Jack

I mean in the purely platonic variety, I can keep female "colleagues" professionally as long as there is no interaction outside my office. The problem is that if there is contact outside of work it always ends up A.) becoming intimate, B.) the female wanting more then friendship, If I ask a girl to hang out it has the same outcome, I can straight up tell them I don't ever want to have a relationship, and its still the same. there doesn't seem to be an interaction with females that does not result in these two outcomes? why?

I've got lots of guy friend's which gives me a rather male perspective on everything. I'd like a female friend to chat about with things outside the privy of men and get things from a female perspective, however the closest I have is a few gay friends.

I guess it sound's odd to want to be friend zoned from a male perspective, I've actually over the last few years started to distance myself from females all together in my social life as a result of this.

It's not like I don't ever want anyone just not right now. So how do I meet girls in this fashion?

I find myself pretty much spot on here, I'm extremely logical and rational and lack deep emotion. Which has served me rather well for making money, advancing my career and life ambitions. However as I've stated before in previous questions outside of sexual congress I find romantic relationships, taxing, irrational and confusing. Friendships are easy because I understand how to control them and quantify them. So this question is to other INTJ's how do you cope with this situation, do you end a relationship after your sexual needs are met as I do? do you not date at all? or is perhaps dating another ENFP as suggested preferable? not that I particularly believe this "pseudoscience" however I find it interesting. Especially since its so close to who I am in reality :P

Short story, I know I am a good sexual partner to my female lovers, I've been told and I've observed by how insane they become to hold on to me and how obsessed they get trying to get us back together, how aroused they get during the encounter. though i find my sexual Experiences with Girls boring. They are always enjoying themselves but I don't 90% of the time, i've never been with a girl that didn't get off at least five times before I got off once, nor one I haven't slept with the first night, I feel like I'm working but not making any money, I want girls, I want sex, but I want someone with some passion some fire, not these dead fish. I get bored with a girl in a week or so max. This is why I work 70 hours a week at least something good comes of that.

Question 1 - it takes me like 30 - 45 minutes to get off and I can hold if off hours if I want? why? any other guys like this?

Question 2 - (I've met one girl that was amazing to dozens that are not) Do girls just expect sex to be unfulfilling and don't try? do they think "O hes a man so any sex is good enough"? Is it all about them and they don't really care?

Question 3 - I cannot say if other men don't put a lot of effort into sexual encounters, however are there any girls that do?

Question 4 - I have a lot of ex's trying to get back together with me, two of which are married with children which I find distasteful, Why would these girls risk their marriages for a one night stand? Its Illogical and reckless?