Christina

So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for over 2 years now. He has a couple of lady friends that he chats with and has chatted with since before we were together. Among other things they chat about things of an ...explicit nature. We've talked about it, and every time we talk about he stops talking to them for a while, but then starts up again. I don't mind him talking about platonic things, but the cyber sex bothers me. Not only that, but I snooped through his phone, and he seems to have a pretty strong emotional attachment to one of them. I don't think he would leave me for either of these folks (especially since neither are local) but we've talked about the fact that I don't consider that ok. Aside from this continuous issue, he treats me wonderfully and we have a strong relationship.

So here are my questions:

Is cyber sex cheating?

Am I being over sensitive?

Should I contact either of the girls directly?

Should I leave my boyfriend?

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