Sarah

I'm 14 and I've tried to lose weight for about 8 months now. I started skipping one meal a day back in December, and I've remained consistent with skipping that meal for the last 8 months. I lost like 10-15 pounds not eating and I mostly lost the weight in my stomach. But I really want to lose weight in my thighs and still more in my stomach. I got really insecure 2 weeks ago and I started taking weight loss pills I found in my parents medicine cabinet. I really don't want to skip meals or take pills, but until I find a method that actually will work then I guess that's what I'm going to do. Any ideas on how I can lose like 20 more pounds?

I have had a lot of anxiety recently, more than usual. I have had anxiety before and I have had panic attacks from it. But it feels like there is a massive weight on my chest, my breathing becomes like rapid, and I can feel my heart race. This has been happening a lot, recently. I don't know what to do, as I am only 14. I also have like chronic headaches 24/7, but I've been experiencing this since about November 2012. If your going to ask, yes there is a lot of things going on at school. Not like academically but socially. I just don't know what to do because the pain hurts so bad. I know it has to do with my school situations, which are already bad, I've even thought about commuting suicide a few times. Someone please tell me whats going on and how I can fix it!!

Alright, so I honestly want to know what a guy looks for in a girl. Honest answers please! Oh and also do you judge a girl by her weight?

I'm 14 and I'm a virgin, but a lot of people at my school, have had sex before. I've thought about sex before, and it seems kind of painful to me. I do watch porn sometimes, but a lot of it freaks me out. I know this is going to sound odd, but I always wanted to wait till I was much older with someone I actually care and have feelings for, but all my friends keep telling me that I'm "missing out". I don't really want to have sex or anything, it just seems like younger and younger people are having sex and it just makes me wonder what has happened to this world? But anyway what age is a good age to have sex?

I have tried watching porn and fingering myself, but I'm kind of getting sick of the same old stuff. Any new ideas?