sarah

I am 25 years old and I work for a beer distributer, so I'm pretty physically fit.

I do side load driving which basically is the person that drives to about fifteen convienance stores a day in a truck and you get out and dolly every last case from the truck to the store.

If you ever go to a gas station and see a Coke or Pepsi person dolling things in, that's what I do. Just beer instead.

It's pretty intense.

I've never ever had a woman like me before. I'm not really desperate, I just think it's weird at my age I've never once had a woman interested in me.

I've been told I talk too much by guys I work with, so that's the only real negative I can think about myself.

I'm exposed to a lot of women, so that's why I'm curious.

Details:

I'm a man and just turned 25.

Sometimes when I go out women can be friendly with me. Sometimes women can even kind of playful and touch me.

But I've never had a single woman like me or even has been interested in going out once.

I'm very confused because the only reason I can come up with is that I might be really ugly.

Like I said, sometimes women are friendly/flirty with me but they're never serious they just like the attention. What can I do so women see some kind of value in me to actually go out with.

I'm not desperate for a woman, but I want to know what I'm doing wrong.

I'm nearly 25 and have never had a woman interested in me before.

I've asked out quite a few women (over 50) and have been shot down every single time.

I've tried a variety of women and the women I will usually ask out are women that seem interested in talking to me and approach me.

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So my question is, is it a matter of me getting "better looking"?

I'm not desperate for any woman, but it would be nice to be able to meet people and not feel like a complete outcast.

I'm a fairly confident person too, I'm very easy to talk to and in no way am I a pushover.

I just don't understand.

And this girl I talk to that's been a brunette for nearly two years, is all the sudden blonde.

(I put this status up like a week ago).

I'm not trying to overanalyze this. But do you think she might like me?

She's been a brunette for over two years. I just wonder...

I'm 24 and this woman uses a lot of exclamation marks when she texts.

I know it's just a punctuation mark!

Is that a good thing? Do women do that if they like you?

I got this girl's number and she doesn't respond that quickly when I text her.

For example, I texted her 2 days ago. Just one time and it took her over 24 hours to get back to me and she wrote a detailed text with lots of exclamation marks.

I just don't understand women that well.

I know it's bad for a woman to wait a while to write you back. But her text was very long and had a lot of exclamation marks in it?

Is that a good thing?

I'm not caught up on this girl, I'm just trying to improve with women.

I've been working out and my body looks pretty good. It's not perfect, but I'm happy.

I'm almost 25 and never had a woman like me before.

I'm really motivated to continue working out and getting a really nice body.

Can this help me? It makes me sad that I'm 25 and have never had a woman ever like me before?

It's just weird.

A girl called me cute so I asked for her number. And when I text her once in a while (every couple days), she doesn't seem to reply that fast.

For example, it took her more then 24 hours to respond.

I'm not caught up on this girl or anything. But if a woman takes forever to respond, should I take that as low/no interest in me?

There's this woman I am talking to and my first text I sent her during the day she didn't respond to it till midnight.

And I know this woman has a day job.

Does it mean anything if a woman texts during midnight as opposed to daytime?

Ever since hearing this, I've been desperately trying to find information on the person "Adam Lanza" and there's nothing on him.

As opposed to looking up let's say the Columbine shooting. There's endless information on all the people involved.

Is it possible that Sandy Hook was a hoax?

This all interested me due to conspiracy theorists.

I have a question.

Do women play hard to get?

OR

Do women like to string men along because they like the attention?

Just looking for opinions on this.

I met a woman and she asked me if I was single and other stuff.

So I figured there may be interest. I sent her a message and she finally responded after 3 days.

She gave a lengthy response.

Is this normal? Or is it intentional to make me wait 3 days?

I reached out to this girl that asked me if I was married and other personal stuff.

So, I sent her a message on Facebook and was real nice.

It's been a full day and no response. I don't know if she read the message or not.

I'm an easygoing guy so if she's not interested... that's cool. I'm not going to message her again or anything.

If a woman likes a man and has serious intentions. Do some women purposely delay a message?

I'm not going to overthink this. But she did ask me if I live with family and if I'm married... I just felt like there could've been interested.

So.

This woman was talking with me and being playful/friendly, but she said you must only be like "21 years old". And then I responded saying I'm 24. And then she told me there's no way you're 24.

This girl was probably mid 40's. She's older.

I know she was being playful and I'm not trying to overthink it. But is this like an innocent conversation or is this how an older woman would show some interest?

I'm a guy and at 24 have never had a woman interested in me.

What can a man do to become more desirable?

Even throughout high school, I've never had a woman ever think I was good looking or interested.

I'm not insecure about myself, but I am realistic about things. I am very open to making positive changes.

So what can a man do to be more appealing?

I'm not making a big deal about this but a girl kept starring at me and when I talked to her she kept touching her hair and looking down at the floor and would look up.

I said she seems really nice and was real casual and said it would be fun to hang out.

And then she ended up shooting me down.

As a 24 year old so I can understand women a little better.

Do some women just like the attention and want nothing more?

I have a friend that's 29 and is really good with women due to his looks.

He said within a few minutes of a conversation, women that do like him will ask for his name.

And that most women he's gone out with have asked for his name within a few minutes of their first conversation..

Is this a good indicator?

I know it's a strange question, but it's a pattern he's noticed with women from his experience.

I am just asking for a second time.

So I'm a 24 year old guy and I met an older woman (she's a teacher), she's like 44 or something.

Within like 5 minutes of talking to her, she asked me if I moved down here with family or by myself.

Because she is a teacher, I'm overanalyzing this a little bit to avoid asking out due to the fact she's a teacher.

I have a friend that's 29 and is really good with women due to his looks.

He said within a few minutes of a conversation, women that do like him will ask for his name.

And that most women he's gone out with have asked for his name within a few minutes of their first conversation..

Is this a good indicator?

I know it's a strange question, but it's a pattern he's noticed with women from his experience.

I've asked this one time and seek a few more answers.

At 24, I've never had a woman like me and never even been out on a date.

This is what I look like

http://postimg.org/image/npd09n4yp/

http://postimg.org/image/d2suf2sip/

I'm by no means a pushover or boring. I'm pretty likeable and easygoing.

I feel like the last major change I can make to myself is working out and getting a nice body.

Will this make women like me?

I work for a beer distributer and it makes me sad whenever there's a party that I never bring anyone.

I'm not sure why it's asking too much to be able to attract women?

Am I that hard on the eyes?

Or is there anything I can improve on?