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My bf and I have dated for almost 2 months. I have my own apartment and he lived with a couple roommates. Long story short, they are losing the house they were renting so he has no place to go. He suggested coming to live with me, so of course me feeling bad and wanting to help I agreed to it. So.... He moved in last week. I now feel like I m tied down/ living with this guy that I ve been with for only 2 months!!!!!!! If I had to be %10000 honest, then I would say all I want is to date someone and later slowly work on moving in. It just sucks bc yes I do like the guy. I get along well with him, however he has yet to help me with any bills and buys a 6-pack every single day and then weed every other few days. Wtf! I feel like an evil person for telling someone to get out right after I just allowed them to move in. Idk... I enjoy being with him when we are out doing things but I want to cry every time I step into my apartment now.

I've had a secured credit card (the starter ones) with the $300 limit on it for a little over a year now. My credit was GOOD and around the 700's not too long ago. I've never been late for a payment. Always on time. Over the last month I noticed my score is now POOR at like 633/640.... I know that I had a balance one of the last payments of $220 out of the $300 limit. I believe the month before was a pretty high balance as well. I figured I really need to keep that balance low to have good credit and I was wondering about how long it would take for my credit to bounce back up if i stop having such a high balance?

My bf and I have been together 2 years. We love each other very much. He's 30, he doesn't flirt with women or any of that stuff (as far as I know), and he respects me...as far as I know! Lol! Recently we've had some issues and practically almost broke up. The issues spawned from me having trouble trusting him due to my insecurities. Basically we came to a conclusion that we want to stay together and try to make our relationship work by me choosing to trust him and stop asking him questions all the time about who he is talking to and just all that crazy stuff. We decided it would be beneficial to our relationship for me to move back home for about a month- month and a half (not broken up.. He basically held onto me at the airport and told me he looks forward to meeting me back in that spot) to help us kinda "start over" or as he put it "reset". It hurts to do it but if it means giving us a chance then it's worth it. Anyways, he's told me a white lie or 2 about where he is/what he's doing. I understand we are doing this to get space for a bit and try not to contact each other, but should I worry about these things he's telling me like taking a nap and turns out he's out at the bar... I know he isn't entitled to report to me and tell me exactly where he's been, but I just get a little upset when he tells me one thing and does another. I don't wanna bring it up to him right now b/c I'm afraid it'll only promote conflict and endanger our chances of me coming back home later.

Last night me and my bf got in a fight.... i wouldn't even call it a fight b/c i hardly even opened my mouth at all... basically he is on edge lately and he takes all his anger and frustration out on me. he yells at me and last night he really flipped just b/c i was trying to talk to him while he played his video games... his reasoning for that is "Brittany out of all people i would've hoped u would be understanding and just be quiet right now" :.0 it wasnt even like i was trying to upset him or anything. so i tore out of his house cranked up and sped out of his driveway in tears as he ran out to stop me. i couldnt turn back no matter how much i knew i would miss him, but i had to get out b/c i was/ still am really hurt. im sorry im sharing i just had to get it out b/c i feel ran over and...alone.

anyways... i have the whole day to myself and im kinda bummed so i just was wondering if anybody had any suggestions on what to do today? i wanted to do something outdoors, but cant really think of anything... thank you for your time!

hey there,

me and my bf have been together almost 2 years. we argue. alot.

most of the time its over things that offend or hurt my feelings. he doesnt seem to care though... the conflict starts out small and eventually escalates to him yelling at me saying real hurtful f***ed up things to me like "were treading on thin ice right now" "im about to just leave u" "shut up"...(i will be talking in the same tone i started in) there are other things but honestly it kinda hurts to keep typing them. well last night he got really drunk and basically he did something to really upset me and then he turned into a HUGEE monster. this morning when we woke up i explained his behavior to him and he didnt seem to give two $h!+$... i had to basically ask him for a somewhat decent apology (which i found pathetic) and i got "im sorry. im sorry that i had to be woken up to ur annoying @$$ last night" ... umm :./ </3 wow..like...did i really just hear that. i told him i shouldnt have even had to ask for an apology in the first place and he said well that was my legit apology, sorry. (smart@$$ tone). im just so.... idk... hurt. he never really cares if he makes me cry (he usually just rolls over and tries to go to sleep b/c he is tired all of a sudden). i just really dont feel like he cares about me anymore and its probly the WORST feeling of a ripped empty heart. im just really at my breaking point. theres not really a question of why i put this on here b/c i cant really process just one..... idk whether or not to stay, what do i do, how do i even talk to him next time i see him, who am i!?!?! lol. i want him but i dont want this.

My birthday is in a week and while on the phone with my boyfriend ( 25 yrs old) he said he was just giving me money for my b-day.. he said he never really had time to get a gift but he has had plenty of opportunities in which he did not do anything. for my last years b-day he gave me cash for me to just go shop (my first b-day i had w/him so it was understandable). this time, i appreciate the money, but i just feel like he kind of put as little thought into it as possible and thats what upsets me. weve been dating for over a year and a half now btw... he says he really loves me, but its times like this when i feel actions speak louder. he said a long time ago (like a year ago) he was gonna buy me a promise ring or whatever but that thought disappeared i guess... :/ he bought his ex (the one that ran around on him with every guy in her apt. complex) a ring and they were together about the same time as me and him. i just kinda feel bummed and not as important :/ like its not even sunday and im already over my birthday... ok sorry, thank yall for listening to me whine and vent, i just didnt want to do that to him... but any help or advice is appreciated, thank you. :)

hi there.

right now i am currently taking college classes and and will hopefully graduate this next june. i am 18 years old and i figured its time to start building a good credit score b/c once i graduate and get a dental assisting job i want to move into my own apartment! right now i have a checking account and 2 separate saving accounts. i never overdraft my accounts (i dont know if that helps w/the score or not). people say credit cards are a good way to build your score but can also be dangerous... if i had one i would be more than careful with it though... are there any suggestions about what i should do?? and about how long would it take to build a good score?

I woke up this morning and found a little piece of paper folded up on my boyfriends dresser with a girls phone number in it... he claims that it is a woman looking for a job and supposedly, from what he is telling me, she asked him to give the number to his mom (boyfriend and his mom work at same place....mom is the manager). if it was supposed to be for his mom why the f*** does he still have her #?? I also noticed when i confronted him about it ( i wasn't too nice about it) he got mad and all defensive. we have been together for over a year and a half now and i've never had a problem like this before. what do you guys think? i would love to give him the benefit of the doubt, but i just dont know...

My truck is a 1996 Chevy Silverado C1500 w/only 42,000 miles on her. I was just wondering about how many MPG's I can get if anyone knows. Thank you!

im new to all this so i was just wondering what i have to do in order to successfully transfer the title for my truck from my parents to myself. they already wrote and signed a bill of sale, the we signed that we were transfering the title on the document itself. i was wondering what i do from here and do i need to get my own insurance for it now?? thank you!

i worked at little caesars for over a year before i moved and i applied to the little caesars near my house now. the lady looked like she liked me (i guess, lol) and she told me to call her back on monday. do u think i will get the job??

ok, so to start off with a couple months ago i made it very clear to my bf that i dont want to be with someone who is on drugs or crap like that ( MJ im fine with tho, i understand) but drugs....no. he told me ok im not taking any and i wont. the both of us have been stressed out alot lately and weve both just been depressed (not from each other, things like work, money, etc..) well last night we got into a heated argument and i wound up leaving his house to just get away. when i came back to get my stuff(about 20 min. later) i was getting something out of his drawer and found he had taken some Zanex... i got so upset and told him i couldnt believe he lied to me. im still so upset and just feel....so f*@#ing depressed right now that i cant even reason with the situation. he said he took it b/c i was stressing him out from the arguement and he keeps denying that he lied to me.... i just need some advice yall... i feel so heartbroken and i appreciate any help

Me and my guy have been together for over a year and we were perfect for the first like 8 months...everything was perfect... he never did anything to make me feel like i needed to worry about him... lately it is me that has been causing our awesome relationship to downspiral... i am VERY jealous of anyone and anything that associates with him thats not me... we fight so much b/c of it now... weve come very close several times to walking out on each other. i NEVER thought any of this would happen... i worry so much for nothing and its tearing us apart. and like i said he has done nothing within our past year to give me a legit reason to be concerned.. yes he is my longest relationship and the best by far (when were happy )... i have never acted like this, i used to be very understanding... i dont know what to do w/myself anymore =(

thank you for listening and any advice is really appreciated.

me and my bf have been together for almost a year and we have maintained a great peaceful relationship... until recently that is.... i dont know why but every time he talks/ associates with another girl i get so nervous and paranoid.. it is really putting a strain on our relationship b/c its causing us to fight all the time. i dont want to be jealous like this but i dont know what to do anymore. people tell me not to worry and calm down but i want to its just something inside that keeps bugging me. he has not done anything really to prove to me that he has been or will be unfaithful to me. i understand that im the one that needs to change/ fix this issue but it is really difficult and frustrating. please help? thankyou.

Before my current boyfriend I dated this guy who screwed up abunch of things in our relationship b/c of pot so it really left an me upsetting/ bad taste about smoking pot...

My boyfriend (24) has smoked pot since he was in the 7th grade so he has been doing it for a while. When we first met i knew he smoked but i didn't seem to have a problem with it. Lately I have been getting so upset about him doing it or being around it. We usually then argue about it then get over it within the hour. I don't think it is the actual pot that upsets me, it is the fact that i feel like he doesn't give a s*** what i think/ feel.. I have told him that I feel like he doesn't care and then always says he does... We have been together for a while now and other than this issue we have never had any problems w/each other. I don't know how to just "get over it".. :(

About a week ago I noticed that my discharge was very white/ unpleasant ( I guess you might could say clumpy). It itched SO bad and would burn like my vagina was on fire. The discharge started to go back to normal (no more white clumps) so my boyfriend and I thought it would be safe to have sex... Well, as soon as he put it in I felt an excruciating pain as if my vagina were ripping apart and burning at the same time. When he pulled it out I started bleeding a little (I wasn't wet).

A couple days ago I went and bought the Monistat 3-day treatment cream... It seems to be working fine...no more intense burning or itching...no pain when I wipe after I use the restroom... We tried to "do it" again yesterday and it still hurt pretty bad with a little bit of blood, but definately not as much as the first time. Does anyone know maybe when it will be okay to finally have sex without feeling like I'm being ripped apart? If you have any knowledge or experience similar to mine, what did you do? thank you.

lol. im going to a concert at the Tabernacle in atlanta and im kinda confused as to where i will be sitting from the stage. on my ticket it says..... Section: General Admission; Row:G1; and seat #405/ 406. i would greatly appreciate any help! :P

ok im thinking about purchasing a Straight talk prepaid cell phone but im not too familiar w/prepaid phones... i wanna buy the $30 plan (1000 texts & calls)... is it 1000 texts that i send or 1000 texts that i send/ receive?? also, im moving in august so if i buy the phone at my current location will it still work after i move?

ok so im moving out to my dads house in August and i promised myself that i would tell mom the news by today... i dont know what to expect from her when i tell her and i am kind of nervous as to how her and my step dad will react. any advice?

Im taking my boyfriend to a Deadmau5 concert as a surprise... will it be a good surprise??