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Looking to take my fiancee out for a nice, romantic, relaxing dinner the night before the big day. Any ideas?

Just curious as to when you feel your sex drive was at its peak and when it was at its lowest. Also, what are the major forces that affected your sex drive? Thanks in advance!

I'm looking to take my fiancee to a spa in northern NJ so that we can both just relax and get massages before the "big day". Please let me know if you know of any! Thanks in advance!

Sometimes I feel that I can't last long enough to give my significant other the satisfaction that she wants. Are there any easy ways to last longer that don't include taking some kind of medication?

Thanks in advance.

My wedding is coming up in 2 weeks and I just want to get rid of that wretched spare tire... I've been dieting and exercising and I am certainly starting to see results, but I just want it to be gone!!! Any ideas?

Thanks in advance.

If your spouse or girlfriend dances with a guy at a club/lounge, do you think that it is considered flirting?

I have always thought of clubs as being the type of place someone goes to in order to meet people of the opposite sex, dance dirty, hook-up, etc. Even if a married woman does not have the intention of doing any of these things when she goes out, there is still that possibility that she can get caught up in the moment and/or have something forced on her - especially if alcohol is involved. With that being said, do you think a married woman should go out to a club with just her girlfriends?

I'm 5'8 222 lbs right now... I've been dieting for about a week or so and I've been going to the gym and doing plenty of lifting and cardio. I also work out a few times a day by playing bball and going for walks. So far I've lost about 7 pounds in the first week. Is there any way I can help drop weight quicker? I really want to lose about 20 pounds or so by the 4th of July... because I'm getting married that day!!!

It's about 3 weeks to my wedding and my fiancee recently had her bachelorette party. I happened to notice some pics of her night out at a club and saw some pics of her dancing very closely to some guys - and it bothered me. I know some people say its only dancing, but sometimes dancing can be pretty raunchy and even if its not, the fact that she is having fun being really close to another guy bothers me.

Do you think I should let this bother me, or just forget about it since it was only dancing and it was her bachelorette party?

So here's the situation:

I've been going out with my current fiancee for over 8 years now. Our wedding is now only 3 weeks away. For quite some time now, her sex drive has drastically been lower and when we discussed this topic before, she blamed herself. Now, I find out that because I have gained some weight she is unattracted to me. She says that she still loves me and we've been having talks about whether we should still get married or not. At this point we are keeping the wedding on but she has said that if we didn't already pay for everything, she would push it back. Since finding out this detail about her being unattracted to me, I have been on a strict diet and exercise regimen to change things. I have the confidence that I can get back to the weight that I once was when she was attracted to me, but how do I know that those feelings will ever come back? I'm not sure that I could live with a marriage where my wife was not attracted to me... what do I do??? PLEASE HELP!!!