ok... what does 'woke up' mean?

That somebody is completely conscious.

It means that you are a man who is not interested in marriage or even serious dating.  You might or might not be OK with a FWB situation or a casual hook-up, but you would never live with a girl.  For a girl, "woke up" means that she's aware that (some) men refuse to play her game and prefer to not have relationships with women if it will lead to commitment, marriage or children.  And more specifically, she knows WHY.  She is aware of terms like "red pill", and how the term is used to refer to certain men.