Benno

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months but we have known each other for over 10 months.

Over the last week we have started fighting on a more regular basis and every time the fight starts from her side.I have apologised for my acts that have started a fight but on the other occasions the fight has started over a mis-understanding which is very trivial.

She lost her job and I feel like she is taking out her stress on me.I can do 99 things right but the one thing I do wrong becomes an issue.

All I want to do is stop fighting and just be like the way we were......

Who do you think is the greatest backline player of the Tri-Nations era:

Consider these names:

Horan

Bunce

Habana

Little (Jason and Walter)

Joubert (Andre)

Carter

Gregan

Marshall

van der Westhuizen

Lomu

Burke

Latham

du Preez

For me it has to be Christian Cullen!!!!

I met this girl about 4 years ago and went to visit her in Holland a few times.We kissed and it was awesome,it was the best moment in my life.I have been thinking about her for the last 4 years and we have been in contact via e-mail every now and again.I am writing an e-mail to her now telling her how I feel and letting her know that it's not my intention to make her feel uncomfortable but that I think she should know how much I like her.

Does anybody have any advice?

I've got 18 days untill I fly home for Christmas and I can't wait!

Anybody got any idea's on how to take my mind off it - it also doesn't help that my sister flew back tonight!

I am going to Dublin tomorrow for the weekend to watch the South Africa\Ireland rugby game.

What else can I do in Dublin besides the Guinness Brewery and the Jamesons Distillery?

Thanks dudes!

You know in cricket they have a song that plays when the batsman walks out that he has chosen.Shaun Pollock chose 'Stuck in the Middle with You' when he was playing against the Aussies which I thought was hillarious considering it goes 'Clowns to the left of me,jokers to the right'.

So basically,what sport would you be playing and what song would you wanna run onto the field to?

Me.....rugby and the song would be Numb\Encore by Jay-Z\Linkin Park.

When I was with my ex ours was Wonderall by Oasis......now I cant listen to that song without feeling a little tinge of sadness.

If you could live in any city in the world,where would you live and why?

I'd choose Cape Town

In about 3 and a half hours time I am going to embark on a 12 hour bus trip to Amsterdam.......anybody got any idea's to make me not go nuts during this trip?

Don't suggest an i-pod cos my battery is useless and only lasts 20 mins and I already bought a book.

I dunno what has happened but my toe is really swollen and the ball of my foot is also swollen and really painful to walk on.

If the toe was broken would I still be able to walk?

I've just reached my half way stage of my 28 day detox which includes no alcohol......I've found this really easy and not as big a deal as everyone makes it out to be - do people really struggle with this?

In Top Gun when Goose dies there is a piece of music playing in the backround.......anybody know what it is called or who performs it?

I can't sleep at night,I keep thinking of random things that keep me awake.....how can I fall asleep without the aid of sleeping tablets?

Microsoft Data Access Component......what is the executable or how do I check if it is installed?

Where is the best place you have ever dived - I am new to the sport and keen to do some more diving very soon.

I arrived in Bangkok and there were about 50 cab drivers fighting for my business.....right up untill I told them that my hostel was 10 minutes from the airport.The one dude eventually gave me a lift,but he claimed that he could not find the hostel and twisted my arm to go to another one in the city.I should have realised that things seemed a bit strange,but I thought nothing of it and carried on thinking the guy had the best intentions.We got to the new hotel and the manager said that all the rooms were taken and only the Macdaddy suite was available - I started thinking I was being taken for a ride,but I agreed to it cos I was so tired and I thought that I might as well have a cool hotel room.The next day another cab driver drove me to a tailor and I was pressurised into buying suits.I managed to stand firm on no........but walked outta there with 2 tailor-made shirts!

Man alive I was grumpy!

I am actually waering one of the shirts right now and still chuckling about the scenario!

I've run out of idea's for songs to download.....

Does anyone know a bar in New York where they will definitely show the SA\OZ Tri-Nations rugby game?