guess who?

I am independent and have a job. I think women should pay for dates as well...

But my bf has never offered to pay.(he does have a job) I always pick up the tab or we go dutch.... and one night I took out to a nice dinner. He offered to go half and half on the TIP. Yes, half and half on the tip... when I was paying for dinner. His offered humilated me.

Today we went out to eat.. he took the bill and he spent a couple of minutes on doing the calculations to make it 50/50 with tip included. I urge to get two checks instead but he refused. My share was $15. I hand him a $20 and he gives me my change. A business transaction for dinner...

It saddens me when I end up feeling like I will never mean enough for him to pick up the tab, atleast once.

Any suggestions?

I am independent and have a job. I think women should pay for dates as well...

But my bf has never offered to pay.(he does have a job) I always pick up the tab or we go dutch.... and one night I took out to a nice dinner. He offered to go half and half on the TIP. Yes, half and half on the tip... when I was paying for dinner. His offered humilated me.

Today we went out to eat.. he took the bill and he spent a couple of minutes on doing the calculations to make it 50/50 with tip included. I urge to get two checks instead but he refused. My share was $15. I hand him a $20 and he gives me my change. A business transaction for dinner...

It saddens me when I end up feeling like I will never mean enough for him to pick up the tab, atleast once.

Any suggestions?

How do you deal or a handle an emotional abusive parent when moving-out is not an option at the moment?

I'm 19, legally I can go my seperate way, but I'm not in the financial situation to do so at this very moment.

There's no one day that goes by that I don't cry. I feel very alone. A lot of people complain that they're parents are not supportive of them and very netrual. I would kill for that. No opinion or active voice is (in my opinion) better than a negative voice.

RANT:

I'm told that I'm mentally challenged, that I'm not capable of anything and will never amount to anything. I will never get married (not good enough) and will be a burden to my father until day I die. That I don't need to worry because I won't live past 30 anyways. That I will never learn how/not capable of driving and that I will be riding the bus until the day I die. To get used to it. Although he taught my sister how to drive...

My senior year (2 years ago) I was not able to apply to any colleges because my dad feel that I didn't deserve it, (the application fee) and that I wouldn't get in regardless. I didn't go to prom, because yet again I didn't deserve going. My mom offered to pay for my dress and everything before hand, but my dad said he was going to take care of it. He decided I didn't deserve going. He didn't go to my high school graduation, because he felt that I shouldn't have the honor of his attendence.

Recently, I had also given around $400 for him to hold on to for school, less than 24 hours he had spent around $300 on his girlfriend's kids. Bought an itouch and other pretty things, with the money I told him to hold on to for me. I got very upset and told me, what's mine is his. Said I was a piece of **** and to not think very highly of myself (because I called him a theif).

He had recently found out that I was an abusive relationship with a guy and most parents would be outraged that anyone would a hand on their kid. Not my dad. He got very excited and told me I had it coming.

I'm sorry for the rant.... I just feel very overwhelmed at this very moment.

I tip the minimum $5 for an order that's $15-25 orders above $25 I tip an additional dollar to each dollar I spend on the pizza. =) Too much? Or too little? I don't feel like it's much.

How much do you tip your delivery person?

I've messed around with a guy I know (fwb?)...oral. saw him tonight when I haven't seen him since December 2011. we've messed around before... but he's usually hands on, wants to kiss me, grab me, hold me..passionate. but tonight it was like he wasn't even attracted to me. one thing led to another, but I left feeling rejected. my "needs" didn't matter. he couldn't even look at me, when we talked afterwards. we went out for a walk and it was like playing follow the leader. He told me it was amazing, gave me a hug..and that was it.

Why didn't he want to touch me? I feel beyond use...

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I ended a 8-9 year friendship with my bestfriend...because she has done me wrong...and is a compulsive liar and a control freak. it was hard to accept and admit to let go.

I found out that she pretended to be my ex-bf and and "got back with me" a few years ago...and used the relationship to put me down. That I wasn't good enough and that I should be more like my bestfriend (herself) and it used to feed her ego and hide her insecurities...to really have control.

my bestfriend was afraid of me going away to college...and told me I can't do it, that I'm trying to be something I'm not that I think i'm "better" than others...and used my "bf" to really take a blow at my self worth by saying I'm not good enough for anything and to be more like her. I've lied multiple of times in order to take the SATS and have bumped heads with her for not giving her the respect she deserves... through a series of cold remarks, cold shoulder...plain mean sometimes.

don't get me wrong shes helped me through tough times...but really tried to limit my friends to just her. It took me awhile to really accept what had happend...but I found through tracing some IP addresses and added things up..and it all led to her.

Her boyfriend is aware of this...and know about it. He knows I'm done with her. She's also done him wrong...by lieing and cheating. She's a complusive liar...by not even telling him her real first name. He begged me for the truth...and I told him that she did not cheat on him for a week...that she cheated on him for 6 months and dumped him afterwards...

did I do wrong? Her boyfriend is my friend, and we have been friends for awhile and has had my back. my exbestfriend ruined our friendship by saying he hates me, and that i hate him.

did I do wrong?

Okay...long story short.

I got hacked a while back on this website( got hacked by her ex-bf)

that me and my friend joined. (that's were she met her current bf)

she knew it was him, cause he told her it was him...and cause i hardly came on, and after he changed the password i could never get on.

Her ex-bf made them go through hell, harassing them everywhere! He would say "SHE'S MINE BACK-OFF, I LOVE HER...LEAVE HER ALONE" and he would make daily threats, to get them to break off, he wanted her back.

that was almost a year ago...

He thought that i was this crazy gay ***** that was after his gf and wanted to break them up >.> (his exact words)

well i met the guy with my best-friend, and he hates me.

he thought it was me a year ago, and that im still after his girl >.>

my friend told me to play along, and to act bi sometimes *rolleyes*

you know act like i like girls sometimes...-.-

it bothers me, cause i WANT them to be together and i dont hate the guy and im not bi.

i dont know what to do??

would you play along?

I was wondering if there is anything i can take to help me gain a few extra pounds?

please don't tell me to eat fast-food everyday or to get pregnant >.>

is there other ways?

I want to begin Birth Control, and i want to learn more about the side effects, not just statistics, but what girls went through.

I'm not sexually active, but i heard that Birth Control helps you gain weight...is this true?

I've been trying everything to gain some weight, and my friends told me they have gain a few pounds with it, so i'm considering it.

I'm 15

btw

Well me and my ex-bf were together for a little over a year, and have dated before that.

Well he broke up with me...but he still says he loves me

My thought is, "if you love me as much as say you say you do, then we would work on our relationship and you wouldn't give up. "

i honestly don't want to let him go...I love him, i really do.

but he says...i can do better...but he doesn't understand that i want him and no one else.

what do you think?

You see I took Geometry over the summer a six week class. I got a D in it. I needed a C to go on into Algebra 2, but if my parents talk to my conselour then I can go on into Algebra 2 without retaking Geometry. The thing is I can also retake Geometry and take Algebra 2 at the sametime during the same school year. What would help my GPA and what would colleges perfer? Also I'm a Sophomore if that makes a difference.

well my breast hurt and they are a little bit swallon and they hurt. what does that mean? I'm sorry I'm asking this on here, I just don't know who else to ask.

Well I'm going to turn 15 in Sept, and I have a flat chest...it doesn't bother me until ppl (guys) point it out. I've had my period since i was 10, idk if that makes a difference. Please, should i consider taking pills? It's not b/c of what ppl think...it's that I feel uncomfortable....so any suggestions?

ok i dont think i'm going to meet them yet...but i will soon. and idk what to say. i know his parents are going to question me and want to know about me. can you give me some suggestions for first good impressions. I know i'm going to be myself....but i still want his parents to like me.

can you tell me how it was for YOU the first time you met your boyfriend's or girlfriend's parents.

Thank you.

I want to give him something that he will rememeber, something that will mean something. I don't if I should get him a necklace with his inital or something. I want to give him something that will last, and something that he can remember me by. Any Ideas? (Nothing dirty please) Please i really need your help!!!!

I miss my boyfriend (I hardly get to see him) and i want to show him that i miss him and care about him, but I always dont want to see clingy. How can i show him? In a sweet way.

What's is the sweetest thing that ur boyfriend has done or said that you will always rememeber....

Ok my boyfriend has a soccer game at his home school, but i went to his game last week. i hardly see him, but last time i surprise him. i just don't want to see press over him.....but i want to go. what do i do? the soccer game starts in 2 hours. I miss him, but what if he doesn't want to see me.