Dee

The man I met yesterday wants us to get together again today. I fully expect that we will be intimate.....there was definitely chemistry. I have made it clear that I am not looking for sex only and he says he's not either. Guys, is he just bs'ing me?

I don't have a great track record for finding winning men. I have just met someone who I felt very comfortable with immediately and there was definitely an attraction. We are both anxious to see each other again...how long should we wait before we engage in sex?

enjoys camping, going to faires, the beach, outside enjoying the weather. I can't seem to find anyone who enjoys these things - perhaps I'm looking in all the wrong places? Any suggestions?

I can't seem to find a nice boyfriend. Most of the guys I meet are self-centered, not very affectionate or compassionate. It's all about sex - even when it's not about that, they take me for granted. I will say that I am too kind - some take that as a weakness, and often I like to be alone, unfortunately that sometimes is lonely. I would like to have someone close enough that they would want to hang out once in a while, go to a movie, to dinner, come over and watch a DVD and order in pizza, spend the night, go camping, go to a flea market. Aren't there guys out there like that anymore?

I am tired of 'playing the field'. I want to find a good companion. Someone who will share our love rather than just take it from me either with nothing in return or something expected back that makes me feel uncomfortable. I like to get out camping, fishing, going to the beach, ice skating, movies, dinner, walks, faires, anything for fun! It's a drag doing it alone and I'm not sure how to find someone who is looking for the same. Any suggestions?

his house, though he spent a lot of time at mine, he never spent the night, he does have some medical problems and says that's the reason we didn't have an active sexual realtionship. I'm pretty savvy, but somehow I overlooked all of this!! Is it because I was hopeful that he was on the up-and-up, or was I just blind because I didn't want to accept the possible truths? Did I do the right thing by ending it?

I am attractive, very outgoing, open-minded, very caring and compassionate, very affectionate. I meet a lot of guys but in the last two years I have only met two that wanted to be in a relationship - one I simply wasn't attracted to but wanted to be friends, and the other wanted to be in a relationship with me but was a controller and whiner and because of my being so assertive and my 'no drama' ways, that ended on a very bad note. I am at a total loss - I have been married and divorced three times - all losers! I am really struggling here. Please help me open my eyes!

find a happy medium. I have male friends who want to see me every day to make love to me, but they don't want to hang out, go to a movie, have dinner, go dancing. I'm definitely not ugly, and because of the demand it seems I satisfy men very well sexually. I am a very independent woman and very outspoken. Some of my male friends love me alot but there never seems to be a 'relationship' that develops. What could be happening here?