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I just joined a fraternity and I'm getting really involved. Got elected to the executive board of my chapter at school. Since I'm going to be in school for the next 3 and 1/2 years I was curious. How do non-affiliated girls see frat boys? Sorority girls love us lol but non-affiliated girls seem to get offended when they find out I'm in a fraternity.

i keep having dreams where i cheat on my girlfriend. each time it is a different situation with a different girl and each time i don't get caught but i feel terrible. its really bothering me because to me, cheating is one of the worst things i can possibly do. what do you think my dreams mean?

okay so i'm 17 and i've been having sex with my girlfriend for a few months now but today we were fooling around and were about to have sex but then it went kinda soft so we fooled around some more then it got hard again. so we tried to have sex again and it went soft. I've never had this problem before! like it gets hard for like 5 minutes then goes soft then gets hard again! i didn't eat anything today, could it be that I just didn't have enough energy? because i have never had this problem before

we are both seniors in high school and we both lost or virginity to eachother, but when we have sex, her vagina hurts and she kringes if I stick it in to far. this has been going on for a month now and I'm getting concerned. I want to ask her about it and see if she wants to see a docter because it isn't normal to have so much pain during sex. I want her to enjoy it as much as I do and i want to talk to her about it without sounding like a douche or anything ahah. are there any suggestions on how to approach the subject?

I'm the last person in my family who can have kids. I've put aside the option of joining the army because if I die, my family line ends. I'm 17 and will be graduating HS and going off to college. I feel like I put a lot of emphasis on continuing the family tree even though I'm so young. Its not like i'm going to knock up my girlfriend or marry before i'm ready. i don't know if i'm terrified of failure or i'm reacting to my duty to the family but is it okay to be thinking about these things at such a young age?

I know its supposed to hurt somewhat for a girl the first time she has sex but this is bad. she can't spread her legs far cause she is so tense (even though she insists she wants it) so its already hard to do it. Then I can only get it in her about an inch before it starts to hurt her. when it does hurt for her, her whole body jerks back and she tells me to stop, fool around for a little while then try again to no avail. My penis isn't like some gargantuan thing, its like 7 inches so ik its not me. I try and talk to her about it but i think she is embarrassed or something cause she just wants to avoid the topic. We've tried for two nights now and multiple times during those nights but nothing is working. btw we are both 17.

I think its the hymen(i think is what its called) that might be the problem cause ik it has to break if its not already broken before sex. how bad does this hurt for girls because the pain my gf is expierencing is unbearable

okay so I made out up with a 22 year old in france...I was 16 at the time but i look older than I really am. To give you an example, I get into bars here in the u.s. not to drink or anything but to see my uncles band play. anyway I see hooking up with a 22 year old as a HELLUF and accomplishment hahah which is an opinion shared by my male bretheren.

girls what do you think about that?

and fyi i'm not some womanizer guy, I hadn't kissed a girl in a year in a half because i was so heartbroken over my gf dumping me and then my parents getting divourced. you could in fact say that the 22 year old brought me out of a very bad place in my life just by kissing me...

I'm 6'2" and kinda lanky but still strong enough to be a starting linebacker. I shoot my guns a lot but I'm not a gun nut, my family has a strong military tradition so I've grown up with a love for shooting and a respect for the danger involved with owning a gun. my humor is kind of crude(think tosh.O). I haven't really hooked up with girls before this year(I'm a senior now) but I have made out with a 22 year old in france and this one girl from school but I'm kind of conflicted because I would much rather have a relationship again even if I did get my heart broken like I did when I was younger, but I'm definatly not a greek god looking guy ahah, I would rate myself as a 7?

what are your opinions on guys having guns? and also I smoke a cigar now and again on special occasions.

okay so i had a class with this girl a year or two ago and now we are freshmen. we haven't talked at all since then and when we talked back then it was basically asking for help on a question aha. I would have tried flirting with her then but i was just coming off a really bad breakup

sooo I just sent her this message on facebook...

hey Alex! I've been seeing you around school lately and you're gorgeous! could i maybe get your number? :)

and i'm sorry if I seem creepy lol

how would you feel if you got that message from a guy?

i'm basically taking a shot in the dark

okay so i'm 17 in high school and me and this girl are guna try and hook up this weekend. i dont use girls i'm actually respectful. all the girls i hang out with always comment on how trustworthy and nice i am. but i just really want to have sex aha, i've always been cockblocked like my whole life(respecting my old girlfriend's christian belief to save sex for marriage, and helping my drunk friends home instead of staying with a girl)

i think i'm trying to defend it but idk i think its okay as long as i don't be a man hoe or a douchebag aha

okay so me and this girl like each other(we're chem partners this year and thats how we met aha) but she is being very shy. all her friends were telling me over the weekend that she really likes me and would without a doubt say yes if i asked her out but that she is going to act like that for a little while until i ask her out.

why is she doing this? i guess i'm just asking to reassure myself but its still good to get other opinions.

p.s. we are both seniors in highschool

i'm 17 and i have a cigar every weekend with my dad. We sit outside in the backyard and have a cigar and talk about the week.

does that gross you out?

I'm a senior in it and i can't wait to leave. It's not that i hate high school I just want toget out of my town and actually learn something i'm interested in.

excuse the grammer, punctuation and spelling. I'm actually an A student in english i just don't give a dam about that on the internet aha

okay i'm 17 and i've been lucky enough to stay in paris with a friend for the past few summers. and everytime i've gone over there i've always had an easy time meeting and hooking up with girls who are in there early 20's(they were american's studying in paris) but when i'm home i have a much harder time because i'm much more respectful and cautious. but i'm just feeling confused. what are girls looking for in a guy during highschool? i mean i'm kinda good looking, 6 ft tall, and i've played sports all my life, plus i'm a published poet! so i'm sensitive to lol. is their like an x-factor or something aha.

okay so i'm 17 and i'm not like covered in hair aha. i have a happy trail goin on and i've got like a patch of hair between my pecs.

okay so we are both upperclassmen in high school and we recently met like 4-5 weeks ago when school started and we are getting closer to each other like she will kinda open up to me and whatnot. and last weekend we were hanging out with some friends and we basically sat together listenening to music about pussyeating haha and we were kinduf cuddling since we were both tired cause it was 3am. and today her and 2 of her girlfriends came over afterschool and hung out. but only one was supposed to come over to get something she left at my place. then after awhile the other 2 left so it was just me and her so we decided to go get ice cream together before she went to cheerleading and she was feeding me ice cream. it kinda felt like a date aha, but when shes with her friends she talks about her x who she says she needs to leave him behind because hes to immature.

i'm not sure whether i'm a friend or if she sees me as maybe being something more than a friend...

whats your oppinion?

i'm 17 and i haven't been able to get to sleep at a normal time in weeks even if i'm tired. but i have noticed i'm horny like all the time. and yes i'm almost done with puberty i'm 6'1" and weigh 160lbs. the only difference is that i'm horny a lot more now than i used to be ahaha and idk why. is it even possible to be to horny to sleep?

okay so i'm 17 and for some reason i get extremely nautions when i'm around a girl i have feelings for. even if its through texting! it all started after my parents got divorced(on valentines day) when i was about 16. and it seriously made my junior year suck. i had to turn down 3 girls because i was to messed up. like on one occasion i actually had to get away from her in the halls and puke! but i'm fine if i'm flirting and stuff, but once she wants to go on dates i freak out.

the only way i can really be intimate with a girl is if i'm buzzed. i hooked up with a 22 year old girl in a bar in paris(i was there visiting family) when i got back to the apartment at like 5am i was so happy, i just stayed up and listened to digital love by daft punk until the sun came up because it was like a ray of hope breaking through the clouds.

i think i've been getting better because i've adjusted to my parents being separated but i have no idea if i'll be comfortable enough to have the same connection with a girl as i did before my parents divource.

please tell me what you think and if you have any ideas

and p.s. i have been going to therapy it just reassures me i guess to hear what people think because i want to be normal again more than anything. i pray everynight before i go to sleep to ask god to help me feel better

for some reason i can't fall asleep even though i only got 4 hours of sleep last night.

what should i do besides being on yahoo answers!?

okay so my cat is dying and i've been feeling down about it and was asking my mom if there is anything we can do. So she gets pissed off at me because i haven't shown enough sympathy to her because she has an ear infection... i don't know if i'm being an asshole, but to me, a dying pet whose been around since i was young gets a little more sympathy that a little ear infection that'll go away in a day or two...