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Had FILED using my SS#, which 'BLOCKED' me from E-Filing! the Accountant told me to MAIL them in and WAIT for the MESS to RESOLVE ITSELF!

WHAT is the PROCEDURE for this & how long will it now take!

After years of 'EMOTIONAL NEGLECT' (from her), & her resentment to me~ for not 'SUPPORTING' her ADULT~DEAD BEAT KIDS~

I've DIVORCED the ENTIRE FAMILY!

I now wonder what I will do next~ I am not WEALTHY~

but do WELL w/out too many $$$$ worries!

I've been raising MY FAMILY & HERS for MOST OF MY LIFE~

What should I do to 'RESTART MY LIFE'!

I am ENJOYING 'BEING ALONE' at this point!

I 'MEDICALLY RETIRED', @ 58 due to my 'OVER WORKED HEART'~ Should I plan on applying for 'regular Social Secutrity' ,

as I turn 62!

My younger brother & his wife are 'DIVORCING', after nearly 20 years!

I have empathy for him, BUT~ SHE & her kids have 'used & abused' him

nearly the entire time! He has spent a small fortune, helping 'her looser kids',

stay our of JAIL~Put her thru college, HE has provided very WELL for them,

and THEY have treated him TERRIBLE!

And now, he is UPSET & CRYING~ WHY~

I FIGURED HE'D BE 'TICKLED TO DEATH!

"HELP ME UNDERSTAND"~SO i CAN HELP HIM!!

NOW~ it's long & seed is on the TOPS~

what do I need to do now~

do I let it 'fall off', before cutting~

or cut it & let is do it's thing!

My wife's daughter & her 'drunk-drug addicted bum' of a husband! Are moving back to our lil city! HE doesn't work (won't) he draws 'disability', @ 40 years old & hasn't work 6 months in his entire life~She doesn't work, they have 2 young daughters, and he's not 'SAVE' to lv the girls with!

THEY have 'financially' wiped us out 'TWICE' & r coming back to FINISH IT! THEY just 'BLEW'~$780,000 in less than 3 years~ and now expect everyone to 'HELP THEN AGAIN'!

THEY are 'UN TRUST WORTHY', and can't be TRUSTED!

I refuse to ALLOW them to stay at our house, and WIFE is FURIOUS w/me~MY adult 'self sufficient kids', have stated that~ 'they won't be around' while they r here!

MY wife & I r nearly 'RETIRED', and every $dollar$ is counted!

AM I WRONG FOR TAKING THIS 'STANCE'! It will probably cost me what is left of our 'shakey marriage'! IS there WORST things than being ALONE!

My wife's DAUGHTER is coming back to our lil town!

Bringing her 'DRUNKEN/DRUGGIE' husband w/her!

SHE condones it~enables him & supports HIM!

SHE lost her 'oldest child' in a house fire 7 years ago,

because he wouldn't work & moved them into a 'DUMP'!

THEY sued & got nearly a $$MILLION$$ & spend it in 2 years!

Now they r broke & coming back~everyone 'DETESTS THEM'~

except her MOTHER (my wife), and she wants to HELP!

there is NO WAY OF 'HELPING THEM'!

I FEAR IT WILL COST US THE 'MARRIAGE'!

ANY SUGGESTIONS!!

I am a 'good husband'~

raised my kids as a 'single dad' for 14 years~

married a good woman w/2 kids & helped

raise them~finacially & emotionally!

Have been a 'good provider' & kept my vows!

BUT~ she shows no interest in me~

either EMOTIONALLY~PHYSICALLY~

She doesn't like to 'visit'~go places~

just wants to STAY HOME!

95% of the 'NURSING HOME DUTIES', for

'her mother', who is 'retired & disabled'!

Are they 'eligable for compensation' !!

thru SSI or other government programs!

be 'CONVERTED TO OPERATE ON NATURAL GAS'!/?

But, is a 'total dud', isn't

that 'FALSE ADVERTISING'! LOL

BEHAVIOR!

My grand daughter's car wouldn't start the other nite @ China mart, and she called her 'uncle',

and asked for HELP~He gave a few 'worthless reason's' why he 'couldn't', (he just didn't want to do it), and left her hanging!

She, got it taken care of, and is 'ticked @ him', as am I!

he's my step son & I've never left him 'hanging'!

I'm really 'up-set', and trying not to 're-act', (& it's taken a lot of effort)!

HOW DO I HANDLE THIS ONE!

Nearly a year ago, she had 'soft tissue' damage to her neck & upper back! She, didn't miss work, but they made special accomidations for her to keep working! Her medical bills were nearly $8000.00, and the other guys ins has contacted her, and 1st time offered her $700.00, to settle, she told them NO, and told them to get 'real', and now they have offered her $2000.00, which seams pretty LOW to me!

She, (like me) doesn't believe 'sueing is warrented', BUT does any one in the state of INDIANA, have any idea as to 'how much ' she should ask for!

Her injuries, were not permanent, and she is doing well!

other than 'being insulted' by such a 'low ball offer'!

HELP IF U CAN!!

THANX

Heritaqge Softail~they are good condition,

'except', the 'TOPS' are 'curled & lost form'!

is their any way to get them back to thier

original shape!

I was thinking of 'STEAM & HARD FORMS'!

HELP ME OUT HERE GUYS!

THANX

"BABY SHOWER", for our 17 yr old 'grand son's',

X girl friend, who is "PREGNANT", and he say's,

"IT MAY NOT BE MINE"! He says, the 'timing is way off'!

AND, wants a DNA TEST, ASAP!!

In the mean time, how do we handle this ~shower~thingy~

I know no one there~except 'her', and this could be

more A BIT MORE THAN AWKWARD!

They r not together & not getting along,

HELP!

has made it a law! to have INSurance! If U own a car-truck-MC-!

YOU know what I'm talking about!

IF U get 'caught' driving W/O ins, U will loose your licence!

U have to have INS so says the GOVE!

BUT, then U're INS CO tells U to caryy "UNINSURRANED MOTORITS INS"!

THE GOVERNMENT & INS COMPANIES R IN BED TOGETHER!

a 'car lot', that is having trouble with it's 'flooring plan', always moving things around to 'avoid' the 'bank', and NOT sending the TITLES to customers, that have PAID CASH, I'm still trying to get the 'owners' to send titles for cars-trucks that I SOLD in APRIL!

I am the one, the customers come to, I am the one answering the 'questions', I feel 'disappointment', frustration and NEAR RAGE!

it's my 'REPUTATION', not the 'silent owners' that is being damaged!

THE CUSTOMER JUST WANTS WHAT HE'S PAID FOR!

want immigration of 'illegals', stopped, WHY is our GOVERNMENT NOT PAYING ATTENTION!

And, the COURTS just pass laws, supporting it! "DO WE THE PEOPLE", not have a SAY ABOUT OUR GOVERNMENT, and don't tell me to VOTE THEM out! as they all do as they PLEASE!