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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 3 weeks ago

Is it ever ok for my parents to treat me like this?

I am over 21, I live with parents..

Mom and I co-own a house together..Both our names are on the deed.

What had happened was I had ordered some chicken nuggets as a treat for our dogs (Who love chicken nuggets) 

She told me off...Accusing me of turning the dogs into Fast Food Addicts. I only order the nuggets only once per week.

Half an hour later, She told me she was heading to shops....So, I ask her if she could get me a Coffee Flavoured Almond milk..and i asked her in a nice calm manner.

She told me off again, Accusing me of Drinking too much milk,Shouting "Youve been drinking too much milk" 

Why do parents do this? I have not done anything wrong...I don't get it

7 Answers

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 weeks ago

    First off, you're killing your dogs. Secondly, you're an adult so just go buy your own groceries. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 weeks ago

    i dont think so

  • ?
    Lv 7
    3 weeks ago

    Maybe your mother is just talking to hear herself talk.  I don't know if she told you those chicken nuggets are horrible for a dog's health, even once a week, but they are  The coating is junky, the oils they are fried in are refined and terrible for anyone, including a dog and the chicken is likely full of hormones.  If you want to give your dog chicken, then get hormone free, free range organic chicken for the dogs.  

  • ?
    Lv 5
    3 weeks ago

    Hello concerned one sometimes even parents can be having a bad day or days and don’t act like we expect them to because they are imperfect or maybe she dealing with something on your mind and heart and lashing out unintentionally. If possible or needed write her a loving calm respectful note- letter asking her is she ok do she need to talk about anything because you care and don’t want the division or negative things with you to to continue this way and leave it some where age can see it instead of giving it to her directly. A kind word at the right time is priceless and can change hearts attitudes minds situations. Pray before starting your note-letter for right words for courage do you can keep a calm heart peace of mind and feel better about things. Hope it gets better try to be patient and understanding. 

  • 3 weeks ago

    Maybe she was just in a bad mood that day.

  • Anonymous
    3 weeks ago

    Before I answer, tell me; Do you have any kind of emotional, psychological or learning disability? Oh I see. You're a troll. Nevermind.

  • 3 weeks ago

    maybe you should move out

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