Hugs and Luv

So I’ve been dating a great guy for two years, I’m currently 6 months pregnant by him. He also has a 7 year old son, and his baby mama still gets invited to all the family events. They have been broke up for almost 5 years, she is in a relationship of her own. Fast forward my mans step mom had a holiday get together she invited the bm and her boyfriend to the event. Me and my man get to the event and the step mom pulls my man to the side to tell him she had to take down the invitations to our baby shower (which were on the fridge) because the baby mama was coming over (I’m having 2 baby showers, his step mom is throwing one of them).

 Why did the step mom feel she had to remove the invitations? It’s obvious I’m pregnant. So who has the issue is it the baby mama? Or is it the step mom being petty? 

Any clarity would be helpful in this situation.

I broke a relationship off with a man I loved 5 years ago, because I moved to a different city 8 hours away to pursue an acting career. We tried long distance, but grew further apart. He still came to visit me etc. During the time he visited me it turns out he was in a whole relationship and had a child by a woman, he failed to tell me about. This was a deal breaker I cut him off completely. He tried to contact me over th years I never responded. Fast forward 5 years later, he recently contacted me, I finally accepted his call. We talked for hours, he wants to meet me for drinks. I m torn do I continue on w/ my life, or let this man back in. I still love him and have been waiting for him to come back to me. At the time we were 26 and now 31. He says he has matured etc. and tried to work through things with his child mother but did not work out. I am torn I feel like we belong together. I haven t agreed to drinks yet. I can t tell if this is a blessing or the devil in disguise.