Jessica

This is my first pregnancy and it might sound sad that im worried about this but I just want to know if your body goes back to normal after child birth. What im really asking is...will your vagina be back the same? lol

I went to the emergency room as soon as I found out I was pregnant due to not having any health insurance and they wanted to check to make sure everything was okay because I was cramping pretty bad. Everything came back fine. They checked to make sure I wasn't having a tubal pregnancy and I wasn't. They said I was so early that they needed to use a camera to check measurements of the baby so that had to go internally and it took her forever to find anything. Well she finally saw something and it was where the baby was suppose to be but she said wow you must be very early because what she saw so very tiny. Well all they were able to see was a tiny sac with a mass inside is how they explained it. That was basically all that was said. Well then I called to ask them my hcg levels and she said they were at 11,000 which puts me at 5 weeks, according to the nurse. (I wanted to know how far along I was because at that point I didn't know much) So does that level seem high? I don't know much about pregnancy hormone levels...Thank you in advance for the help

Me and my boyfriend are living with my grandmother until we can get on our feet because we had our own apartment and it didnt work out well financially. well shortly after we moved in with my grandmother my boyfriend lost his job. My family feels like he isnt trying hard enough to look for a job. Hes been out of work for a month now. Hes only been out two days to look for a job and he filled out like 3 applications. I understand where they are coming from because he needs to be helping my grandmother if hes living there and im really starting to get frustrated with him. Im not working because I am in school and he always throws it in my face that I need to be out looking a job too which I have been doing. My mom tells me I dont need to work and he gets all mad and says if hes working I need to be working. I found a sign holder job and he wouldnt do it because he said he didnt want to stand in the heat for 6 hours...I told him ALOT of men work in the heat...he isnt a manly guy either btw...and Im just starting to feel like this relationship sint going to work anymore. Im 22 years old and im not happy with the way things are...What should I do? I love him but I just cant stand this anymore he doesnt even have a dollar in his pocket. He just doesnt seem like hes trying enough and he always needs me to be with him to go look for a job...he says he has nowhere to go but I know his mom would let him live there....I dont know what to do! My grandma keeps saying its okay if he stays there and isnt working but to me its not okay being that shes on a small income. I feel like im needing so much more out of a relationship...i mean we are living with my grandmother! Please help

Me and my boyfriend are living with my grandmother until we can get on our feet because we had our own apartment and it didnt work out well financially. well shortly after we moved in with my grandmother my boyfriend lost his job. My family feels like he isnt trying hard enough to look for a job. Hes been out of work for a month now. Hes only been out two days to look for a job and he filled out like 3 applications. I understand where they are coming from because he needs to be helping my grandmother if hes living there and im really starting to get frustrated with him. Im not working because I am in school and he always throws it in my face that I need to be out looking a job too which I have been doing. My mom tells me I dont need to work and he gets all mad and says if hes working I need to be working. I found a sign holder job and he wouldnt do it because he said he didnt want to stand in the heat for 6 hours...I told him ALOT of men work in the heat...he isnt a manly guy either btw...and Im just starting to feel like this relationship sint going to work anymore. Im 22 years old and im not happy with the way things are...What should I do? I love him but I just cant stand this anymore he doesnt even have a dollar in his pocket. He just doesnt seem like hes trying enough and he always needs me to be with him to go look for a job...he says he has nowhere to go but I know his mom would let him live there....I dont know what to do! My grandma keeps saying its okay if he stays there and isnt working but to me its not okay being that shes on a small income. I feel like im needing so much more out of a relationship...i mean we are living with my grandmother! Please help

Please help ? I'm going to make this short..But please help me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight I told him I felt like he didn't spend enough time with me and he got mad and started driving crazy and started punching the steering wheel. Well when I got to work we fought through text then he never showed up to pick me up from work so I had to get a ride I was so upset we started fighting when I got home and he broke up with me. I begged and cried my heart out to please not leave me. He said nothing could change his mind that a billion dollars wouldn't change his mind I begged him all night to not break up with me...he wouldn't change his mind so I called my mom to come get me and my stuff. As she was helping me pack my stuff I went to the living room where he was sleeping and said are you sure this is what you want? He said nooo I love you. Sooo I went and told my mom he wanted to be with me..she was sooo upset that she came to help me pack and that I decided to stay ( me and my boyfriend live together) well the next day he said he was half asleep when he said he wanted to be with me so I was devastated then he said he would think about it and when he got home from work he said his decision was to be with me! I'm so excited but I'm pretty sure my mom hates him now. Shouldn't he apologize to her? What can he do to make things right with her? I told her all the hateful things he said to me so I hope she will forgive him...I love him and don't want to lose him. A million things are running through my head right now...like if he really wants to be with me or not. He says I nag and complain too much but most of us women do. And I just wish that whole incident never happened. What do y'all think? Please help I'm going insane. Hope everything I wrote made sense sorry if it didn't sorry...I just know I can't live without him I will be so hurt.

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I'm going to make this short..But please help me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight I told him I felt like he didn't spend enough time with me and he got mad and started driving crazy and started punching the steering wheel. Well when I got to work we fought through text then he never showed up to pick me up from work so I had to get a ride I was so upset we started fighting when I got home and he broke up with me. I begged and cried my heart out to please not leave me. He said nothing could change his mind that a billion dollars wouldn't change his mind I begged him all night to not break up with me...he wouldn't change his mind so I called my mom to come get me and my stuff. As she was helping me pack my stuff I went to the living room where he was sleeping and said are you sure this is what you want? He said nooo I love you. Sooo I went and told my mom he wanted to be with me..she was sooo upset that she came to help me pack and that I decided to stay ( me and my boyfriend live together) well the next day he said he was half asleep when he said he wanted to be with me so I was devastated then he said he would think about it and when he got home from work he said his decision was to be with me! I'm so excited but I'm pretty sure my mom hates him now. Shouldn't he apologize to her? What can he do to make things right with her? I told her all the hateful things he said to me so I hope she will forgive him...I love him and don't want to lose him. A million things are running through my head right now...like if he really wants to be with me or not. He says I nag and complain too much but most of us women do. And I just wish that whole incident never happened. What do y'all think? Please help I'm going insane. Hope everything I wrote made sense sorry if it didn't sorry...I just know I can't live without him I will be so hurt.

Im begging for help please anyone? I'm going to make this short..But please help me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight I told him I felt like he didn't spend enough time with me and he got mad and started driving crazy and started punching the steering wheel. Well when I got to work we fought through text then he never showed up to pick me up from work so I had to get a ride I was so upset we started fighting when I got home and he broke up with me. I begged and cried my heart out to please not leave me. He said nothing could change his mind that a billion dollars wouldn't change his mind I begged him all night to not break up with me...he wouldn't change his mind so I called my mom to come get me and my stuff. As she was helping me pack my stuff I went to the living room where he was sleeping and said are you sure this is what you want? He said nooo I love you. Sooo I went and told my mom he wanted to be with me..she was sooo upset that she came to help me pack and that I decided to stay ( me and my boyfriend live together) well the next day he said he was half asleep when he said he wanted to be with me so I was devastated then he said he would think about it and when he got home from work he said his decision was to be with me! I'm so excited but I'm pretty sure my mom hates him now. Shouldn't he apologize to her? What can he do to make things right with her? I told her all the hateful things he said to me so I hope she will forgive him...I love him and don't want to lose him. A million things are running through my head right now...like if he really wants to be with me or not. He says I nag and complain too much but most of us women do. And I just wish that whole incident never happened. What do y'all think? Please help I'm going insane. Hope everything I wrote made sense sorry if it didn't sorry...I just know I can't live without him I will be so hurt.

Im begging for help please anyone? I'm going to make this short..But please help me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight I told him I felt like he didn't spend enough time with me and he got mad and started driving crazy and started punching the steering wheel. Well when I got to work we fought through text then he never showed up to pick me up from work so I had to get a ride I was so upset we started fighting when I got home and he broke up with me. I begged and cried my heart out to please not leave me. He said nothing could change his mind that a billion dollars wouldn't change his mind I begged him all night to not break up with me...he wouldn't change his mind so I called my mom to come get me and my stuff. As she was helping me pack my stuff I went to the living room where he was sleeping and said are you sure this is what you want? He said nooo I love you. Sooo I went and told my mom he wanted to be with me..she was sooo upset that she came to help me pack and that I decided to stay ( me and my boyfriend live together) well the next day he said he was half asleep when he said he wanted to be with me so I was devastated then he said he would think about it and when he got home from work he said his decision was to be with me! I'm so excited but I'm pretty sure my mom hates him now. Shouldn't he apologize to her? What can he do to make things right with her? I told her all the hateful things he said to me so I hope she will forgive him...I love him and don't want to lose him. A million things are running through my head right now...like if he really wants to be with me or not. He says I nag and complain too much but most of us women do. And I just wish that whole incident never happened. What do y'all think? Please help I'm going insane. Hope everything I wrote made sense sorry if it did

I'm going to make this short..But please help me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight I told him I felt like he didn't spend enough time with me and he got mad and started driving crazy and started punching the steering wheel. Well when I got to work we fought through text then he never showed up to pick me up from work so I had to get a ride I was so upset we started fighting when I got home and he broke up with me. I begged and cried my heart out to please not leave me. He said nothing could change his mind that a billion dollars wouldn't change his mind I begged him all night to not break up with me...he wouldn't change his mind so I called my mom to come get me and my stuff. As she was helping me pack my stuff I went to the living room where he was sleeping and said are you sure this is what you want? He said nooo I love you. Sooo I went and told my mom he wanted to be with me..she was sooo upset that she came to help me pack and that I decided to stay ( me and my boyfriend live together) well the next day he said he was half asleep when he said he wanted to be with me so I was devastated then he said he would think about it and when he got home from work he said his decision was to be with me! I'm so excited but I'm pretty sure my mom hates him now. Shouldn't he apologize to her? What can he do to make things right with her? I told her all the hateful things he said to me so I hope she will forgive him...I love him and don't want to lose him. A million things are running through my head right now...like if he really wants to be with me or not. He says I nag and complain too much but most of us women do. And I just wish that whole incident never happened. What do y'all think? Please help I'm going insane. Hope everything I wrote made sense sorry if it didn't.

If he's never cheated on you before how do you know if he's capable of doing it in the future what are some characteristics....

Me and my boyfriend live together and we have been dating for 10 months. We have had really bad fights and today we got into a bad fight because of the xbox. He plays all of the time with his friend online and I just sit there and watch and its really unfair to me. The game he plays is a one player so I can't join in We live in a one bedroom apartment so while he's playing for 16 hours a day...I have nothing to do and finally I snapped and I went off on him and he said he's tired of me being bossy and he said to me...I love you but when we are fighting I don't love you too much. That really hurt and I went ballistic and then he grabbed a knife and went into the bathroom and said he would kill his self...I freaked out grabbed it from him he said he didn't deserve to be here...I'm really freaked out! I'm not use to stuff like that and over an xbox??? Its so childish we are in our twenties. I don't know what to do! I really just don't...am I that much of a bad person he's willing to kill his self he told me he never wanted to kill his self before he met me and that really hurts alot because I'm a really good person and I'm always trying to get his attention and he is the one that blows me off!

Me and my boyfriend live together and we have been dating for 10 months. We have had really bad fights and today we got into a bad fight because of the xbox. He plays all of the time with his friend online and I just sit there and watch and its really unfair to me. The game he plays is a one player so I can't join in We live in a one bedroom apartment so while he's playing for 16 hours a day...I have nothing to do and finally I snapped and I went off on him and he said he's tired of me being bossy and he said to me...I love you but when we are fighting I don't love you too much. That really hurt and I went ballistic and then he grabbed a knife and went into the bathroom and said he would kill his self...I freaked out grabbed it from him he said he didn't deserve to be here...I'm really freaked out! I'm not use to stuff like that and over an xbox??? Its so childish we are in our twenties. I don't know what to do! I really just don't...am I that much of a bad person he's willing to kill his self he told me he never wanted to kill his self before he met me and that really hurts alot because I'm a really good person and I'm always trying to get his attention and he is the one that blows me off! Idk what to do!

Last night around 2 am my boyfriend was sleeping and I was awake watching tv and I kept hearing this noise I got up to see what it was and there was a fricken rat in the vent about my fan I could tell it was one bc my stove light was on and all other lights in my apartment were out so I woke my boyfriend up screaming and we grabbed out dog and we got out of there fast and went and stayed with my grandma for the night well we decided to come back and I'm really freaked out I don't even understand why the rat came into the vent we don't leave food laying out and I keep it very clean. He obviously came in through the roof of the apartment building. There isn't a way to put a trap in there bc its the fan above the stove what can I do?? I'm really freaked out and I just know it was a rat bc u could see the shadow pretty clear and there was more then one in there too and I'm just really grossed out right now.

Should I rinse him he has a huge round bump on nose and around eye and eye is swollen and very red around it. Should I rinse his body I don't know what to do! The only thing I can think of is I washed my carpet with cleaner spray and he maybe stepped in it..its fabuluso cleaning stuff idk what to do he's 7 months old

Every month I experience very painful periods the pain is right above my ......I'm so tired of this pain it hurts so bad I throw up somethings this pain is just horrible and I wouldn't wish it on anything. Any advice on how to get this to go away. I'm really drained out from all the pain I feel so weak I've tried hot baths,medicine,excersizes,resting doesn't even work because I can't stay still I keep rocking back and forth because this pain is so unbearable. What can I do? I work fulltime but have no extra money to see a doctor. Please help I can't take this pain much longer ohh and birth control doesn't work either.

Do that cut you open completely? Like from inner leg to inner leg? I'm trying to concieve and I just saw a video that made me extremely naucious and second guessing on if this is what I really want. Do you heal back to normal?

e time to help me? I'm 22 years old and me and my boyfriend have been trying to concieve and I'm not sure if this is a symptom of pregnancy or if I just ate something bad. Maybe someone has experienced this before. Well last night I was half asleep in my bed all of a sudden something told me to sit up and I did and it felt like I blacked out for a second then the bad dizzyness came everything was spinning and I knew right away I needed to throw up so after I threw up I felt better...also my body temperature got really hot while this was happening. I've been cramping a little lately in my lower area but that could be my period about to start this is why I'm wondering if anyone experienced this because I never have. It really freaked me out and I still have light nausea feeling and all I really want to do is lay down. I know people ask this question a lot on here but I really would like responses before I take a test in the morning.

I'm 22 years old and me and my boyfriend have been trying to concieve and I'm not sure if this is a symptom of pregnancy or if I just ate something bad. Maybe someone has experienced this before. Well last night I was half asleep in my bed all of a sudden something told me to sit up and I did and it felt like I blacked out for a second then the bad dizzyness came everything was spinning and I knew right away I needed to throw up so after I threw up I felt better...also my body temperature got really hot while this was happening. I've been cramping a little lately in my lower area but that could be my period about to start this is why I'm wondering if anyone experienced this because I never have. It really freaked me out and I still have light nausea feeling and all I really want to do is lay down. I know people ask this question a lot on here but I really would like responses before I take a test in the morning.

Me and my boyfriend have been trying to concieve and I'm not sure if this is a symptom of pregnancy or if I just ate something bad. Maybe someone has experienced this before. Well last night I was half asleep in my bed all of a sudden something told me to sit up and I did and it felt like I blacked out for a second then the bad dizzyness came everything was spinning and I knew right away I needed to throw up so after I threw up I felt better...also my body temperature got really hot while this was happening. I've been cramping a little lately in my lower area but that could be my period about to start this is why I'm wondering if anyone experienced this because I never have. It really freaked me out and I still have light nausea feeling and all I really want to do is lay down. I know people ask this question a lot on here but I really would like responses before I take a test in the morning.

Of getting pregnant every month. I'm not able to get pregnant and infertility doesn't run in my family. When I was younger I was taught how easy it is to get pregnant when in fact its not....I'm 22 now and can't get pregnant