Jasper

It s complicated. Her family is being kicked out of their home, her mother is going to jail, her father is sick and can t work, grandmother has no space to host her, and that s it for relatives. I can let her stay where I live, but I live with my parents and we don t really have room either. I m wondering if there s any kind of housing program that might help her, or if there s something more I can do than sometimes let her stay over and keep some of her stuff in my closet.

I used to get along really well with this guy, like I really looked up to him, and he s very nice and I still have no problem with him. The problem is that I started dating his best friend, and he s very protective of her - they ve been friends for about seven years and have been through a lot together. I have severe anxiety and a few other mental health issues, and it s caused me to lash out sometimes, a few times at the beginning of our relationship, at my girlfriend - I ve taken full responsibility and am working on improving myself and not lashing out, and things are going a lot better. But the guy still hates me and wants nothing to do with me. I m not mad at him, and i don t want my girlfriend to have to choose between us, so what should I do?