SeaSquirrel

We go to the river his mothers house which is 5 hours away, we have a altercation he tells me to leave (he is drunk and goes to bed) its 11:45, the next day he wants me to stay? The following day I am overheard by his mother on a phone call with my daughter explaining to her my concerns (keeping in mind my daughter lives is Hawaii and is pretty concerned about the drama). Two days later another altercation occurs and he brings up his mother over hearing me on the call with my daughter calling him a drunk and over needy person, which is true and I told him so. So he proceeds to get angry gets in the boat with his kids and tells me to leave, I do! Its 118 degrees and now I have my boston terrrior and I waiting for a friend to drive 265 miles to pick us up which takes 3.5 hours. He has not idea what this put us through. Now he will not stop texting me leaving messages and even Facebook messages ( which he took me off his facebook and his mom and sister did the same?).

I'm OK with just leaving it alone and not responding to any of this, which I have not responded at all!

A part of me is a little happy that me not contacting him back is driving him nuts, I know I'm bad to feel this but for some reason I'm getting some satisfaction yikessss.

Question: How do I not respond and is it best to just not respond.

QUESTION: Do I remain silent and

I dont want to be rude, I just dont have anything left to say, is this wrong?

My question is why would he say this? Oh by the way we are in a relationship status.:)

What I see is a lot of drama between the two of them, anger issues, drinking in excess. How to break it off with him without causing more issues? I have only been dating him for 30 days.

to show more interest in getting to know her better. He is a good man but how do I get him to move forward. The two of them seem to like each other and I am happy for this because I think they would make a great couple....

She keeps getting up out of her bed and comes and crys at me then goes back and lays down and then gets up again.

I emailed my ex about sending my riding boots back to me and just received the boots along with a card.

Front of card: Heard you were in for repairs.

Inside of Card: Hope your rolling soon

His comment: Hope the shoes help

What is your opinion on this?

None of this makes sence, he works for LAPD.

And it has nothing to do with my car....???

He has a X girlfriend who has had a boyfriend for the past 2 years, yet she contacts our mutual friends and states she is still in love with him, she even has contacted my daughters friends to ask about me, he read her the riot act and took her off FB. He states she is stalking him, says she is nuts, she asks him please do not sleep with her, do not do this to me? and if you do.... tell me first....takes her off facebook yet puts her back on, she leaves xo messages on FB.

I consider this un stable. He is a X cop and should question this sort of behavior. She is a very fluffy women and he states he does not like that, Im in good shape, he likes that!

He and I do alot of activities together and he likes me and I like him but wow the baggage seems to be a little excesive...what is your opionion?

I have been told that I am hard to read so I have a tendency to show mix signs. When he introduced me as his girlfriend I told him not to introduce me that way. Not looking for a label just yet, but perhaps that was a little harsh?