Pat

There's this girl i've been dating for around two months. We have great chemistry and we're sexually active. The thing is though, I feel like she is already in a relationship with another guy, and is hiding him from me. He lives about 4 hours away, and the last time she went to visit him was before we started talking.

Until now, or atleast that's what I'm thinking.

When we first met when we were both out with mutual friends, she and I hit it off very nice. However her roommate/best friend told me she already had a boyfriend. I took it as she just wanted to hookup and I was fine with that. But it went from that to sleeping with me everynight and acting like we were in a relationship in front of her and my friends (calling me baby, PDA, etc). I managed to ask her about the guy one night and she seemed upset and said she's not with him and she didnt want to talk about it.

Well he tried to call her one morning when she was showing me something on her phone. She didnt hesitate to ignore it, but i didnt say anything. That night she said she was going out of town this weekend because it was something she had planned for a while, and friends from her old college were on spring break. Sketch right?

So at first I thought she was really done with the guy and on me, but I now im concerned shes throwing me for a loop. I have no concrete evidence of anything. What should I do?

I'm in a very complicated situation with my ex-girlfriend.

I met this girl this summer on a Study Abroad trip. We quickly became close friends after carpooling 3 hours to the Atlanta airport together from our college's town. At the start of the trip sparks started flying very quickly, and by the end of the trip we had already become intimate. Afterwards I had to leave for 2 weeks to other places while she stayed back at school. Everyday we texted/called/skyped many times throughout the day. She told me about how much she missed me, how happy i made her, how she hoped we lasted. I said the same things. I came back and for the next couple of weeks, we had the greatest time, spent it all together. Then she had to spend the next two weeks at her sorority house getting prepared for rush and all that stuff. I stayed with her every night that I could, but one night I didn't and the next morning she dumped me over a text message. She told me that I wasn't her type, that I forced her into the relationship, i liked her way more than she did I, and that she just went along with things to make me happy. She said she still liked me, but wanted to be friends. I haven't been taking it well, and she hasn't spoken to me much since.

We were so into each other, very intimate, and among other things happy. I've never been in love before, but I think I am with her. It was a short relationship, but I've never felt this way about another girl before in my life. We're sort of talking now, but she is still being very short with me. I've kinda let her be, but I miss her smile, laying with her, kissing her, just plain being with her. No one in my life has made me so happy, and now I don't know what to do.

I've been with other girls, but she seems like the right one. Should I try to let her go? Should I wait it out and see if she's just stressed out with things right now? I'm so confused, because I've never wanted to be with a girl so much after a break-up.

I've been dating this girl for almost two months. We've had a great relationship thus far until this past weekend. We spent the weekend together and while it went well, I irritated her a little bit just by being around her apparantly. The next few days we didnt talk really until last night. I went over after work and we talked it out and she told me I'm too clingy and she needed space, when for the past two months she was just as into it as I was, tell me things like I'm perfect and how lucky she was to be with me. I agreed that we needed space. As I went to leave to go home she then asked me to stay the night. I stayed, and I left the next morning and she went on and on about how she wished I was still there. Then we talked later, and now she's being shady again. I don't know what to make from her right now. She obviously doesn't want to break up with me, but at other times she's it seems like she's unhappy im not there with her. I just want to make her happy. I dont know how to interpret whats she telling me. Any one have any ideas?

There's this girl I met a while ago, but more recently we've become closer. She lives about 3-4 hours away. A while ago she came to visit and now we're even closer. I talk to her almost everyday in some sort of way, but I with my college and work and her college trying to start a relationship with her right now wouldn't work too well. Over the summer we have plenty of plans and she's thinking about transferring down to my school. My question is, should I wait for us to be able to see each other more, or is it a bad idea to even think about a relationship. We haven't even gone over that idea yet, and I don't know if I should bring it up.