Am I emotionally unfulfilling to my husband? ?

Getting engaged to someone else WHILE married is simply a sign of tremendous disrespect towards marriage. In general. Likely not specific to you. It was horrifically disrespectful to the person who thought they were engaged to him as well. Rather a general swath of disrespect. 

He's seeking the companionship of others. He's TOLD YOU that you are not emotionally fulfilling for him. He's lousy to the other people he seeks the companionship of. Basically, you've got a husband who is lousy at the job. I would suggest you remove him from the position. 

I'd be consulting an attorney, a divorce lawyer, to protect my share of the assets and making plans to move on.

Show him the door. 

You can NEVER be emotionally 

fulfilling to someone like that. No 

matter what or how much you do, 

it will never be enough, or just not 

quite what they imagine they need... 

or he is simply just lying to you and 

turning things around in order to not 

take responsibility for his actions. 

Either way, your next step should 

be to get rid of him... you deserve 

someone much better in your life. 

I can't even get past the part where you were ok with it when you only thought some woman was giving him advice on your marriage. That is not ok even if he hadn't been having sex with her. I find it hard to believe you are for real since the obvious "next steps' were time to divorce him during his first "engagement"

your husband is a sex addict. kick him to the curb and tell him to get help.

Divorce.................