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I started this new job about two weeks ago and there's a guy who's my age (21). I'll call him S to make it more clear. S will always ask me if I have a question and be willing to help me when I need it. When he comes to my desk he'll sit on the edge facing me and start like brushing off his shoe or something. If we happen to touch he won't move away.

I've caught him looking at me quite a few times and even when he's talking to someone else he'll be looking at me and when he cracks a joke he'll look at my reaction first. When we make eye contact he always smiles at me. Even when i'm talking to someone else he'll look at me like I was saying to one of our coworkers I was cold and S was like "you're cold?" and put up the heat for me. Our other coworkers give him a look when he's talking to me or says something about me as if they know something.

On friday night I went out with S and some of our coworkers for one of their birthdays. One of our coworkers who is S's friend, I see around work but friday was our first time talking, asked me if I had a boyfriend and what I thought about S and if I like him and hows he's such a nice down to earth funny guy and thats the type of guy I wanna marry. She said we would be cute cause we're the same age, from the same place.

I'm good at reading body language which is how I picked up on this stuff. It's only been 2 weeks so i'll guess we'll have to see but what do you guys think so far? Does he like me? Appreciate it, thanks in advance!

- Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and getting more serious

- He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship

- He was being pretty cold towards me, confusing cause I didn't do anything to him

- Friday night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me, I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face

- I told him I don't know what I did that was so bad to you and he said "you didn't do anything bad to me"

- But then I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting

- He was like "I thought it would be better if I actually called you and told you I miss you instead of just texting it" and he said he can call me tomorrow night if I want and he'll message me or something tomorrow. I didn't ask him to, he just said that himself but I doubted he would and he didn't

- He's back to being pretty cold again

- He said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one"

SO why is he acting drunk and calling me saying I miss you then being cold again? What is up with him?! Thanks!

- Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and getting more serious. - He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship

- He was being pretty cold towards me, confusing cause I didn't do anything to him

- Friday night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me, I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face

- I told him I don't know what I did that was so bad to you and he said "you didn't do anything bad to me"

- But then I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting

- He was like "I thought it would be better if I actually called you and told you I miss you instead of just texting it" and he said he can call me tomorrow night if I want and he'll message me or something tomorrow. I didn't ask him to, he just said that himself but I doubted he would and he didn't

- He's back to being pretty cold again

- He said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one"

SO why is he acting drunk and calling saying I miss you? Then being cold again? What is up with him?! Thanks!

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and getting more serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was being pretty cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then Friday night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face. But then I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting. He was like "I thought it would be better if I actually called you and told you I miss you instead of just texting it" and he said he can call me tomorrow night if I want and he'll message me or something tomorrow. I didn't ask him to, he just said that himself but I doubted he would and he didn't. He's back to being pretty cold again and I told him I don't know what I did that was so bad to you and he said "you didn't do anything bad to me" He said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one" so why is he acting drunk and calling saying I miss you? Then being cold again? What is up with him?! Thanks!

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and getting more serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was being pretty cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then Friday night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face. But then I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting. He was like "I thought it would be better if I actually called you and told you I miss you instead of just texting it" and he said he can call me tomorrow night if I want and he'll message me or something tomorrow. I didn't ask him to, he just said that himself but I doubted he would and he didn't. He's back to being pretty cold again and I told him I don't know what I did that was so bad to you and he said "you didn't do anything bad to me" He said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one" so why is he acting drunk and calling saying I miss you? Then being cold again? What is up with him?! Thanks!

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and getting more serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was being pretty cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then Friday night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face. But then I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting. He was like "I thought it would be better if I actually called you and told you I miss you instead of just texting it" and he said he can call me tomorrow night if I want and he'll message me or something tomorrow. I didn't ask him to, he just said that himself but I doubted he would and he didn't. He's back to being pretty cold again and I told him I don't know what I did that was so bad to you and he said "you didn't do anything bad to me" He said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one" so why is he acting drunk and calling saying I miss you? Then being cold again? What is up with him?! Thanks!

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and getting more serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was being pretty cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then last night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face. But then I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting. He was like "I thought it would be better if I actually called you and told you I miss you instead of just texting it" and he said he can call me tomorrow night if I want and he'll message me or something tomorrow. He said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one" so why is he acting drunk and calling me telling me I miss you?

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and pretty serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was acting kinda cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then last night he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face like I don't get it... he said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one" but yet he's telling me he misses me. I saw him on twitter a little later on and he seemed fine, I don't think he was as drunk as he was acting so why did he call me and tell me he misses me?

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and pretty serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was acting kinda cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then just now he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face like I don't get it... he said before how he doesn't think I'm "the one" but yet he's telling me he misses me like what gives?

Me and him had a thing for like 4 months and it was nothing but amazing and pretty serious. He started acting all weird and said how he wasn't ready for a relationship. He was acting kinda cold towards me and I was so confused as to why cause I didn't do anything to him but then just now he calls me so drunk telling me how he misses me. I could fully hear his friends in the background but yet he's sitting on the phone with me for an hour saying how he wants to talk to me, he's thinking about me, he wants to see my face like I don't get it... why?

So, me and my ex were together for 2 years. We had a lot of ups and downs but it was a good relationship just with some bad times. I finally broke up with him a year and a half ago and after some no contact, we tried the whole being friends thing and it worked for a bit but he was still in love with me. Us being friends stopped working out and that was almost 3 months ago. We've had no communication since then. The thing is we both did some wrong things in our relationship and I wanna apologize for my part in that. Here's my text to him:

Hey, happy new year. I just wanted to say that I genuinely am sorry for everything that happened in the past. I didn't mean for anything to happen the way it did. I've been wanting to apologize for awhile now and with the new year and all, I decided to make my wrongs right. Way too much was said and done that shouldn't have been and I wanted to be mature about this and reach out and say sorry for my part in that so again, I truly apologize for every single thing in general & I hope all is well with you, hope you're enjoying your holidays and hope you had a good birthday.

Is this good? Thanks!

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me Saturday night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing more than they already have. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me to waste my time cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm want. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said he would love to feel for me what I feel for him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and I could even hear his voice cracking as he said it. He still wants to be apart of my life and he wanted to still meet in person to talk about this properly. He asked me if I wanted him in my life and I told him it was up to him and he said he wants to stay but he doesn't know if he's wanted and he's still here for me, just maybe not in the way I want. He kept asking me if I was mad at him and think he's an ******* and I said I don't care cause I was so shocked (and still am) by all this and he said that "So only one of us cares now?"

He said he's gonna get off the phone and I just hung up and I texted him a few paragraphs cause this honestly confused me because it came outta nowhere and I feel like he's just not giving his feelings a chance to grow cause he's put up a wall cause of his past. He didn't reply and I asked him if he could give me a quick call when he had the chance cause I just wanna ask him something and he didn't. He's never been a jerk, he's genuinely a nice guy, like I said I've known him way before we even became romantically interested in each other. We would always talk and we understood each other and had the same views when it came to relationships. Then he put something on twitter like "If it's meant to be, it will be." I'm just gonna leave him alone right now even though my heart is breaking The way we were together and the way he was with me, it's hard to believe he can just throw that all away. It wasn't just the stuff he said but the things he did too, his actions proved he was serious and he showed no signs of losing interest or anything even in person, the last time I saw him he was affectionate as usual.

His first girlfriend which was his first love and first ex messed him up severely and that was his longest. The girls after have betrayed his trust and in general, have not treated him right. The last girl he was talking to before me had been talking to her ex behind his back and keep going back and forth between them. I am the one girl who is not out to hurt him and wouldn't ever do anything to risk losing him or betray his trust and I'm the one who's hurt.

I'm in such a bad place right now and I'm pretending to be fine but I can't help it. I'm trying my hardest to distract myself and everything. This guy I had a thing with before keeps talking to me and I find myself missing my ex who I broke up with a year and a half ago. We went out for 2 years and we had a lot of ups and downs but were friends after it all but he was still in love with me. He was extremely angry when he found out about me and this recent guy (another long story but he saw us together) and since then, we've just been completely cut out of each other's lives. I don't really trust anyone so I'm dealing with this alone.I've never ever been in this position before and I hate it. Can I please get some insight or something, I'm going crazy :(

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me Saturday night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing more than they already have. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm want. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said he would love to feel for me what I feel for him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and I could even hear his voice cracking as he said it. He still wants to be apart of my life and he wanted to still meet in person to talk about this properly. He asked me if I wanted him in my life and I told him it was up to him and he said he wants to stay but he doesn't know if he's wanted and he's still here for me, just maybe not in the way I want. He kept asking me if I was mad at him and think he's an ******* and I said I don't care cause I was so shocked (and still am) by all this and he said that "So only one of us cares now?"

He said he's gonna get off the phone and I just hung up and I texted him a few paragraphs cause this honestly confused me because it came outta nowhere and I feel like he's just not giving his feelings a chance to grow cause he's put up a wall cause of his past. He didn't reply and I asked him if he could give me a quick call when he had the chance cause I just wanna ask him something and he didn't. He's not a jerk, he's genuinely a nice guy, like I said I've known him way before we even became romantically interested in each other. Then he put something on twitter like "If it's meant to be, it will be." I'm just gonna leave him alone right now even though my heart is breaking but do you think there's any chance for the two of us in the future, maybe after some time apart? The way we were together and the way he was with me, it's hard to believe he can just throw that all away. It wasn't just the stuff he said but the things he did too, his actions proved he was serious and he showed no signs of losing interest or anything even in person, the last time I saw him he was affectionate as usual. What happened to us?

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me Saturday night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing more than they already have. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm looking for. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said he would love to feel for me what I feel for him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and he still wants to be apart of my life and he wanted to still meet in person to talk about this properly. He asked me if I wanted him in my life and I told him it was up to him and he said he wants to stay but he doesn't know if he's wanted and he's still here for me, just maybe not in the way I want. He kept asking me if I was mad at him and think he's an ******* and I said I don't care cause I was so shocked (and still am) by all this and he said that "So only one of us cares now?"

He said he's gonna get off the phone and I just hung up and I texted him a few paragraphs cause this honestly confused me because it came outta nowhere and I feel like he's just not giving his feelings a chance to grow cause he's put up a wall cause of his past. He didn't reply and I asked him if he could give me a quick call when he had the chance cause I just wanna ask him something and he didn't. He's not a jerk, he's genuinely a nice guy, like I said I've known him way before we even became romantically interested in each other. Then he put something on twitter like "If it's meant to be, it will be." I'm just gonna leave him alone right now even though my heart is breaking but do you think there's any chance for the two of us in the future, maybe after some time apart?

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me last night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing anymore. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm looking for. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said he would love to feel for me what I feel for him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and he still wants to be apart of my life and he wanted to still meet in person to talk about this properly. He asked me if I wanted him in my life and I told him it was up to him and he said he wants to stay but he doesn't know if he's wanted and he's still here for me, just maybe not in the way I want.

So 2 questions:

1) What does all this mean?

2) Do you think he'll regret this cause everything was so good between us, we got on great.

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me last night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing anymore. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm looking for. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said he would love to feel for me what I feel for him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and he still wants to be apart of my life and he wants to still meet in person to talk about this properly.

So 2 questions:

1) What does all this mean?

2) Do you think he'll regret this cause everything was so good between us, we got on great.

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me last night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing anymore. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm looking for. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said he would love to feel for me what I feel for him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and he still wants to be apart of my life and he wants to still meet in person to talk about this properly.

So 2 questions:

1) What does all this mean?

2) Do you think he'll regret this cause everything was so good between us, we got on great.

So long story short: 20 years old, had a thing with this guy for about 4 months, we were friends since high school though. We spent time together usually 3 or 4 times a week, talked everyday. Things were nothing but amazing and pretty serious. Although he has major trust issues, insecure and is scared of commitment cause of past relationships gone wrong and being hurt badly.

Hadn't heard from in a week cause he was in the hospital and had family problems so he finally calls me last night apologizing to me for not hearing from him for awhile. Tells me he knows it looks sketchy but he was not ignoring me and the first thing he wanted to do was contact me.

Then he says how he wants to talk in person but I insisted he tell me right then and he resisted but eventually said he's been thinking about us long term and he can't see his feelings for me progressing anymore. He said he does have feelings for me but he knows I feel for him more and he doesn't think it's fair to me cause he doesn't know if he can give me what I'm looking for. He said I'm perfectly fine and don't change a thing about me, he said he's telling me what's wrong with him. He said it hurts him so much telling me this and he still wants to be apart of my life and he wants to still meet in person to talk about this properly. What does all this mean?

Okay so long story short as possible: I've known this guy for like 4 years, we've been friends since high school and ended up at the same college. Hung out quite a bit with a mutual friend of ours and he told her how he wanted to get to know me better. So he did and we ended up falling for each other, hard. We've had a thing going on since September so about 4 months now and things have been nothing but amazing.

We have mutual strong feelings for each other and have made it clear that we are serious about one another. He's texted me everyday since he's gotten my number which was back in September. Last week I didn't see him all week cause we both had exams and that was the longest we ever went without seeing each other but we still talked all week about how much we missed each other and stuff.

He didn't text me Sunday when I was supposed to see him so I texted him and he told me how he was sick and he'll see me tomorrow for sure. So that was Monday and I couldn't come out cause my brother was sick and I didn't wanna leave him alone so I told him to come over and he did. Things were great as usual and he told me he missed me and he was like "Can I get a hug? It's been a week" and we cuddled and watched tv and we were play fighting and kissed and made out. He also asked me to go on a double date on Saturday with his best friend and his girl.

He texted me after how he felt much more complete today and wished he could just sleep over and he has a smile on his face today and it's all because of me. Like I said, he texts me everyday. Yesterday he texted me saying "Hi there cute stuff <3" and I replied saying "Hey there cutieee <3" and he said "How are you, I miss you :(" I replied back "I would be so much better with you, I miss you a lot :( how you doing <3" at 7 PM and I haven't heard back from him but he's been on social networking anf stuff. This is highly unusual of him and has never happened before, ever.

Some background info: he's been hurt a lot in the past by girls and he's scared and has trust issues which I know. He has told me before how he can't even go one day without talking to me. & he has asked me before if I ever get tired of him cause a girl once told him he was "boring" which made him insecure. He's a pretty sensitive guy. We're both 20 btw.

Okay so long story short: I've known this guy since high school and we were friends. Ended up at the same college and he told a mutual friend of ours that he wants to get to know me more which he did and we started liking each a lot. This has been going on for like 4 months now and it's already been established that we have extremely strong feelings for each other, are serious about one another, etc. He is so amazing.

We talk everyday and haven't gone more than like 3 days without seeing each other. We haven't seen each other in a week because of exams but he still texted me everyday telling me how he misses me, can't wait to see my beautiful face, etc. We were supposed to see each other today but there was a lot of snow which made the road bad but he said he's gonna try to figure something out.

His last text to me was last night was at 12:48am he was like "It's been a week baby I feel so depressed :(" and I replied and since to now I haven't heard from him which is really weird cause this never ever happens. I texted him about an hour ago asking if everything was okay and I missed him but no reply yet. I'm not clingy or anything, I'm really woried though cause this is so not like him at all.