veronica

I love it but the older I get the more it has been hurting me during sex. I use plenty of lube he doesn't usually take time to turn me on but even when he does it still hurts. We've alway been more of the fast and hard type style which is what I prefer but this is starting to worry me. Like one day I will not be able to grit my teeth and bare it anymore and he will ultimately leave or cheat on me. I read yesterday even if a woman is sully turned on the length from the caginal opening to the cervix is 5-6" well how in the heck am I suppose to take 4 more? Does anyone have any experience with this or any advice at all thanks in advance.

My parents divorced when I was 12 and I stayed with my father. He was a good dad well he did the best he could anyway but I always knew he loved me and my brother(I am female) living with him and being so much like him we grew very close. Its easier for me to talk to him about sex and anything else than it is for me to talk to my mom about it. Anyway from seeing how he would get mad if his young girlfriends were cheating on him and knowing for a fact it didn't bother him one little bit to cheat on them any chance he got I've come to the conclusion that most men are just dogs. Am I somewhat right? I know most women are so shady and a lot of them cheat too so I'm not trying to bash men at all. It's just I'm not so trusting of men and I'd hate to push a good one away based on false information. Thanks for your honesty if u answer.

But the last time (a couple of days ago) was the first time a goodllooking guy came over. Well my husband always would say that he wanted me to want it, and he wanted me to enjoy it so I did want it and I really enjoyed it. The guy really knew his what he was doing or maybe I was just turned on bc I thought my husband was turned on and the guy was actually someone I wanted to sleep with. After we finished I tried to go finish my husband that's when I realized he didn't like it. He would not get hard and he's been acting weird ever since. He won't really talk about it and I don't know what to do. My question is was I not suppose to like it? And what do u think I should do. Please no hate comments about me being a who*e that doesn't help me at all.