BloodyRose

I went to a party out of state to celebrate the life of a good friend of mine who had taken his life 6 months ago.At this particular party i found out my old high school crush was there. During the party we chatted, and caught up. A couple people decided to have another party and go out and drink. I joined and so did he. After the party we headed back to the hotel. My High school crush and I walked out of the room for a second to talk but when we came back it was locked and everyone was passed out on the bed together. Instead of knocking on the door he asked if he could just come sleep in my room. I agreed in stating he would have to sleep on the top covers and i would get the bottom.

Anyways through out the entire day for some reason i was extremely turned on. And didn't know why. I really wanted to sleep with him but i tried very faithful to my boyfriend of 2 years. He even stated " Urgh... why do you have to have boyfriend?" In his own sexual frustration.

When i got home i told my boyfriend of the experience. When i showed him a picture of the guy he claimed " WHY DIDNT YOU SLEEP WITH HIM! He's so good looking!" He then stated he would not have been made if i had slept with the guy. In fact he brought up wanting to go into an Open relationship. I was very surprised by his comment. And even though ive agreed to be in the open relationship to try it out. I'm not quite sure how to respond. I dont know what to really do. Should i call my crush up and sleep with him?

Okay so i have Chronic depression. It never truly showed until 2012. Since the its only been getting worse and worse. Ive been in a serious relationship with my best friend for 6 months now. We've been friends for 2 years and We moved in together 5 months go. things were going great at first but recently within the past 2 week my depression has gotten the best of me. And i think it has made him discourage our relationship. He's been telling me how he's afraid to lose me. And in fact last night he was acting weird. When i asked what was wrong and he burst into tears. He explained to me how he was afraid to lose me. I assured him that i was not going anywhere. I feel no need to leave him. I love him and care for him very much. But i dont think that helped very much. I laid with him till he cried himself to sleep. Im very worried about us. However i dont want to go to therapy in fear of being medicated. I know what its like to become a robot. Growing up my mother gave me ADD pills ( that i didnt need) until i was basically a robot.

I need advice... Should i start going in for therapy and get treated? Or do you think that wont help...

Okay so i have Chronic depression. It never truly showed until 2012. Since the its only been getting worse and worse. Ive been in a serious relationship with my best friend for 6 months now. We've been friends for 2 years and We moved in together 5 months go. things were going great at first but recently within the past 2 week my depression has gotten the best of me. And i think it has made him discourage our relationship. He's been telling me how he's afraid to lose me. And in fact last night he was acting weird. When i asked what was wrong and he burst into tears. He explained to me how he was afraid to lose me. I assured him that i was not going anywhere. I feel no need to leave him. I love him and care for him very much. But i dont think that helped very much. I laid with him till he cried himself to sleep. Im very worried about us.

I need advice... Should i start going in for therapy and get treated? Or do you think that wont help...

so i just had my first drag. it was a menthol so it didnt burn as much. however i disliked it. i only god halfway through before i threw it away. im over 18 and can buy my own but i realized it wasnt worth it.

how long will this stuff be in my system fron the one drag?

Him: " Are you going to plan any surprises for me tomorrow?"

Me: "hmmm maybe, we'll see ;)"

Him: " Wow a week of working with each other and we already are good flirts ;)"

I suck at flirting how would i respond.. QUICK

So there is this guy who is at my work who has been flirting with me for the past 4 days. he's been complimenting me on my smile and then points out the small things i do like, how i laugh or smile, or the facial expressions i make and he compliments them saying they look " cute" or " adorable." We chat with each other about each other's lives and joke back and forth a lot/ flirt a lot. Another guy from work actually came up to me and informed me that he really liked me. Everyone else in the office has also pointed that out too. So ive tried to flirt yet not seem desperate. I jsut got out of a bad relationship with someone so im just a bit out of practice with flirting and im a bit oblivious towards things. The last guy i dated pretty much screwed me then dumped me.

However at the same time, he's been flirting with another girl who sits across from us. Guys around him have asked him if he has gotten her number yet. He always says " who knows i might"

I dont every feel jealous however for some reason i felt very jealous.

He did however ask me to go hang out with him on sunday.

Im debating on doing it because he's starting to give me the vibe that he might be a player.'

He's a co worker. But do you thiink i should maybe trust him?

Advice please

Last night my boyfriend ( now ex) broke up with me, because he couldnt handle the fact that my family just didnt like him. And he said id be better off without him which... i really am not.

I just want something that will help me get through this, also i want sad songs...

I dont want anything screamo or metal, and something more recent ( like 90s to now)

Last night my boyfriend ( now ex) broke up with me, because he couldnt handle the fact that my family just didnt like him. And he said id be better off without him which... i really am not.

I just want something that will help me get through this, also i want sad songs...

I dont want anything screamo or metal, and something more recent ( like 90s to now)

I got my ears pierced for the first time back in april. Like on april 18th. Anyways, recently I lost my original pair of earrings ad the only pair I have currently are dangly earings. I want to sleep but these earrings hurt when I lay on my side.

If I keep them our for the next 7 hours will they close up?

Recently my boyfriend has been acting distant from me. We both live around the corner from each other so every so often i go over and visit. He lives with roomates and one of them happens to be my best friend ( who a guy) the other is my friend's sister.

I'm in a college right now, he's still in high school however he is older than me. Currently a class ive been taking, called Sociology has been talking about relationships. And ive been making charts comparing my relationship ..... and i realized that my relationship with my boyfriend is off. We've been dating for 5 months now, but ive always liked him from when we first met. we had sex for the first time 2 months after we first started dating. I had lost my virginity to him then. Recently about a week ago i told him that i thought we should tone down on the sex a little.

Recently... since i told him that we should tone down on the sex he's been talking to me less and less. I went over to his apartment to hang out with him.. and he ignored me the whole time so i spent my time with my best friend instead. ( my guy friend/ his roomate is actually engaged so i dont see him as a dating entity. I respect he is in a relationship and he respects that im in one too.)

I dont know whats going on but now hes acting annoyed and he wont talk to me about it....

He just ignores me when i come over, and when i text him he's never replies. When i call him he never answers. I only call or text once a day sometimes twice... so im not obessive over it. Besides, not replying or texting doesnt usualy upset me but he has attitude with it. He also has excuses like " ive been busy" when in reality he's just sitting at home on the computer or on his ps3.

He doesnt even tell me he loves me anymore unless i say it....

I miss the old him, the romantic cheesey, dorky him. Its like he's pushing me away.

What should i do? Am i over reacting? or.... urgh i just dont want to lose him

Recently my boyfriend has been acting distant from me. We both live around the corner from each other so every so often i go over and visit. He lives with roomates and one of them happens to be my best friend ( who a guy) the other is my friend's sister.

I'm in a college right now, he's still in high school however he is older than me. Currently a class ive been taking, called Sociology has been talking about relationships. And ive been making charts comparing my relationship ..... and i realized that my relationship with my boyfriend is off. We've been dating for 5 months now, but ive always liked him from when we first met. we had sex for the first time 2 months after we first started dating. I had lost my virginity to him then. Recently about a week ago i told him that i thought we should tone down on the sex a little.

Recently... since i told him that we should tone down on the sex he's been talking to me less and less. I went over to his apartment to hang out with him.. and he ignored me the whole time so i spent my time with my best friend instead. ( my guy friend/ his roomate is actually engaged so i dont see him as a dating entity. I respect he is in a relationship and he respects that im in one too.)

I dont know whats going on but now hes acting annoyed and he wont talk to me about it....

He just ignores me when i come over, and when i text him he's never replies. When i call him he never answers. I only call or text once a day sometimes twice... so im not obessive over it. Besides, not replying or texting doesnt usualy upset me but he has attitude with it. He also has excuses like " ive been busy" when in reality he's just sitting at home on the computer or on his ps3.

He doesnt even tell me he loves me anymore unless i say it....

I miss the old him, the romantic cheesey, dorky him. Its like he's pushing me away.

What should i do? Am i over reacting? or.... urgh i just dont want to lose him

I'm in a college right now, he's still in high school however he is older than me. Currently a class ive been taking, called Sociology has been talking about relationships. And ive been making charts comparing my relationship ..... and i realized that my relationship with my boyfriend is off. We've been dating for 4 months now, but ive always liked him from when we first met. we had sex for the first time 2 months after we first started dating. I had lost my virginity to him then. Recently about a week ago i told him that i thought we should tone down on the sex a little.

I want him to be a little more of himself. A little more romantic. I want himm to be the person he was when we first started dating. Spontanious, cheesey, the one i fell for. He doesnt have much confidence in himself so he always has trouble giving me something. But like ive told him many times that i dont care what he does, what he gives me, i dont even need a gift, all i want is for him to prove that he cares about me.

Recently... since i told him that we should tone down on the sex he's been talking to me less and less. I went over to his apartment to hang out with him.. and he ignored me the whole time so i spent my time with his roommate who is also my best guy friend. ( my guy friend/ his roomate is actually engaged so i dont see him as a dating entity. I respect he is in a relationship and he respects that im in one too.)

A week and a half ago he had done something that had made me really upset, and hurt my physically. He kept biting me, at first it was playful but..... he bit harder and harder. I ended up slapping him in the face really hard and leaving. He apologized later and so did i but i still have bruises.

I dont know whats going on but now hes acting annoyed and he wont talk to me about it....

im a reasonable person, im willing to change just to make things work. I love and care about him very much and would do anything for him. But i dont know whats going on.

Advice? Please?

I'm in a college right now, he's still in high school however he is older than me. Currently a class ive been taking, called Sociology has been talking about relationships. And ive been making charts comparing my relationship ..... and i realized that my relationship with my boyfriend is off. We've been dating for 4 months now, but ive always liked him from when we first met. we had sex for the first time 2 months after we first started dating. I had lost my virginity to him then. Recently about a week ago i told him that i thought we should tone down on the sex a little.

I want him to be a little more of himself. A little more romantic. I want himm to be the person he was when we first started dating. Spontanious, cheesey, the one i fell for. He doesnt have much confidence in himself so he always has trouble giving me something. But like ive told him many times that i dont care what he does, what he gives me, i dont even need a gift, all i want is for him to prove that he cares about me.

Recently... since i told him that we should tone down on the sex he's been talking to me less and less. I went over to his apartment to hang out with him.. and he ignored me the whole time so i spent my time with his roommate who is also my best guy friend. ( my guy friend/ his roomate is actually engaged so i dont see him as a dating entity. I respect he is in a relationship and he respects that im in one too.)

A week and a half ago he had done something that had made me really upset, and hurt my physically. He kept biting me, at first it was playful but..... he bit harder and harder. I ended up slapping him in the face really hard and leaving. He apologized later and so did i but i still have bruises.

I dont know whats going on but now hes acting annoyed and he wont talk to me about it....

im a reasonable person, im willing to change just to make things work. I love and care about him very much and would do anything for him. But i dont know whats going on.

Advice? Please?

I'm in a college right now, he's still in high school however he is older than me. Currently a class ive been taking, called Sociology has been talking about relationships. And ive been making charts comparing my relationship ..... and i realized that my relationship with my boyfriend is off. We've been dating for 4 months now, but ive always liked him from when we first met. we had sex for the first time 2 months after we first started dating. I had lost my virginity to him then. Recently about a week ago i told him that i thought we should tone down on the sex a little. I want him to be a little more of himself. A little more romantic. He doesnt have much confidence in himself so he always has trouble giving me something. But like ive told him many times that i dont care what he does, what he gives me, i dont even need a gift, all i want is for him to prove that he cares about me.

Recently... since i told him that we should tone down on the sex he's been talking to me less and less. I went over to his apartment to hang out with him.. and he ignored me the whole time so i spent my time with his roommate who is also my best guy friend.

A week and a half ago he had done something that had made me really upset, and hurt my physically. He kept biting me, at first it was playful but..... he bit harder and harder. I ended up slapping him in the face really hard and leaving. He apologized later and so did i but i still have bruises.

I dont know whats going on but now hes acting annoyed and he wont talk to me about it....

im a reasonable person, im willing to change just to make things work. I love and care about him very much and would do anything for him. But i dont know whats going on.

Advice? Please?

No really. I took a plan B pill back in May on the 10th. On the 14 to the 18th i spotted.

My regular period is due between the times of the 26th to the 30th. It usually shows up on the 28th. However it never came. At first i had assumed i might of been pregnant. 9 days after having a missed period i had taken a pregnancy test, 5 days later i took another pregnancy test. Both had showed up negative. I am positive i am not pregnant. however... my period still has not come.

What should i do?

3 weeks ago on the 19th i had sex with my boyfriend. We had sex twice that day however he only ejaculated once. We used a condom both times and changed regularly.

the next day i got in trouble with my parents and to make long story short. ive not been allowed to see him since then. that was 3 weeks ago.

My period is due on the 28th each month. (it varies between the 26th to the 30th).

However.... my period is now 11 days late.

Im very nervous however i think its because of a pill i had taken.

I had become quite scared one day after having sex with him, so i took a Plan B Pill ( which pretty much prevents the pregnancy.) It had worked and i know this because it gives you an early period. Plus you're supposed to have another period after that.

Anyways, because ive been grounded im not allowed to leave the house. Ive been trying to get a pregnancy test because it's so late.

My Symptoms:

Feeling Bloated

Not eating ( i dont ever feel hungry or feel like eating, so in other words i dont have an appetite for food. i have to force myself to eat)

Missed period

White discharge

I just... Feel different.

I can never feel fully rested. I can sleep 12 hours and still feel tired.

I snuck away and told my boyfriend that i've missed my period for 11 days now. He may seem very calm about the whole situation but you could telll he's nervous inside. He told me that what ever happened he would always stay with me. Whether it be in 9 months or even years from now he'd always be there. He also said that he's going to join the army to help support me if i do end up being pregnant.... Im just so nervous.

I'm 17... and he's 19. do you guys think it's just because of the pill? or is it more? Am i pregnant? or is it because i'm anxious and i just have stress because of college and not being able to see my boyfriend anymore.?

Okay, soooo

3 weeks ago on the 19th i had sex with my boyfriend. We had sex twice that day however he only ejaculated once. We used a condom both times and changed regularly.

the next day i got in trouble with my parents and to make long story short. ive not been allowed to see him since then. that was 3 weeks ago.

My period is due on the 28th each month. (it varies between the 26th to the 30th).

However.... my period is now 11 days late.

Im very nervous however i think its because of a pill i had taken.

I had become quite scared one day after having sex with him, so i took a Plan B Pill ( which pretty much prevents the pregnancy.) It had worked and i know this because it gives you an early period. Plus you're supposed to have another period after that.

Anyways, because ive been grounded im not allowed to leave the house. Ive been trying to get a pregnancy test because it's so late.

My Symptoms:

Feeling Bloated

Not eating ( i dont ever feel hungry or feel like eating, so in other words i dont have an appetite for food. i have to force myself to eat)

Missed period

White discharge

I just... Feel different.

I can never feel fully rested. I can sleep 12 hours and still feel tired.

I snuck away and told my boyfriend that i've missed my period for 11 days now. He may seem very calm about the whole situation but you could telll he's nervous inside. He told me that what ever happened he would always stay with me. Whether it be in 9 months or even years from now he'd always be there. He also said that he's going to join the army to help support me if i do end up being pregnant.... Im just so nervous.

I'm 17... and he's 19. do you guys think it's just because of the pill? or is it more? Am i pregnant? or is it because i'm anxious and i just have stress because of college and not being able to see my boyfriend anymore.?

Ive had an eating disorder for 2 and a half years now.

At first up until March of last year, i was anorexic. I got scared and decided to try and gain weight back. Then my ex broke up with me... thats when i became bulimic to deal with the stress he was putting me under

Since then, its been a tool to keep my weight the same, and to cope with stress.

I have many tigger points, one being my mother, another being stress, and another is my ex.

About 2 weeks ago i told my current boyfriend that i had this disorder after my stomach started hurting very badly. Its been doing that a lot within the past few weeks ( 4 or 5 ish weeks) Especially when i dont eat. He was devastated by the news. He's been very supportive since then. He told me i had 2 weeks to get money together or else he was going to pay for me to get checked.

here is the thing, I'm 17, i wont be 18 until August. He may be 18 but Im just afraid of my parents knowing of my disorder. They would have a huge fit, most likely freak out in an unnecessary manner. Maybe even go as far as blame my current boyfriend for it all. Make it so that i cant see him until i turn 18.

My boyfriend suggests we go to Instacare. Bu i dont know. I'm scared, but i think if i wait any longer my condition will get worse

Symptoms:

Constantly feel weak

Brittle nails

Puffy cheeks

Constant sore throat

Stomach constantly hurts even if i've eaten

I have many suicidal thoughts and have attempted before i met my boyfriend

My head is fogged, like i sometimes cant think straight

Irregular heart beat ( sometimes it feels weak)

I get very dizzy sometimes.

Should i seek medical help? if so.... what should i do so im not detected by my parents.

Im a quiet mannered girl. I sometimes pick fights, but they're usually playful. ( like with my friends who are all boys) Anyways, i was helping my boyfriend move into his new apartment, but i had to get home. I dont live very far so him and my other good friends decided to walk me home.

We were walking down a long stretch of road all fine and dandy, when a car pulls up and the person inside ( lets call him J) starts talking to one of my friends ( lets call him M)

M told the guy in the car to F off and leave us alone. J got out of the car and pushes my friend M. I back away in shock and my boyfriend stands in front of me. Next thing i know there are 2 more cars that pull up with people

Now, all my friends just so happen to have hunting knives on them, they never brought them out but i knew they had them

However i was defenseless. Realizing this i backed away, walked down to the next house and got one of my neighbor's to come out and break up the soon to be fight. By the time he had gotten out, my friends were already backing away (M with his knife out and my boyfriend had his knife out behind his back.) leaving the others hissing and taunting.

Now my question is... did i do the right thing in sitting it out if there was an actual fight?

I am female 5"2, but the moment i saw that J kid hurt my friend, i felt so angry.

We've been dating for quite sometime, and i lost my virginity to him.

However, even though this is the 4th time ive had sex with him, he just cant keep it up. Things are great, when we're fooling around, during oral, or during foreplay, even the moment he puts the condom on. But after 10 minutes or 15 minutes he goes soft, without ejaculation sometimes...

I think it's a mental block. He's always focusing on trying to make me orgasm. I think him focusing on that makes him soft. It's a sad thought but i just want to have a longer moment with him. I'll eventually get off he doesnt need to worry about it.

My question is... What can i do to help my boyfriend stay erect?