Steve

It was written initially as just a poem but I decided to record it as a song. I’d love to hear people’s opinions — https://open.spotify.com/track/6GpfwAETf5eI0femhm3...

It began initially as just a poem but I decided to record as a song. I’d like to hear people’s opinions - https://open.spotify.com/track/6GpfwAETf5eI0femhm3...

I’d love to hear people’s opinions. The link is here: 

https://open.spotify.com/track/6GpfwAETf5eI0femhm3...

It started as a written poem but I decided to sing & record it. I’d love to hear people’s opinions. The link is here:

https://open.spotify.com/track/6GpfwAETf5eI0femhm3...

I’m doing a thesis into how patterns have changed over time. Certainly, when I was young and growing up, it was still considered normal and acceptable for a parent to inflict physical punishment upon a child if they were misbehaving.

Did you guys experience smacking etc as kids? And what decade were you born/did you grow up in?

I’m doing a thesis into how patterns have changed over time. Certainly, when I was young and growing up, it was still considered normal and acceptable for a parent to inflict physical punishment upon a child if they were misbehaving.

Did you guys experience smacking etc as kids? And what decade were you born/did you grow up in?

I’m doing a thesis into how patterns have changed over time. Certainly, when I was young and growing up, it was still considered normal and acceptable for a parent to inflict physical punishment upon a child if they were misbehaving.

Did you guys experience smacking etc as kids? And what decade were you born/did you grow up in?

I’m doing a thesis into how patterns have changed over time. Certainly, when I was young and growing up, it was still considered normal and acceptable for a parent to inflict physical punishment upon a child if they were misbehaving.

Did you guys experience smacking etc as kids? And what decade were you born/did you grow up in?

So I’ve been dating this guy for a month now and I’d really like to do something nice for New Year but all the ideas I can think of or have seen promoted online are for couples who have been together a long time - like city breaks or hotel weekends. We’re not quite at that stage yet.

Does anyone have any other ideas?

I’m really interested to know where people stand with this. Is it acceptable or too soon? An explanation would be wonderful too :)

I’ve been with my boyfriend almost a year. I love him so incredibly much. When things are good, they couldn’t be much better. But when they’re not, I feel very alone in the relationship. Since the beginning of the relationship I’ve struggled to get emotion from him. There’s little affection - verbal or non-verbal, I usually have to be the one to facilitate.

I thought with encouragement & patience I’d be able to make him open up a bit more... this hasn’t been the case. He’s a bit older than me (23) but it feels like he’s much younger.

He avoids adult conversations & committing.

He’s moving with his family to the other side of the country - when I’ve asked about the future & how we’d make it work, he simply said “Idk”. Even getting basic affection from him is almost impossible unless I say things first.

When I’m at his place, he spends a lot of the time checking Facebook or playing games. Even small things like going on dates - I’ve always had to go the extra distance to meet him since he’s been disinclined to spend much money.

I’ve been trying so hard to be understanding - I know not all men find it easy to be emotionally literate. But it’s difficult being with a man who’s so unwilling to emotionally invest & commit.

Sometimes I think I could do better or date someone who appreciates me more. But the truth is, I love him despite his faults. I don’t want anyone else. I just wish I was prioritised by him & treated as though I’m actually in a relationship with him.

I’ve been with my boyfriend almost a year. I love him so incredibly much. When things are good, they couldn’t be much better. But when they’re not, I feel very alone in the relationship. Since the beginning of the relationship I’ve struggled to get emotion from him. There’s little affection - verbal or non-verbal, I usually have to be the one to facilitate.

I thought with encouragement & patience I’d be able to make him open up a bit more... this hasn’t been the case. He’s a bit older than me (23) but it feels like he’s much younger.

He avoids adult conversations & committing.

He’s moving with his family to the other side of the country - when I’ve asked about the future & how we’d make it work, he simply said “Idk”. Even getting basic affection from him is almost impossible unless I say things first.

When I’m at his place, he spends a lot of the time checking Facebook or playing games. Even small things like going on dates - I’ve always had to go the extra distance to meet him since he’s been disinclined to spend much money.

I’ve been trying so hard to be understanding - I know not all men find it easy to be emotionally literate. But it’s difficult being with a man who’s so unwilling to emotionally invest & commit.

Sometimes I think I could do better or date someone who appreciates me more. But the truth is, I love him despite his faults. I don’t want anyone else. I just wish I was prioritised by him & treated as though I’m actually in a relationship with him.

I’ve been with my boyfriend almost a year. I love him so incredibly much. When things are good, they couldn’t be much better. But when they’re not, I feel very alone in the relationship. Since the beginning of the relationship I’ve struggled to get emotion from him. There’s little affection - verbal or non-verbal, I usually have to be the one to facilitate.

I thought with encouragement & patience I’d be able to make him open up a bit more... this hasn’t been the case. He’s a bit older than me (23) but it feels like he’s much younger.

He avoids adult conversations & committing.

He’s moving with his family to the other side of the country - when I’ve asked about the future & how we’d make it work, he simply said “Idk”. Even getting basic affection from him is almost impossible unless I say things first.

When I’m at his place, he spends a lot of the time checking Facebook or playing games. Even small things like going on dates - I’ve always had to go the extra distance to meet him since he’s been disinclined to spend much money.

I’ve been trying so hard to be understanding - I know not all men find it easy to be emotionally literate. But it’s difficult being with a man who’s so unwilling to emotionally invest & commit.

Sometimes I think I could do better or date someone who appreciates me more. But the truth is, I love him despite his faults. I don’t want anyone else. I just wish I was prioritised by him & treated as though I’m actually in a relationship with him.

Okay so I've been chatting to this guy that I really like for almost the last two months. We met online.

I really feel as if something could happen with this guy.

Only problem is I have no idea whether he is a top or bottom. I know it's not wise to go by stereotypes either just in case my assumptions turn out to be wrong!

I'm too scared to ask whether they're a top or bottom. If it's the answer is one that doesn't suit both of us, this could really throw a spanner in the works! I really like him and don't want to jeopardise this!

Also, up until this point, sex hasn't really been discussed in depth. It's been hinted at though.

Advice please, boys.. and girls too for that matter! Any advice would be appreciated.

How can I go about asking the question without too much awkwardness?