Zaferus

I'm working out for 60-90 minutes every night in an intense program and need some music to help keep me pushing. Especially on those nights where it's harder to keep motivated.

Any suggestions on some good songs to keep me pumped? What songs do you listen to on your workouts?

Thanks!

Right now I feel like I'm in a pressure cooker and that I've become karma's personal kick toy.

My marriage is ending - and my wife is laying all the guilt and anger on me she can muster. I'm building my dream home that I've put my heart and time into trying to finish - which I'll probably complete just in time to lose it in my impending divorce. My current house isn't selling and I might have to carry two mortgages somehow until it does, and my work is going through a big merger creating lots of job uncertainty and craziness.

I feel like I need something in my life to not suck and need to feel even a little normal for just a while. Today I felt like I was just simply going to implode.

Has anyone else felt like this sometimes? How you deal when it seems like everything in your life is falling apart?

We've been married 11 years and our sex life is confined to the bedroom and 2 positions. I'm totally bored with our relationship and feel like our marriage has become like a sentence.

If I purchase any toys, books or lingerie and ask to try something new or try to talk to my wife about our relationship in the bedroom she gets angry about it and tells me we're "too old" for "these" things (even a different position in bed) and tells me we're not kids anymore. She tells me if I'm not satisfied with her and that I should leave her and the kids and get a "hooker", or says other hurtful things. If I ask to go to couples therapy she also gets mad.

I've tried candles and romanting music, and sexy notes but she tells me that if I loved her I wouldn't ask for anything else.

We have 2 great kids that I love, I want to work this out but I find now I often fantisize about what it would be like to have a partner that was passionate and open minded.

Does anyone have any realistic advice?