Boyfriend said he wants a prenup do I have a right to be annoyed ? ?

Don't waste your time being "annoyed."  Be confident instead that you will match his prenup with one of your own that will address ALL of your concerns.  This is actually an excellent opportunity to determine if you are really the love of his life or you are about to marry an opportunist. 

You should only get OUT of the marriage what you put IN to the marriage.

No, you wouldn't get the short end of the straw because of the unconstitutional child support laws. Unless he is smart enough to know how to put a stop to it (yes, he CAN put a stop to them, legally, but 99.99% of the men out there don't know how and neither do the lawyers)

Women know this and that is why they look for a man with money most times. They see men as a sort of 'stock market investment' or lottery.

You should be annoyed but not at him. Annoyed at YOURSELF for being greedy. You are looking for that free ride if anything happens.

It is NOT his responsibility to provide you with unearned income. That is YOUR exclusive responsibility.

Claiming the kids made you quit your job doesn't fly with me.

Many women still work full time jobs AND raise their kids.

Also, you benefit from NOT having to work AND being with the kids far more than him (worth a lot more than mere money too). That too should be included in the discussion.

Luck=Moloch=demon.Gov't is killing you with highfrequencyelectricity. Theotokos Virgin Mary gave prayers to "Schema-nun Antonia" on how to save aborted babies from hell. If you pray these prayers diligently, aborted babies are released from hell. On each painted nail there are forty demons. Smoking is censer to the devil.Using foul language calls upon Pagan deities (aka demons); Holy Spirit departs on seven meters. People who use drugs see demons who cleverly disguise themselves as ghosts and aliens.America will be last country to switch to Euro (antichrist's world currency). Contraceptives = abortion;using contraceptives for one year = five aborted kids.Miscarriages happen because of high heels; cesarean because of pants (second generation cesarean will be infertile).Unbaptized aborted/miscarried/unborn babies burn in hell until Final Judgement; if pregnant, keep the kid and deliver at home because kids are chippedusing IVs and vaccines in hospitals. Dentists and doctors chip patients secretly. Ultrasound leads to mark of the beast; don't do ultrasound, please. Abortion leads to breast cancer; a demon is released from hell for each aborted kid. Dogs can become possessed; don't keep dogs inside your home [Pelageya of Ryazan]. Walmart has technology to administer mark of the beast to those who have cat bacteria in their stomachs/brains; stay away from cats [Athanasius 3rd of Constantinople]. Next false flag is the Statue of Liberty. Above earth there is ice (dome); when rockets go up they bring ice down from upper sky to lower sky; ice stuck in lower sky will fall on us during Apocalypse. Earth is flat; earth stands on three stalactite pillars (The Most Holy Trinity); pillars stand on water at zero Kelvin; underneath this ice there is a bubble; and then the abyss. Zodiac is planetary prison of demons; don't believe in horoscopes or you'll exhibit the traits of the trapped demons. Most thoughts and dreamsare from demons; demons never do good. Sleep fully clothed; pray the Jesus prayer. Pray to your guardian angel to have normal sleep. Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov was the last prophet before Apostle John (who wrote the Book of Revelation), Enoch, Elijah, resurrected Seraphim of Sarov, and resurrected Sergius of Radonezh will preach against the antichrist. Humans were created about 7530 years ago. Birds participate in time creation. It's a sin to kill birds. Dinosaurs live under our level; they will get out through sinkholes and lakes; to kill them, go for their nerves. Save the birds; but kill the dinosaurs. First dinosaur will come out of Volga River in Russia. Scientists don't see dinosaurs under our level because of radiation. Sinkholes happen because people dig for resources underground and because earth is heating up. Demons grow human skin (from a sample taken during abduction) and put it on so as to look like us. Demons will invite peopletobehealedinsidetheirUFOs; those who go will be like zombies after. Gov't provides demons with diamonds and allows demons to abduct people. If you're being abducted, slowly pray the Jesus prayer. Don't panic. Demons use diamonds and souls to power their UFO craft. The bigger the diamond, the more it lasts. Demons have 4 UFO bases: 1)moon 2)inside fake mountain Kailash (Tibet) 3)in lake Baikal in Russia 4)in Atlantis which is underneath double ocean floor of Mariana Trench (Pacific Ocean). There are no aliens. Nobody lives on other planets. Airplanes that go down are hit by demons because they need the airspace to fight Jesus. Antichrist is pale with red eyes. He's possessed by Satan since he's 12 years old [Lavrentiy Chernigovskiy]. He flies super fast; deceived people will say: "Christ is here; Christ is there" when he's flying from one city to the next very fast. He wears gloves to hide long nails. He'ssurrounded by demons who appear as angels of light. Antichrist will trick people that he can do mountain moving and resurrection using holograms/hypnosis; fire from the sky is real because of pollution gases in the atmosphere. Antichrist will have food only for 6 months; then he will feed his 666ed people flourfrom mashed up turtles (Tavrion Batozskiy), but this won't be enough because 666ed people are 10 times as angry and 7 times as hungry as normal people even though 666ed people became shorter (3-4 feet tall = 80 - 120 cm)because nanochips do function of organs (organs diminish) [Nilus Myrrhgusher]. If you have a lot of nanochips in your forearm, then you will not be able to make proper Orthodox sign ofthe cross (last mercy for you will be to cut yourforearm off). Nanochips are sprayed by the gov't usingchemtrails; they're also in gov't food andmedicine; so, eat food from your own garden. In case garden is destroyed by ice from the sky, have chickens for eggs and goats for milk (Paisios). Lipstick contains cells of abortedfetuses, dog fat, and placenta; human fleshis in McDonalds, Pepsi, toothpaste, antiaging,anticancer, vaccines, perfume, etc.; that's why you should not be using anything that modern society has to offer. You're better off hiding within a 10-15 people group in order to escape Apocalypse. During Apocalypse,Christians will eat dirt from under pussywillowtree as it's filled with tears of Theotokos VirginMary; this water will flee if a 666ed person tries to get it. Barcode is Druid black magic curse; QRcode is Mayan curse; when food is scanned, it becomes dead because laser is a substance from demons. Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Unforgivablegreen666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (WorldPassport). It doesn't just have to be during this procedure (could be anything you sign up for or anywhere where there is a secret scanner); biometrics (fingerprints, eyescan) or getting picture for passport are very dangerous because they could mark you secretly. GabrielUrgebadze said thattheydoitonindexfingerwhenthey scan your finger. Basically, trytoavoidnewdocuments at all cost. Policewill microchip and isotope ray people on highways. Chipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, greenmark by isotope rays is given on forehead/wrist. Food stores will isotoperaypeopletoo. Antichrist will also release prisoners/insaneasylumpeople tomarkpeople. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell. If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with OrthodoxChristians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can'ttrack you; burn documents because they're fromSatan. TheMostHolyTrinity gives you a name during baptism; devil gives an antiname during antibaptism (ex. SocialSecurityNumber). People who die with these Satanicdocuments go to concentrationcamp in hell to await FinalJudgement; once the BEASTComputer is burned down, souls will be released for FinalJudgement. That's why you should give back documents of your deceasedrelatives back to the gov't so that the gov't cancels these digital antichristiannames given during antibaptism by the beastsystem; or just burn thesedocumentsbecause gov't could get upset and could send demons to mark you because of this outright act of defiance. Prophecy from halfamillennium ago describes FinalJudgement like this: Jesus was very upset with people who had littleboards (plasticcards) in their hands because they wanted discount from the antichrist. Givetocharity in the name of ArchangelMichael; he rescues people from temporaryhell twice a year [at midnight September18-19 and similarly on November20-21; pray at these times on your knees remembering the deceased by names (adding "and relatives by flesh up to Adam") so that they arerescued if they're in hell] (orbringsthemupalevel, that is, to a level with lesspunishment;eventually, people arefreed). Feed thepigeons;when pigeons bowdown, people are savedfrom temporaryhell. It's a big sin to rememberthe deadwithwreaths (because demons put thesewreaths on their necks if they're inhellwith theirwrists tied up behind their back while hanging by their wrists), meat,alcohol,sweets,andworldlymusic. Demons printiconsof saints/crosses/8sidedstarofVirginMary in newspapers/products so that you throw these newspapers/products in the trashblasphemingthesesaints. Crosses on solesofshoesandbackofpants are blasphemy. Demons makecarpets with crosses and put them on sidewalks so that people walkoncrosses. Playingcards mockhow Jesus sufferedonthecross: clubs(cross on which Jesus wascrucified), diamonds (fournails Jesus was crucifiedwith), hearts (sponge with vinegar that Jesuswas given to drink),spades (spear with whichJesus waspierced).Cremationisdevilworship; onlyblasphemers suchasLenin should be burned; if Lenin is buried, earth will be polluted, and China will attack Russia because of this. AfterChinaattacksRussia, RuskiOrthodoxTsar (shown by resurrected SeraphimofSarov) willcome topowerinRussia;this Tsar will slay traitors insideChurch andgov't; asaresult, Russia will be the only country not under the antichrist.Ecumenism=263heresies;each heresy leads to hell. In 2006 in Moscow (that's why Moscow will sink),representatives from most religions signed a document where it says that all religions worship the same SupremeBeing [aka thedevil]. Priests who participate in ecumenism/COVIDrestrictions will have Pagans walking on theirheads in hell. ArkhimandriteAntoninKapustin left a prophecy that Church of All Russian Saints in Gorny Monastery, EinKarem, Israel will be blessed by forerunner of antichrist; pseudoPatriarchKirillofRussia and MarkofBerlin blessed thischurchin2007. Whenpriestspray forcurrent gov't (insteadofprayingfor futureTsar),Jesus getsupfrom Histhroneand turns Hisback tothem. DryLindens leaves(bathbroom)toeatduringfamine.

I see your point and if that's all that bother s you have some type of side gig to keep money coming in while you're staying home with children.

A prenup is generally to protect the assets that a couple each bring into the marriage. For most people, all assets and debts accumulated during a marriage are considered marital property and would be split during a divorce. So even if you took seven years off work to raise children and he was piling money into a retirement account during that time, when you divorce the value of that account would be split between you. Now, if he wants the prenup to include the division of all assets accumulated during the marriage, you can always tell him no. Remember that a prenup should be balanced and fair, and you have the right to have your own lawyer review and revise it as well. I don’t think you have any reason to be annoyed.

Let's lay it on the line from a man's perspective.

In today's world, with family courts being hostile to men,

a man considering marriage who does not consider the consequences of divorce is nothing but a fool.  Read that again because it's the truth.

Women file for divorce in 70% of the cases.  College educated women getting divorced file in 90% of the cases. A man has a 50/50 chance of his marriage not falling apart.  This doesn't account for remaining in unhappy marriages and staying for the sake of the kids.

A man going to court for a divorce is going to be raped by the court.  Oh, yes he is.  That's how family courts work.  Lawyers are encouraged to take as much from the man as they can and give it to the women regardless of her behavior in the marriage.

She could have been caught red-handed in the very act of cheating with three different guys at once and the courts would totally overlook that.  He gets his kids taken away, loses half of his stuff he worked hard for, and has to pay an exaggerated amount each month for spousal support and child support for nearly two decades for each child.  Then the children grow up calling another man "Daddy." Basically, there is absolutely nothing in it for a man to get married.  With the hostile courts, a man has to do what he can to protect himself from them.  This doesn't even begin to address the many cases where a judge has taken a properly prepared prenup, signed and agreed on by both parties, and just simply thrown it out.

A marriage is a contract.  The courts view it as a legal agreement between two parties, and they already have rules in place on how they are going to proceed in the event the contract is to be terminated, and it's never in favor of the man.

Dr Stephanie has already resorted to name-calling and muddying the waters by suggesting that the preemptive attempt to protect oneself in case of a hostile divorce predicts negative behavior of a man in a loving marriage.  You don't buy a new car with the attitude that it's going to be involved in a crash and totally destroyed, but you do buy insurance for it just in case.

Dr Stephanie is viewing things from a woman's perspective, so her attitude is typical, and it's expected.

I'll bet that not one of the men responding to this has ever gone through a divorce.  This is not an attempt to avoid commitment and responsibility.  This is an attempt to preserve some of what a man has worked for over the years and avoid it being ripped away from him to be unfairly given to a woman who has become something he did not marry.

There is nothing in it for a man to marry.  In today's world, with family courts being hostile to men, a man considering marriage who does not consider the consequences of divorce is nothing but a fool.  Yes, that was very much worth typing twice.

.

No, you're not justified in being annoyed. You're not even engaged, so the entire thing is just a ridiculous hypothetical. Plus you can always say "No, that's not going to work for me".

If this were a second marriage for the two of you, and his net worth is significantly greater than yours now, a prenup may be reasonable for some people.

For a young couple and a first marriage?  In my view, suggesting a prenuptial agreement is a screaming red flag from someone avoiding commitment and responsibility.

You can negotiate what you get out of it if the marriage comes to an end. For example, you can ask for how much your alimony will be based on how many kids you have, have many months you didn’t work because you spend taking care of them, etc. 

It’s like a baseball contract where bonuses kick in for accomplishing certain goals. 

A prenup is supposed to make a divorce less messy. It’s supposed to save you attorney fees since it’s a contract so there’s no need to spend all that time and money in litigation. 

It could also work against him.  Imagine if you’re the guy that married debbi fields and made her signed a prenup. He’s probably kicking himself because she ended up founding mrs. fields cookies.