    3 weeks ago

    You are not wrong for how you choose to live your life. 

  • Anonymous
    3 weeks ago

    No. There's nothing wrong with not liking men nor children. You have feelings too right? Your life isn't doomed either. If you like being alone, there is nothing wrong with that.  I wouldn't assume I don't like children. You just have to appreciate them. Don't spoil them too much either, it's okay to spoil them every now and then, but the only kind of children I've seen acting like brats, are spoiled children. I would try giving children a chance. If you show them to be grateful for what they have, and their very sweet. Even though I think all children are sweet. If you still don't want to chance having children or spending time with them, I respect you decisions, there is nothing worng with your decisions.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 weeks ago

    girls need loving too

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 weeks ago

    If someone takes advantage of you, it's because you have allowed them to do so.  It's just a fact.

    And you don't have to like anyone if you don't want to.  It's your life, your choice. 

    Take care

  • Anonymous
    3 weeks ago

    No I hate men and children too

  • ?
    Lv 5
    3 weeks ago

    You just haven't met the right person yet. Don't lend money to males or females. Don't give up on kids, they are what you raise them to be. Doomed? ha ha..far from it.

  • 3 weeks ago

    No it doesn't make you wrong... but:

    Leave America and find a new life. I never wanted an 18 year curse. A brat. A crying, screaming kid.

    In Europe and later in Russia, I found how calm and peaceful as well as charming children can be. Now my teenage son proves America wrong. He is the greatest example of a perfectly adjusted child. I have had no issues at all with him, ever. I blame that on my wife, she raised him... all I did was teach him to shoot a real gun at 5 years old and drive a real car, stick shift at 7.

    Had I stayed always in USA and never traveled outside, I would never have wanted children.

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