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If you met a guy online, was hitting it off pretty well but haven 't met yet, he asked for pics and you sent him a few suggestive ones and then he sent those pics to his ex-girlfriend?

I'm asking because a guy i used to date, who I've become friends with again, just sent me pics of some girl. That were obviously meant for him but he wanted to show me how hot she was. I went off and told him he's a creep and she would probably be mortified if she knew he did that.

But then I was thinking... Maybe not all girls would be all that pissed by it. I mean, she did send pics to someone she barely knows. I dunno.

How mad would you be? And guys, that is kinda creepy right? Please tell me that's not a normal guy thing...

If you met a guy online, was hitting it off pretty well but haven 't met yet, he asked for pics and you sent him a few suggestive ones and then he sent those pics to his ex-girlfriend?

I'm asking because a guy i used to date, who I've become friends with again, just sent me pics of some girl. That were obviously meant for him but he wanted to show me how hot she was. I went off and told him he's a creep and she would probably be mortified if she knew he did that.

But then I was thinking... Maybe not all girls would be all that pissed by it. I mean, she did send pics to someone she barely knows. I dunno.

How mad would you be? And guys, that is kinda creepy right? Please tell me that's not a normal guy thing...

If you met a guy online, was hitting it off pretty well but haven 't met yet, he asked for pics and you sent him a few suggestive ones and then he sent those pics to his ex-girlfriend?

I'm asking because a guy i used to date, who I've become friends with again, just sent me pics of some girl. That were obviously meant for him but he wanted to show me how hot she was. I went off and told him he's a creep and she would probably be mortified if she knew he did that.

But then I was thinking... Maybe not all girls would be all that pissed by it. I mean, she did send pics to someone she barely knows. I dunno.

How mad would you be? And guys, that is kinda creepy right? Please tell me that's not a normal guy thing...

If you met a guy online, was hitting it off pretty well but haven 't met yet, he asked for pics and you sent him a few suggestive ones and then he sent those pics to his ex-girlfriend?

I'm asking because a guy i used to date, who I've become friends with again, just sent me pics of some girl. That were obviously meant for him but he wanted to show me how hot she was. I went off and told him he's a creep and she would probably be mortified if she knew he did that.

But then I was thinking... Maybe not all girls would be all that pissed by it. I mean, she did send pics to someone she barely knows. I dunno.

How mad would you be? And guys, that is kinda creepy right? Please tell me that's not a normal guy thing...

I have this guy friend. We used to date a long time ago. We reconnected about about 9 months ago as friends and have become pretty good ones. He's made passes at me a few times over the course of our friendship but everytime I've turned him down. I do like him. But It's too risky for me to have casual sex with someone I like and I'm not entirely sure if they feel the same way. Although I know he's attracted to me, we have great conversation and a lot in common. I have a feeling he's into me in THAT way but I need to hear the words. Especially considering we've dated in the past.

He's been doing this thing lately. Over the last month or so where's he's telling me all about other women in his life. Girls he's going out with, girl's he wants to go out with. Girls he wants to ****. I've tried being the cool friend about it but lately it's intolerable. I've strongly backed away from him. It's like I don't even want to look at my phone when he sends me a text. It seems like he's really obviously trying to throw it in my face.

For example, Friday night. He texts to me. He was drinking. We were chit chatting. He starts hitting on me and even asked to come see me. I said no and brushed it off. 10 seconds later, he's like "This hot Latin chick wants my junk and I'm gonna give her all of it." Then sends me a picture of her. I backed out of the convo almost immediately. I ignored his texts the last couple of nights but for some reason answered tonight. A couple of texts later he's like "I just wanted to see if you were still alive, I'm going to bed now. And me and Latina girl are going out for drinks this week. She wants to make some bad decisions, doesn't she?"

I'm like wtf? If he's trying to get the point across that he's not that interested in me, that's fine but why does he keep coming around when I'm not going anywhere near him??

Is he trying to make me jealous or is he just a huge effing douchebag?? Or both

I have this guy friend. We used to date a long time ago. We reconnected about about 9 months ago as friends and have become pretty good ones. He's made passes at me a few times over the course of our friendship but everytime I've turned him down. I do like him. But It's too risky for me to have casual sex with someone I like and I'm not entirely sure if they feel the same way. Although I know he's attracted to me, we have great conversation and a lot in common. I have a feeling he's into me in THAT way but I need to hear the words. Especially considering we've dated in the past.

He's been doing this thing lately. Over the last month or so where's he's telling me all about other women in his life. Girls he's going out with, girl's he wants to go out with. Girls he wants to ****. I've tried being the cool friend about it but lately it's intolerable. I've strongly backed away from him. It's like I don't even want to look at my phone when he sends me a text. It seems like he's really obviously trying to throw it in my face.

For example, Friday night. He texts to me. He was drinking. We were chit chatting. He starts hitting on me and even asked to come see me. I said no and brushed it off. 10 seconds later, he's like "This hot Latin chick wants my junk and I'm gonna give her all of it." Then sends me a picture of her. I backed out of the convo almost immediately. I ignored his texts the last couple of nights but for some reason answered tonight. A couple of texts later he's like "I just wanted to see if you were still alive, I'm going to bed now. And me and Latina girl are going out for drinks this week. She wants to make some bad decisions, doesn't she?"

I'm like wtf? If he's trying to get the point across that he's not that interested in me, that's fine but why does he keep coming around when I'm not going anywhere near him??

Is he trying to make me jealous or is he just a huge effing douchebag?? Or both

I have this guy friend. We used to date a long time ago. We reconnected about about 9 months ago as friends and have become pretty good ones. He's made passes at me a few times over the course of our friendship but everytime I've turned him down. I do like him. But It's too risky for me to have casual sex with someone I like and I'm not entirely sure if they feel the same way. Although I know he's attracted to me, we have great conversation and a lot in common. I have a feeling he's into me in THAT way but I need to hear the words. Especially considering we've dated in the past.

He's been doing this thing lately. Over the last month or so where's he's telling me all about other women in his life. Girls he's going out with, girl's he wants to go out with. Girls he wants to ****. I've tried being the cool friend about it but lately it's intolerable. I've strongly backed away from him. It's like I don't even want to look at my phone when he sends me a text. It seems like he's really obviously trying to throw it in my face.

For example, Friday night. He texts to me. He was drinking. We were chit chatting. He starts hitting on me and even asked to come see me. I said no and brushed it off. 10 seconds later, he's like "This hot Latin chick wants my junk and I'm gonna give her all of it." Then sends me a picture of her. I backed out of the convo almost immediately. I ignored his texts the last couple of nights but for some reason answered tonight. A couple of texts later he's like "I just wanted to see if you were still alive, I'm going to bed now. And me and Latina girl are going out for drinks this week. She wants to make some bad decisions, doesn't she?"

I'm like wtf? If he's trying to get the point across that he's not that interested in me, that's fine but why does he keep coming around when I'm not going anywhere near him??

Is he trying to make me jealous or is he just a huge effing douchebag?? Or both

I have this guy friend. We used to date a long time ago. We reconnected about about 9 months ago as friends and have become pretty good ones. He's made passes at me a few times over the course of our friendship but everytime I've turned him down. I do like him. But It's too risky for me to have casual sex with someone I like and I'm not entirely sure if they feel the same way. Although I know he's attracted to me, we have great conversation and a lot in common. I have a feeling he's into me in THAT way but I need to hear the words. Especially considering we've dated in the past.

He's been doing this thing lately. Over the last month or so where's he's telling me all about other women in his life. Girls he's going out with, girl's he wants to go out with. Girls he wants to ****. I've tried being the cool friend about it but lately it's intolerable. I've strongly backed away from him. It's like I don't even want to look at my phone when he sends me a text. It seems like he's really obviously trying to throw it in my face.

For example, Friday night. He texts to me. He was drinking. We were chit chatting. He starts hitting on me and even asked to come see me. I said no and brushed it off. 10 seconds later, he's like "This hot Latin chick wants my junk and I'm gonna give her all of it." Then sends me a picture of her. I backed out of the convo almost immediately. I ignored his texts the last couple of nights but for some reason answered tonight. A couple of texts later he's like "I just wanted to see if you were still alive, I'm going to bed now. And me and Latina girl are going out for drinks this week. She wants to make some bad decisions, doesn't she?"

I'm like wtf? If he's trying to get the point across that he's not that interested in me, that's fine but why does he keep coming around when I'm not going anywhere near him??

Is he trying to make me jealous or is he just a huge effing douchebag?? Or both?

I have this guy friend. We used to date a long time ago. We reconnected about about 9 months ago as friends and have become pretty good ones. He's made passes at me a few times over the course of our friendship but everytime I've turned him down. I do like him. But It's too risky for me to have casual sex with someone I like and I'm not entirely sure if they feel the same way. Although I know he's attracted to me, we have great conversation and a lot in common. I have a feeling he's into me in THAT way but I need to hear the words. Especially considering we've dated in the past.

He's been doing this thing lately. Over the last month or so where's he's telling me all about other women in his life. Girls he's going out with, girl's he wants to go out with. Girls he wants to ****. I've tried being the cool friend about it but lately it's intolerable. I've strongly backed away from him. It's like I don't even want to look at my phone when he sends me a text. It seems like he's really obviously trying to throw it in my face.

For example, Friday night. He texts to me. He was drinking. We were chit chatting. He starts hitting on me and even asked to come see me. I said no and brushed it off. 10 seconds later, he's like "This hot Latin chick wants my junk and I'm gonna give her all of it." Then sends me a picture of her. I backed out of the convo almost immediately. I ignored his texts the last couple of nights but for some reason answered tonight. A couple of texts later he's like "I just wanted to see if you were still alive, I'm going to bed now. And me and Latina girl are going out for drinks this week. She wants to make some bad decisions, doesn't she?"

I'm like wtf? If he's trying to get the point across that he's not that interested in me, that's fine but why does he keep coming around when I'm not going anywhere near him??

Is he trying to make me jealous or is he just a huge effing douchebag?? Or both?

I don't even know if I can really call this person an ex. We were only together for about 3 months and it's been about 3 months now since he dumped me. When he dumped me he said he didn't think we were very compatible because he always felt alone when we were out together. I know this is my fault. I did really really like him but I treated him pretty badly when we were together. When we met I told him that I really liked him but I wasn't sure if I was ready for something serious. I kept telling him that I wanted to take it slow but he was always pushing for more and more time with me. He was very demanding. He wanted to be together all the time. He wanted constant contact. Booked up my every weekend for about 6 months time, all within the first month of dating!! He was very affectionate, very caring, and just wanted to spend as much time with me as possible. I'm not used to that. I started acting cold and like I didn't care much about him. I always had to show how independent I was and I even made up things for us to fight about so he wouldn't get too attached. I know I acted like a crazy person and I regret that soooooo much. I know I was just doing those things to him out of fear of falling but unfortunately, doing those things didn't work. I fell. But I didn't realize it until too late. Now I want all of those things with him. I dated other guys, better looking guys, guys with more money, guys who are funnier than him, guys who I have more in common with. I just can't get this guy off my mind!

The split wasn't too dramatic. He said he still really liked me and wasn't completely writing me off, he would really miss me and he wasn't finished thinking about "us" as a possibility. Then we said goodbye. The next morning I sent him an e-mail and I asked him if I could see him that weekend to talk about things. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get back to me if and when he felt the need. I tried twice in the first month to contact him again. Once through e-mail. Once through text. He never responded so I figured I just had to move on as much as it hurt. Then about a month ago he started commenting on my facebook statuses. He rarely does this to anyone on fb and never did it to me before even when we were together. Everytime I would see his name pop up on my phone that he commented my head would start reeling about why he was doing that and I started obsessing about him again. So a week ago I unfriended him to save myself the pain. I thought that would help but it's made it so much worse. He is on my mind literally every second of every day. I've been having dreams about him. I just can't stop. I have it so bad for this boy.

Can I text him to see how he is or will that make me a crazy girl? I would give anything for a chance to be on good terms and reconcile with him maybe someday in the future. I don't care how long I have to wait. I don't want to do anything that will leave him with a bad taste in his mouth when he thinks of me. That's why I'm terrified to try and text him. But I haven't tried in 2 months. It's ok to do it now, right?

I was in a very intense and fast moving 3 month relationship with a guy that ended 2 months ago when he dumped me. He dumped me because he said we weren't compatible but I'm pretty sure it was because I acted pretty coldly towards him near the end of our relationship. He wasn't getting the attention or affection he desired or needed. And he needed a lot of it. I really did like him he was just coming on way too strong for me and I ended up shutting down on him.

The day after he dumped me I sent him an e-mail apologizing for the way I treated him and I explained why I was freaking out. I asked him if I could come see him one more time. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get at me if and when he was ready. I tried to talk to him twice after that. Once through text and once through e-mail. Both times I got no response. That was within the first month. I figured he just lost all interest and I blew my shot so I had no other choice but to move on. I was making progress on moving on. I miss him but I have no other choice so I have to get over it.

We stayed friends on facebook and in the last two weeks he has posted comments on my status updates twice. He doesn't comment on status updates often. For anyone. And the whole time we were together he only commented on my statuses once. So to see it twice in 2 weeks seems weird to me. The first time he commented, I responded directly to him and he didn't respond back. The next time he commented (2 days ago), I basically ignored his comment. His comment was useless and pointless and I feel like he was just kind of poking me by showing up on my page. I was hoping that maybe I would get a text or an e-mail or maybe even a phone call but I haven't.

Am I reading too much into this or is this him starting to come back around? I was thinking of texting him but I'm kind of terrified of being rejected or having him think that I'm crazy. But I mean, if he knew that I was still interested and he wasn't, he would stay far far away from me on facebook wouldn't he? He is very shy and timid and a bit insecure. He was terrified to talk to me when we first met I had to approach him first. Is this him telling me to approach him again??

What does this mean?!?!?!

I was in a very intense and fast moving 3 month relationship with a guy that ended 2 months ago when he dumped me. He dumped me because he said we weren't compatible but I'm pretty sure it was because I acted pretty coldly towards him near the end of our relationship. He wasn't getting the attention or affection he desired or needed. And he needed a lot of it. I really did like him he was just coming on way too strong for me and I ended up shutting down on him.

The day after he dumped me I sent him an e-mail apologizing for the way I treated him and I explained why I was freaking out. I asked him if I could come see him one more time. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get at me if and when he was ready. I tried to talk to him twice after that. Once through text and once through e-mail. Both times I got no response. That was within the first month. I figured he just lost all interest and I blew my shot so I had no other choice but to move on. I was making progress on moving on. I miss him but I have no other choice so I have to get over it.

We stayed friends on facebook and in the last two weeks he has posted comments on my status updates twice. He doesn't comment on status updates often. For anyone. And the whole time we were together he only commented on my statuses once. So to see it twice in 2 weeks seems weird to me. The first time he commented, I responded directly to him and he didn't respond back. The next time he commented (2 days ago), I basically ignored his comment. His comment was useless and pointless and I feel like he was just kind of poking me by showing up on my page. I was hoping that maybe I would get a text or an e-mail or maybe even a phone call but I haven't.

Am I reading too much into this or is this him starting to come back around? I was thinking of texting him but I'm kind of terrified of being rejected or having him think that I'm crazy. But I mean, if he knew that I was still interested and he wasn't, he would stay far far away from me on facebook wouldn't he? He is very shy and timid and a bit insecure. He was terrified to talk to me when we first met I had to approach him first. Is this him telling me to approach him again??

What does this mean?!?!?!

I was in a very intense and fast moving 3 month relationship with a guy that ended 2 months ago when he dumped me. He dumped me because he said we weren't compatible but I'm pretty sure it was because I acted pretty coldly towards him near the end of our relationship. He wasn't getting the attention or affection he desired or needed. And he needed a lot of it. I really did like him he was just coming on way too strong for me and I ended up shutting down on him.

The day after he dumped me I sent him an e-mail apologizing for the way I treated him and I explained why I was freaking out. I asked him if I could come see him one more time. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get at me if and when he was ready. I tried to talk to him twice after that. Once through text and once through e-mail. Both times I got no response. That was within the first month. I figured he just lost all interest and I blew my shot so I had no other choice but to move on. I was making progress on moving on. I miss him but I have no other choice so I have to get over it.

We stayed friends on facebook and in the last two weeks he has posted comments on my status updates twice. He doesn't comment on status updates often. For anyone. And the whole time we were together he only commented on my statuses once. So to see it twice in 2 weeks seems weird to me. The first time he commented, I responded directly to him and he didn't respond back. The next time he commented (2 days ago), I basically ignored his comment. His comment was useless and pointless and I feel like he was just kind of poking me by showing up on my page. I was hoping that maybe I would get a text or an e-mail or maybe even a phone call but I haven't.

Am I reading too much into this or is this him starting to come back around? I was thinking of texting him but I'm kind of terrified of being rejected or having him think that I'm crazy. But I mean, if he knew that I was still interested and he wasn't, he would stay far far away from me on facebook wouldn't he? He is very shy and timid and a bit insecure. He was terrified to talk to me when we first met I had to approach him first. Is this him telling me to approach him again??

What does this mean?!?!?!

I was in a very intense and fast moving 3 month relationship with a guy that ended 2 months ago when he dumped me. He dumped me because he said we weren't compatible but I'm pretty sure it was because I acted pretty coldly towards him near the end of our relationship. He wasn't getting the attention or affection he desired or needed. And he needed a lot of it. I really did like him he was just coming on way too strong for me and I ended up shutting down on him.

The day after he dumped me I sent him an e-mail apologizing for the way I treated him and I explained why I was freaking out. I asked him if I could come see him one more time. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get at me if and when he was ready. I tried to talk to him twice after that. Once through text and once through e-mail. Both times I got no response. That was within the first month. I figured he just lost all interest and I blew my shot so I had no other choice but to move on. I was making progress on moving on. I miss him but I have no other choice so I have to get over it.

We stayed friends on facebook and in the last two weeks he has posted comments on my status updates twice. He doesn't comment on status updates often. For anyone. And the whole time we were together he only commented on my statuses once. So to see it twice in 2 weeks seems weird to me. The first time he commented, I responded directly to him and he didn't respond back. The next time he commented (2 days ago), I basically ignored his comment. His comment was useless and pointless and I feel like he was just kind of poking me by showing up on my page. I was hoping that maybe I would get a text or an e-mail or maybe even a phone call but I haven't.

Am I reading too much into this or is this him starting to come back around? I was thinking of texting him but I'm kind of terrified of being rejected or having him think that I'm crazy. But I mean, if he knew that I was still interested and he wasn't, he would stay far far away from me on facebook wouldn't he? He is very shy and timid and a bit insecure. He was terrified to talk to me when we first met I had to approach him first. Is this him telling me to approach him again??

What does this mean?!?!?!

I was in a very intense and fast moving 3 month relationship with a guy that ended 2 months ago when he dumped me. He dumped me because he said we weren't compatible but I'm pretty sure it was because I acted pretty coldly towards him near the end of our relationship. He wasn't getting the attention or affection he desired or needed. And he needed a lot of it. I really did like him he was just coming on way too strong for me and I ended up shutting down on him.

The day after he dumped me I sent him an e-mail apologizing for the way I treated him and I explained why I was freaking out. I asked him if I could come see him one more time. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get at me if and when he was ready. I tried to talk to him twice after that. Once through text and once through e-mail. Both times I got no response. That was within the first month. I figured he just lost all interest and I blew my shot so I had no other choice but to move on. I was making progress on moving on. I miss him but I have no other choice so I have to get over it.

We stayed friends on facebook and in the last two weeks he has posted comments on my status updates twice. He doesn't comment on status updates often. For anyone. And the whole time we were together he only commented on my statuses once. So to see it twice in 2 weeks seems weird to me. The first time he commented, I responded directly to him and he didn't respond back. The next time he commented (2 days ago), I basically ignored his comment. His comment was useless and pointless and I feel like he was just kind of poking me by showing up on my page. I was hoping that maybe I would get a text or an e-mail or maybe even a phone call but I haven't.

Am I reading too much into this or is this him starting to come back around? I was thinking of texting him but I'm kind of terrified of being rejected or having him think that I'm crazy. But I mean, if he knew that I was still interested and he wasn't, he would stay far far away from me on facebook wouldn't he? He is very shy and timid and a bit insecure. He was terrified to talk to me when we first met I had to approach him first. Is this him telling me to approach him again??

What does this mean?!?!?!

I was in a very intense and fast moving 3 month relationship with a guy that ended 2 months ago when he dumped me. He dumped me because he said we weren't compatible but I'm pretty sure it was because I acted pretty coldly towards him near the end of our relationship. He wasn't getting the attention or affection he desired or needed. And he needed a lot of it. I really did like him he was just coming on way too strong for me and I ended up shutting down on him.

The day after he dumped me I sent him an e-mail apologizing for the way I treated him and I explained why I was freaking out. I asked him if I could come see him one more time. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to get at me if and when he was ready. I tried to talk to him twice after that. Once through text and once through e-mail. Both times I got no response. That was within the first month. I figured he just lost all interest and I blew my shot so I had no other choice but to move on. I was making progress on moving on. I miss him but I have no other choice so I have to get over it.

We stayed friends on facebook and in the last two weeks he has posted comments on my status updates twice. He doesn't comment on status updates often. For anyone. And the whole time we were together he only commented on my statuses once. So to see it twice in 2 weeks seems weird to me. The first time he commented, I responded directly to him and he didn't respond back. The next time he commented (2 days ago), I basically ignored his comment. His comment was useless and pointless and I feel like he was just kind of poking me by showing up on my page. I was hoping that maybe I would get a text or an e-mail or maybe even a phone call but I haven't.

Am I reading too much into this or is this him starting to come back around? I was thinking of texting him but I'm kind of terrified of being rejected or having him think that I'm crazy. But I mean, if he knew that I was still interested and he wasn't, he would stay far far away from me on facebook wouldn't he? He is very shy and timid and a bit insecure. He was terrified to talk to me when we first met I had to approach him first. Is this him telling me to approach him again??

What does this mean?!?!?!

I was dating a guy for about 3 months. Stuff got crazy around the 2 month mark and the relationship quickly spiraled down hill. He ended up dumping me (over the phone). He said he wanted to stay friends and asked me to hang out with him the next night. I told him I couldn't do the next night, I needed time to process. I sent an e-mail the next day asking if I could see him at some point over the weekend. He said he wasn't sure. So I poured my heart out a little and told him I didn't have any expectations I just wanted to see him. He said "No. Not now. Not yet." That was the last I heard from him and that was about a month ago.

I still miss him like crazy!! I've tried twice in the last month to open communication, once through text and once through e-mail. He never even responded.

Why is he acting like this when he is the one that said he wanted to be friends? I really don't have any expectations that he will magically fall for me or that if we meet things will be great and perfect and how they were. I really just want some closure since he dumped me over the phone.

Guys, what's his issue? I've made up my mind that I'm not going to contact him again. I'm going to give it at least 3 months and then see if I still miss him and decide what to do then. But as of right now, I'm going eff'ing crazy!! Should I expect him to ever get in contact with me??

I was dating a guy for about 3 months. Stuff got crazy around the 2 month mark and the relationship quickly spiraled down hill. He ended up dumping me (over the phone). He said he wanted to stay friends and asked me to hang out with him the next night. I told him I couldn't do the next night, I needed time to process. I sent an e-mail the next day asking if I could see him at some point over the weekend. He said he wasn't sure. So I poured my heart out a little and told him I didn't have any expectations I just wanted to see him. He said "No. Not now. Not yet." That was the last I heard from him and that was about a month ago.

I still miss him like crazy!! I've tried twice in the last month to open communication, once through text and once through e-mail. He never even responded.

Why is he acting like this when he is the one that said he wanted to be friends? I really don't have any expectations that he will magically fall for me or that if we meet things will be great and perfect and how they were. I really just want some closure since he dumped me over the phone.

Guys, what's his issue? I've made up my mind that I'm not going to contact him again. I'm going to give it at least 3 months and then see if I still miss him and decide what to do then. But as of right now, I'm going eff'ing crazy!! Should I expect him to ever get in contact with me??

I was dating a guy for about 3 months. Stuff got crazy around the 2 month mark and the relationship quickly spiraled down hill. He ended up dumping me (over the phone). He said he wanted to stay friends and asked me to hang out with him the next night. I told him I couldn't do the next night, I needed time to process. I sent an e-mail the next day asking if I could see him at some point over the weekend. He said he wasn't sure. So I poured my heart out a little and told him I didn't have any expectations I just wanted to see him. He said "No. Not now. Not yet." That was the last I heard from him and that was about a month ago.

I still miss him like crazy!! I've tried twice in the last month to open communication, once through text and once through e-mail. He never even responded.

Why is he acting like this when he is the one that said he wanted to be friends? I really don't have any expectations that he will magically fall for me or that if we meet things will be great and perfect and how they were. I really just want some closure since he dumped me over the phone.

Guys, what's his issue? I've made up my mind that I'm not going to contact him again. I'm going to give it at least 3 months and then see if I still miss him and decide what to do then. But as of right now, I'm going eff'ing crazy!! Should I expect him to ever get in contact with me??

I was dating a guy for two and a half months. Last weds (5 days ago) he dumped me. He said he didn't think we were compatible for anything more serious. But he wanted to be friends. He even asked me to keep plans to come see a movie with him the next night. I told him no, that I can' be just friends with him.

I can't say the breakup was completely a shock. We were having tensions for about 2 weeks before that. I was kind of standoffish to him because I thought we were moving too fast n(he wanted to spend entire weekends at my apartment), he responded to that by talking to me less and less and not including me in his plans anymore. That made things tense all around between us and we both stopped acting like ourselves. I was willing to ride out the rough spot though. He wasn't.

The next day I sent him an e-mail and I asked to see him one more time for dinner on sat, my treat. He said "No. At least not now. Not yet." I told him to take his time and get back at me when he felt like it. But I can't help myself. I'm crazy about him. I actually bought him a gift for our 3 monthiversary a day before the dumping happened. Keeping it here was driving me crazy. So on saturday I put it in an evelope with a note explaining what it was, it wasn't returnable and I didn't want to hang on to it. I signed off with a keep in touch. I haven't heard anything from him about it. I mean that's just rude right??? Not even a quick e-mail saying he got it.

To me this all seems a little over dramatic for a guy that just kind of lost interest. I think I may have really hurt him somehow that he is acting like this. He doesnt like talking about feelings and I'm pretty sure he would never say anything if I did. Things were so hot and heavy on his end up until like 2 weeks before he ended it. It's impossible for those feelings to fade that fast isn't it? I mean you don't go from wanting to spend a four day weekend together to I'm never going to talk to you again in 2 weeks....

So guy's, what should I do? I sent him another e-mail today asking if he got my envelope and I've heard nothing. Should I write him off as a jerk and cut my losses? I know that if there is anything salvagable in this relationship I have to give him his space but I can't act like I don't care...

Do you think I hurt him? Or does he really just hate me all of a sudden???