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In the last month I've had three periods lasting each then normal 5 days. A few days after I've ended one I get another.

I am on the pill but have been on it for years and have taken it as normal.

And I have been highly stressed (but I wouldn't think stress would contribute this much)

Any ideas on why??

whenever I do high intensity activity the glands in my neck swell up a huge amount all of sudden. I don t get it through the exercise but as soon as I finish I get it.

Today I ran a 12km race and was fine throughout the whole thing and a minute after passing the finishing line my neck swelled and I had a sore throat making it hard to talk or breathe too deeply as well as a tightness in my chest

15 minutes after the race all symptoms are gone.

This has happened a few times

Any ideas?

Also just want to say. There s no chance of it being asthma. I don t have it but it s not that kind of feeling and it s not like I m struggling to get air in

I ve been to the hairdressers three times and each time they have been unable to dye my hair.

I ve never used at home hair dye I ve only ever been to a hairdresser

I have naturally red/auburn hair and I ve been told that it doesn t take colour as well

Am I seriously never going to be able to dye my hair.

Don t get me wrong I like my hair colour I just want a bit of change.

I m 18y/o female and only about 55kg. I haven t ever been drunk or even tipsy. The most I ve ever had is 7 drinks in one night that were each 1.4 standard drinks and it was Whisky and cola. To be honest I m too scared to drink more in case I do get drunk.. So how many before you start feeling the affects because for me it s basically like drinking soda...

So I've been thinking about this for months and really want to give it a real try

I don't really like meat too much anyway .. But I do have a few dishes that I like but I could easily give them up

Basically nutritionally wise tips

Okay so this might sound a bit strange but my mate and I have this competition thing going on at the moment. The idea is to do the most clever funny thing underwater while scuba diving.

I'm going scuba diving next week and so far I've only come up with one idea: (I do have stuff to film with)

Buy a ukelele and play it underwater surrounded by heaps of fish

Any ideas

One of my best friends has recently been really weird.. I know that he likes me, but I don t like him. There has been a number of times in the past week where he would touch me (quite sexually) and it s extremely uncomfortable. I m try to tell him to stop but he doesn t and i keep pushing him a way but he doesn t get it

I don t know any other way to get the message across to him.. We are really good friends and it s not going to go anything beyond that, but this is really getting out of hand and kinda scarily creepy to be honest

I just want to add he s not actually a bad person he s really nice and all that but it s just this one thing that s really bothering me

So basically I graduate tomorrow and in one class we pick a random name out of the hat and the person we pick we have to buy them a small gift and say something nice about them

The person I picked is one of my best friends who also happens to be a guy (I m a girl)

And my point is that I want to say something really kind and meaningful without sounding cheesy or like we re more than just friends (everyone seems to think we are more) any generic ideas?

I ll still put my own personalised ideas in but I need some help

I've been constantly tired for the past few weeks and I've even been eating more

I know it's because of the amount of activities I do my weekly routine is:

Mon: school, Jnr squash

Tues: school, Jnr squash, squash training, competition squash

Weds: 5.30am bootcamp, school, squash training

Thurs: squash training, competitons

Fri: bootcamp

Saturday: rest

Sunday: squash training, running day

I know this a lot but I can't reduce it, but I also can't keep going with so low energy levels

Can you suggest ways to lift my energy levels

And foods/recipes that will help me to gain energy

At the end of this year November we are graduating. The plan is that instead of leavers we will go on a 10 day cruise from perth to Sydney then stay a few nights in sydney before flying back..

we will all be 18 (so legal age to drink)

tomorrow we are going into holiday planner but we don't know what we should be asking them or what we need to know and find out so far the only questions we have are

can we do a deposit and pay it off slowly

what about insurance

accommodation in Sydney

best way to book the cruise

transportation in Sydney

flights back to perth

how much on average the trip will cost all together

and what can we do in Sydney

any help what else should we know

BTW we already live in Australia so we don't need passports since the cruise only docks in Australian towns/cities

I've got my hazard perception test tomorrow and I'm really worried about it .. I've already failed once I don't want to fail again.. I get 100% everytime online but the videos they show in the real thing are horrible and they show a really bad quality picture which you can barely make out

What are some tips for the hazard perception test or any sites DO GIVE ME ANY UK SITES THEY ARE USELESS AND NOTHING LIKE THE WESTERN AUSTRALIA ONE!!!!

I've already tried the South Australia site ..

When I stand up from a laying and even sitting position I get extremely dizzy to the point of nearly fainting. Everything goes white and I can barely hold myself up for about 30 seconds but I usually push through it and keep walking which just makes it a lot worse tbh

What could be the cause of this?

I exercise regularly (5-6 times a week), I eat a healthy diet.. Although maybe not enough. I sleep between 7-9 hours a night.

I'm 17, female

My resting heart rate is around 58

I do running 3-4 times a week

+ bootcamp 2 times a week

+ I play squash once a week

+ 4-5 lessons of sport a week for school

Do I'd say I'm reasonably fit

Just curious :)

Next week I have to do an oral presentation for English (year 11) even though we still don't know what we are doing it on.. but I don't know how to deal with it. Public Speaking is my one and only fear so I don't know how to deal with it when it comes to it and I've only done it once before at the start of this year..

I stutter heaps, start taking with a really bad lisp, I shake, go completely red, tremble and my eyes water that's how bad it is.. what's some good tips and techniques to get rid of the nerves .. I don't even know what it is about it that makes me nervous i'm not shy or self conscious or anything like that it's just with oral presentations.. like you could make me talk in front 50 people out of the class room.. but as soon as I am in the class room I can't even talk to 10 let alone 20 without freaking out

I've always felt that I don't remember something from the ages of 4-5 that is really important

For the past hour my friend and I have been trying to remember all the tv shows we used to watch when we were kids

And then all of a sudden I found one and started watching the video of it (cubeez) it's bringing back all these feelings from a long time ago but I still can't remember what

I feel like I'm going to throw up I've got chills running up and down my back an I can't move typing this is helping me keep slightly calmer what can I do it's 12.40 am and I'm balling my eyes out because of this one show and I don't even know what it is that I haven't quite remembered

So I have basically been talking to this guy for a few months and about 10ish days ago he asked me if I liked him (I already knew he liked me) but i kinda freaked out and gave a really vague answer not necessarily saying I did or didn't. I do like him but at the point I was really busy and under a lot of stress trying to deal with other things

Anyway he got really upset kept talking to me for a few days and it was really awkard then he stopped replying

I messaged him last night and said how sorry I was and hoped that we were still good. He told me he was really sorry and he said we were good but it's still really awkward and I haven't messaged him today :/

I really do like him I just can't bring myself to admit it an now even if I could I don't know how to bring it up and make things go back to normal :/

If anyone no matter how close to me touches my shoulders I freak out and flinch heaps. It makes me honestly feel really sick and feels like I've got spiders running down my back. I can't even keep a straight face and if in prepared I can handle it for maybe a second or two without flinching but then i freak out still

I've thought about whether or not it has something to do with something that happened when I was younger but I can't think of anything, although I have very good memory from the age of 3 but I can't remember anything from the age of 5-6. A family member told me my mum and I didn't have a house and I lived with my grandparents while she lived with a friends abusive husband (mum never once told me and didn't want to tell me apparently I don't really know why) maybe something happened then but I don't know

I'm not stressed.

I'm very happy with my life.

It's only with my shoulders

But yes it is affecting me. I've nearly broken my ankle after falling over when

someone touched my shoulder. I get teased (harmless enough) but it still makes me react worse. It's very embarrassing especially in certain situations cause I do scream. And as I said the feeling sends chills down my back.

What could be causing it?

How could I stop it. I can't get a shoulder massage or chiro I'd honestly probably be sick if that were to happen

I had an extremely vivid dream that I was out at dam/river that my family used to go to when I was little. Everything was normal and were swimming when I just kind of blacked out. In the dream I felt like I was out for like an hour in real life but then I kind of slowly came back to my senses. I couldn't see yet everything was black but I could hear my family singing "ring a ring a rosey" in that creepy child. That was my favourite song when I was little that I would be singing constantly 24/7... But yeah my vision slowly started to one back and my family was still singing the same song. I could eventually make out that I was in the water and I was wrapped up in a silk blanket. My old toys from when I was little were floating all around me and through the rippled water I could see my whole family standing there staring at the water watching me drown (they looked like they were the ones who wrapped me in the silk blanket) but then everything went black again and I woke up

I'm going out on a date with this guy that I met a few months back online. I HAVE ALREADY MET HIM NUMEROUS TIMES I knew people who knew him so it's not like I was meeting a stranger.... But anyway I obviously have to tell mum.. I'm not worried about her not letting me she is not strict with anything like that but I'm more worried she will tease me as it is my first one the only thing she won't be happy about is the way I met him so I was just going to leave that part out and say he is a friend of a friends which is true any advice :/